Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date UpdateWhen you think of a moment of passion on a first date, just one might be enough to secure a second date. But THREE happened on today's listener's date and she’s BAFFLED over why she’s not getting a call back.
Second d Remember that famous dress on the internet where no one could agree on what color it really was? Yeah, I could see it both ways. Really so progressive Brook. Apparently that's one of the things that happened on Tara's date, because apparently there was some sort of debate that her and her date couldn't agree. Oh no, it's kind of similar to the debate that we have in studio every day our Jose's pun jokes really funny or super funny? Thank you debate. Sorry, we're gonna find out what happened with Tara though. Let's talk with her. Welcome the show, Tara. Hey, guys, thanks for having me. Oh my god, are you having pun problems? Because I can help you, Tara. No, it's doesn't have to do with puns. It's something else. Oh alright, we're experts in it though. But I love that you got in a fight on your first date, is what it sounds like. Tell us about the guy that you went out with, so I met him on mine Sames Ian? Okay, okay, were you excited about Ian? I mean you sound kind of like hopefully she was excited. Hopefully excited. Some hog girls are like another nine another day. Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I kind of call it free food stamps, you know, like if it's my weekly food. All right, they should make that dating app Yeah. So wait, were you looking forward to more than a free meal with Ian? Yeah? I mean he seems really great. We seem his vibe. We had a lot in common. I was explaining, you know, okay, so how does an argument come up on date one? It's complicated. So we both agreed to meet up in his park. And like peopleth love going on a long walk, so I figured there's no beach nearby, so bad as well just walk in the park. That's not just a cliche that people say. I think people actually enjoy it. Okay, all right, so you're gonna go walk in for your first date. So the plan was to walk for a while so that we can end up at a restaurant. Okay, that's better. I like walking to food work up an appetite too. Okay, so how does that go? So, like, on the way to dinner, we passed this really cool farmer's market. It was a couple of fruit stands, and I said, oh, look, let's grab a couple of small oranges. Yeah, and he hates sorges happen. No, get this, he said, Oh no, um, those are actually clementines. Oh clementines. Yeah, they're almost like cute. Okay, he corrected you. Yeah, and I said the same thing. They're just oranges, just small, you know. Oh yeah, did you say it with that tone? I mean, I don't know, I can get a little sassy, but yeah, I think you've been that, he corrected me. I agree with you on that, right. Yeah. She was adamant about this, and we started a whole wo wow, okay, how I mean, how do you go back and forth on this argument for that log? Like? How long did it last? Maybe like four to five minutes. We got over that eventually, and I was just like, you know, let's just try about something off. Oh wow, well that's good but interesting. Yeah, but then you're just there, like it's just still sitting with you. Yeah, you know, that's always a healthy phrase to utter on a first date, like okay, let's just stop fighting and move on. Yeah, I mean even on the date. Yet technically hopefully you did move on. Yeah we did. And okay, we're walking past like general streets, and we walked past like a parked motorcycle and he stops to look at it for a while. He told me he always wanted to get on Okay, Oh he's a bad boy, or he's just trying to show off, like motorcycle. But I'm a nurse, so I said, oh, you've always wanted to die. Yeah, that's my mom's response to after being an EMT for fourteen years. Yeah. So it led to another fight that on. Them were arguing a little bit like we got over that, you know, to each pharaoh? Can I ask, I mean, you're calling to get another date with this guy? Do you like him? You guys, I sound like you vibe at all. Yeah, I vibe with him. I just think we both have strong personalities. Okay, but you want to give it another chance? So is there like a good part of the day. Yeah, let's get to some of the happy moments at the restaurant. Oh goodness, Well, we never ended up going to the restaurant. You didn't why, So we ended up finding a lost dog wandering the street. So we both felt bad and we stopped to help it. Oh, you finally agree on something though you have a common gold. This is good the lost dog, but you disagreed on what breed of dog. It was, well, kind of disagree because I thought we should bring a hog, give a food, make sure it's safe, and call the owners. Like, no, we need to stay here with the dog and wait to see if someone comes by. Did you just call like animals yet there? Do you want to put it down? Why would you do that to control? I'd like to call the owners because I'd like to see if I could find someone in the area, would you. Well, I just kind of stayed with the dog, like I found its caller on it. So I tried to call the owners, but no one really answered. Oh what do you do? Then you adopted at that