The guy in today’s Second Date made his date sit through 7 minutes of uninterrupted silence as a way of BONDING them closer together? Did it work? Probably not… but we’ll talk to him in the podcast anyway!
Second date. They say, if you truly love something, you need to set it free. Yeah, and then if it comes back to you, that shows you're really soulmates. Yeah. I've heard that, and she's not listening. It hasn't worked for Jose, but someone has come back to us after we let them go when they fell short for a second date from a few months back. A little birdie back in our nest. His name is Logan. Logan, you came back? Does mean we're soulmates? Yes? I returned to you, guys a little clinger. Last time Logan was on, he got delayed at the airport and ended up spending about four hours with a woman at the airport bar. And it was really, really good for about the first five minutes until she said Logan got a little bit on her nerves. Yeah, I want to get into too much detail about it. But she spent the next like three minutes basically roasting him for being annoying and clinging. I cannot believe you come back. You must be doing something right now because you lock down another date for yourself. Who was it with this time? This girl named Megan? All right, what did you and Megan do for a date? Well, First of all, let me just precius this all with I learned some very valuable things from my first debacle at the airport therapy. Okay, what'd you take away? One is that my perspective of who I am when I get drunk is completely different than someone else's perspective. So that actually takes a lifetime for some people to learn. You're even better when you're drunk, right, Yeah, yeah, in my mind, I'm in a tuxedo tap dancing on a table. In reality, I just like crashed on something birthday cake too, So is the perspective now? You wanted to tone it down on the booze a little bit this time around? Yes, So what I said to Megan, I said, I said, you know, I'm working on myself. I'm learning about myself. So I want to go on a date with you. We're gonna get some dinner, and um, I have one drink minimal. Oh wait yeah, one drink maximum. Sorry, Okay, Well, I mean, why did you feel like you had to tell her that? Why didn't you just do that? You know, I was just letting her in on the fact that I'm like a guy who's under construction, but I'm working on some stuff a project women. What did she think about that? Was she cool with it? She seemed funch. I said, you, I just want to have one drink. I want to get to know you. I want to be able to listen. So I suggested this fun, almost like a game. I said, for the first thirty minutes of our date, we are only going to pass notes to each other. That way, everything that's being said or communicated is really focused and important. You know about well, you want to work on your listening. But passing notes doesn't involve any listening whatsoever. That's more of the reading and writing aspect, which is still also good to work on. What did she say to that idea? She thought it was cute. It seems like a a good reaction. Oh wow, So that we started getting into things. You know, what matters to you, what's important to you? List three things into this and this is all being written down. It sounds like a lot of writing. You could have texted this before the date, I know. But we're there and we're looking into each other's eyes and she starts getting in on this popcorn thing. This just a dog named popcorn. Okay, there's an appetizer at the table. You know, yes, I started getting excited. So she was like scribbling down popcorn, popcorn, this, popcorn that, and I was, you know, I just sent her back like, you know, more question mark question because I didn't believe how much popcorn is coming at me? Um drink for thirty minutes. No, it didn't, it did not. I've really overblew that estimate. It was about maybe five to seven minutes in God, and it's like, um, I'm getting writers camp. Can we point to your face? Left you on red? Just folded the note. So at that point, after five whatever seven minutes, you decided to transfer back to normal vocal conversation. Yes, and then and then at that point it was like, okay, so my little cute attempts obviously felt a little not short, but we adjusted them. So then so then I also lifted the one drink man a moment, I was like, okay, you know what, no rules see there go, Yeah, you're adapting. You know, if you would have said, well, no, I did not break the rules and I forced us for thirty minute, then of course that's the reason I feel like he caved to all of it, Like it's like you set up all these rules for yourself, Logan, I mean, were you having fun? Yeah? For sure. It was like how many people go out and just do the same mundane thing. This was like something that was memorable. So I was having a good time. What about her? Yeah, she was having a good time maybe and maybe something like we don't understand the vibe, like you had to be there to feel what was going on between them. Yeah. You know, if you ever watched like that Net like show Wednesday, Yeah, the Adams Family off, the lead actress is always just sitting there like just with her eyes, like looking back and forth and around. Was like Wednesday Adams and the show. No, I'm just saying that there's a lot to be communicated with eyes and just you know, she puts like fear and so in your opinion, in your opinion Logan, no, speed bumps, I don't think so. No, it was good. I got a nice hug at the end, and I was like, okay, yeah, we had a good time. But then I was setting up a second day and she was like, oh, yeah, I'm busy for the next couple of days or you know, this week is really bad. Next week, so she yeah, I couldn't read. Is she's blowing me off. If you think that you had a good time, we totally believe you on it, and we want to help you get another date here with Megan with your favorite pimpal. Yeah, so we're gonna call Wednesday Adams here in just a second. First, we're gonna play a song come back, and then get your second date update right after this. All right, hold on, man se. We're in the middle of a second date update with a good friend of the show named Logan, and it's not his first time doing one of these with us. I'm playing the Adams Family theme song because he described his date with a girl named Megan like Wednesday Adams the Netflix series, meaning during their dinner they did a lot of staring, a lot of brooding and nonverbal communicating, which was extremely healthy. Yes, it's a little bit fearful, but healthy. I mean Tim Burton told her not to blink in that show ever, because it was creepier. Sure, I