point together as a couple. Well, I ended up convincing him to make fires, in which he did at I can't go down the street, so I guess there's something good about him. Well turned into a rescue mission. If you guys took a picture in your phone and started putting up flyers, yeah, I mean for an hour later somebody called about the dog after we made the fires. I was kind of out. Guys, you put a dog in front of your guys's quarrels and your date and you decided to do a humanitarian thing. Well, a dog humanitarian. Sure, sure cute after the owner picked up the dog. I mean is that when the date ended? Yeah, I wanted to eat like a late dinner with him, but he said he was exhausted, so probably mentally all right, so that was that was the end of the night. Then, yeah, I mean since then we only texted a little bit. He hasn't really asked me out. But look, I oh, you have texted. I think a lot of people texting in are saying, like, what, why did she even want a second date? Listen, I get it. This is one of those random nights where nothing kind of went right and you just want to redo. If I'm assuming correctly, Yeah, I mean I don't mind a fire he romance. I kind of help that. Yeah, that's it. Nothing says hot like Clementine versus. Yeah. Alright, let's get another argument going. When we reach out to eating ourselves, we'll call him and we'll get your second date update coming up right after this. Okay, thanks, gay hold on, it's the long awaited sequel to Three Weddings in a Funeral, Three argue humans, and a stray dog. That's what happened on Terra's date the other night, Because on the way of the restaurant. Her and Ian argued over our clementines clementines or just baby oranges, our motorcycles, fun or human pancakes waiting to happen? And finally, what do you do when you find a stray dog? Do you stay with it out on the street or take it home and raise it as your own for years and years until the owner finally finds you. Sounds like a terrible version of that what if game? Yeah, yeah, if it's already a stray if you leave it, isn't it like? Okay, we're not here to debate that. We're here to get We've had enough arguments going on on their date. We're just trying to get them to dinner because they never even ended up making it to the restaurant that night. Yeah, luckily we have we have gift cards to any restaurant that you would like, twenty five dollars or under. Okay, so that choice is yours if we can get Ian on the line. Are you ready to do this? Yeah? Oh nervous, but okay, Well, well that's good. It means you care, don't worry. You got your first three fights out of the way, so sail it in. This relationship after that, as far as brook relationship goes, only three hundred thousand more that you have to make it, Jeffrey. That's how you know it's real. I agree with some men on this show. I agree with you that. Okay, here we go, Tar, I'm gonna die. Ian. Let's see what he has to say. Hello, Hey, it was kind of aggressive, is this Ian? Hey, you are lucky enough to be speaking to one of the top rated morning shows in North America. No, that's real. According to pole that my mom did recently, we're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay, why are you guys calling me? Okay, you're a little fight see but we've heard that actually before from one of our listeners who wanted us to get a hold of you. Her name's Tara. Do you want on a date with Tara the other night? Okay? So this is about about Tara? Yeah, yeah, this is a segment we do call the second Date Update. We're trying to help Tara and you reconnect and finally make it to a restaurant for dinner because we heard you never made it the other night. No, we didn't. We never made it out to dinner. Unfortunately, So unfortunately means you kind of wanted to spend more time with Tara. How was the date to you? She said, you guys went on a long walk. I mean it was nice enough. Um, just kind of like it's a little spiky, you know what I mean? Like everything just felt a little bit sharp around the edges. And I don't feel like we really click. Are you talking about when you guys got into an argument over clementines because spino clementines are smooth on the outside. They don't have that's more of a pineapple. Okay, okay, okay, mister funny guy. Yeah, we heard that you guys had a few TIFFs over some fruits and over motorcycles. And I'm gonna say, like, I mean, you're on a first date with someone, why correct them on if they call a clementine an orange? Like why why not just leave it alone? Who cares about facts, It's just not the timing, Like, let's go off feelings. I didn't mean to make a big deal of it when she said orange, I was like, Oh, I think they're clementine. I don't think she read it that way when you said it. I know she didn't read it that way, because she was like, no, it's an orange. She's the one that started the fight. You were just stating the truth, you know, like when you have a fight on Facebook. Yeah, and it's like, Okay, you're not going to change your mind even though you know you're wrong. Fine, Like I'm not gonna try. Well, none of us are sixty years old and over, so we don't really fight on Facebook. Does get a little fight? Yeah? Should do with the old people on Facebook? You give them old sketchy linked that anybody could have made up to prove your point. I mean, so you're saying that you just wish you felt like she was just digging her heels in just to argue. Yeah. I felt like she couldn't be wrong and I couldn't be right. Okay, you know what I mean? Yeah, okay, but that's most relationships between men and women. I mean, let's let's put all the arguments aside, because I don't want to get into the minutia of it. But like, overall, just your connection with her, Tara felt like the two of you kind of arguing back and forth was a sign that you have passion. Could you see it from that perspective? Maybe I'm gonna be honest with you guys. Nope, no, okay, there wasn't any point that you're like, Wow, there's so much spice. I just want to lean in and kiss her. I felt like I had to like have my guard up the whole time because she's gonna call me out on something like them. You know again, you don't want to get into the minutia, but like, yeah, is she right about motorcycle? Sure? You know, we could argue that all day and night just between us, but let's have Tara weigh in on it, because she's actually on the other line and wants to tell you that motorcycles are death on wheels. Tara, isn't that true? Yeah? I mean I used to work at a spinal clinic. She may win that argument. Yes, true fact. Yeah. Now can we try and focus, Tara? Why don't you say hello to your lover boy? Look, I probably was a little harsh there. I didn't realize you're on the line. I feel like maybe next time it better learned before talking to strangers. Oh is that pretty? I think so? So are you telling me what to do now when I'm on the phone. I don't know. I just like to argue but ok, okay, so that's an honest statement. Yeah. Yeah, so Tara, in your mind, arguing with somebody is a good thing. Definitely. It's passionate and like you want a passionate person, And you're like, if you don't want someone who doesn't have any aspirations, but wouldn't you want some sort of balance, like instead of constantly arguing me? Ian, what do you think about terror's opinion on the disagreements that you had? Can we meet halfway there? It is, have half of an argument with her and then concede. It's not about that for me. Like, that's not what passion looks like for me. What does passion look like to you? It means like being in like attracted to each other, being passionate, you know, not fighting. Yeah, fighting isn't passion. I mean it's a form and not good for me. Now I'm with him on that one. Okay, Well, I have pictures on my phone of what passion looks like that I could text to both of you and maybe one of you will come onto my side. Yeah. No, no pictures to listeners, to strangers, not to ean No, no, no one's going to argue about how passionate these phones. I believe you. I don't need to see that. Well, what about Tara and Ian and you? Either of you want some photos? Oh, I'm all start I'm coming on your side over Okay, An, I'm just saying this, like, let's just say we were married, Like at least we know on the first date that we have passion and like a little bit of arguing. It's not like years later you're practicing the arguments for your future marriage. Yeah, hypotheticals always really healthy, never lead to arguments. Ian, Yeah, I don't. I don't know what to say to that. Okay, Yeah, well maybe maybe the right thing is let's not talking hypotheticals. Ian, would you like to marry Tara? Second date? Second? We will pay for that. I'm just talking about a date here, twenty five dollar wedding with an Applebee's gift card on us. I do have my marriage license. I can marry you, guys, or if you're not into the wedding idea, just a date, a regular date. We could do that too. See it doesn't sound so bad when you compared to a wed. This is an easy step. Just the fact that I was called out here onto the radio. It's like so confrontational to me. It's not what I'm looking for. Guys, Look, I'm sure you're great, but all right, so yourself, we're not right. And I thought we were pretty cool and chill during this whole thing. Yeah, okay, Well it sounds like Tara said no before you could get your no wins, So I think Tara wins this argument. Okay. On the same Jeffrey in the morning, you know, that had the opportunity to be the most wild twist we've ever heard on a second date. If that guy had just said, you know what, yeah, I could be married to her. Can you imagine said stout whatever happened to in the dating world anymore, to take a chance and letting fate decide it was a healthy relationship. Boy. It just made me think of how passion, How much passion is in Brooks marriage. A lot there is. There's gonna be a ton of passion when Brooko's home tonight and tells her husband to do the laundry again because he didn't use enough softener the first go round. That's called passion. If it didn't play semi soft. This doesn't smell right, Michael. We are all jealous of Brooke and her relationship. Too bad it didn't work out for them. Yeah, wait, too bad, I mean the college didn't work out for the college. Brook and her husband are a okay, And if you want to be a okay, you can always reach out to us. Email the show. 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