get it. It may sound a little out of the ordinary to most people, but Logan did end up getting a hug and the only thing he hasn't gotten is another date. So we're about to call Megan up here, and I just want to get your approval logan before we do this to use verbal communication with her? Is that okay? With you? Stamped? I stamped my approval right if not? Honestly, you know, I felt bad for you the first time that we did a second date update. But I think you're such a good person and confident in who you are, You're going to be able to bounce back from this no matter what she says. Yeah, thank you. Put that on a note card and send it over to Okay, let's just dial her number and we'll see what Megan has to say. Here, are you ready? I stay quiet, goode until until we need you to speak up. That's really important. You, of all people, know how this works. All right here here he goes, Hello, Hi, this is jeff from Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Blink twice. If this is Megan, please how much you see her? Wait? I'm I'm sorry who's calling? That was definitely yeah? I laughed at that, Megan. I'm a funny PERSONA Hey, Megan, so you're on the radio right now on a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh I thought this was a prank call. Yeah, better than that. We also do those. So we're pretty scareotypical morning radio. We don't normally introduce ourselves well before we do that, right, you're gonna find we're pretty bad at our jobs. Here. One thing we're kind of good at, though, is helping people get another date. Okay, you're calling me about a date? Yes, yeah, a date you went on with a guy named Logan. Oh yeah, I remember Logan. Yeah, he's a good friend of ours. Actually, i'd say he seems like a nice guy. Um, yeah, I mean I would say he's a he's a nice guy. Okay, all right, we're starting off on the right foot. Anything more. Because he told us a little bit about the date and we teased him a little. Actually, I personally thought it was kind of a fun creative idea for you to pass notes to each other. What did you think of it? Yeah, I mean that part of the date was was actually nice. You know, I like the guy that's willing to just improve themselves and try new things. Um, but there was just something weird that happened on the date. So was it one of the notes that he passed? Actually maybe it was that you what do you mean? How do you not know? If it was written down or well, it came it came to the point where we had to order, and at that point we had stopped. You know, we didn't just pass note to the whole date, right, he said it only lasted like five to seven minutes or something in the beginning. Yeah, and that was nice. But it came to the point where we had to order and the waitress that showed up to our table, and he wrote a note to the waitress. And I have no idea what he wrote to her, but like she started giggling right away. Maybe some dietary restrictions that he has, he's free, she's making fun of him. I don't know. I was just it was very flirty to me, and I immediately felt uncomfortable. I felt uncomfortable because I didn't know what he wrote, and I was like, we were just doing this great thing together and now you're writing her note? Right, what's going on here? And that was like his whole preface too, is like I'm doing this because I want to get to know you, and then suddenly he also wants to get to know the waitress. Is that how you read it? Yeah? Exactly. I was like, does he know her? Like, what's what's going on here and then you know, she wrote a note back and hit oh yeah, yeah, and she gave him a fifth bump to wait, what did it say? Did you ask him? I mean, I would have been so curious. Yeah, I asked him and he said he was like it's a secret, and like I ended joking way, but I'm like, I'm sitting right next to you. Yeah, okay, Well I'll just tell you, Megan that we weren't aware that that happened, that there was anything going on between Logan and the waitress. Yeah, we didn't call her on another line. Something that you're not aware of, probably unless you have a really good sixth sense, is that Logan has been listening quietly on the other line this entire time, and he wants to talk to you with his voice. Oh no, are you serious. It's a good thing, Megan, hi Ole's to sing it to you. I guess this is your chance to get the bottom of what was going on. Yeah, I'm like pulling my hair out here. I feel like I'm in a bumper car and I'm focused. I'm in a bumper car and I'm focused going forward, and then I just get bam hit from the side. Analogy visit imagination. But let's bring it back to uh, let's talk about the notes that you were passing with the waitress Logan. I am floored. I am such an idiot. I cannot believe that I didn't pick up on that that looked bad. Like I literally I was in such a high I from doing the note passing, and I thought it was so cute that I thought it was neat to just be like, oh, here comes to waitress, We're including her in the game for a second. Yeah, And you know, I thought maybe she'd passed a note. Megan, I's like, you'd passed a note to the waitress if you wanted to the whole restaurant pass a note to each other. All I wrote was like playing a note game with my date. What's good or what's your favorite? And she wrote shrimp taco and you fist bumped over shrimp tacos. Laugh. I said, I was like fo show or something like a little job. I was like, PHO show shrimp you know something, and she goes, she goes, yes favorite, and then I was like done, how much? Wow? Okay, well do you believe him? Yeah? I was not getting the vibe that this was something like fun, and it was a game that the whole restaurant could have been involved in. I mean, you made it seem to me like you were trying to improve yourself and you were trying to prove to me that you know, you had interest in me and you wanted to kind of get to know me better. That's what I thought. So it's just your action did not make sense to me. I should have showed you the note. I thought I was being cute when I was like, oh, it's a secret, Like to me, it didn't mean anything. You can ask these wonderful radio personalities. We talked about the date thoroughly. Not once did I even consider the waitress as being anything. That's because you were hiding Logan that you secretly got her phone number on one of the notes. Jeff, I mean, it's what a lot of people were thinking. Be honest, Logan, did you get the waitress's number? Absolutely not. I mean to me, if I asked, probably, oh, are you trying to make your jealous? What are you doing? Why would you say that? I was trying to be charming and I and I thought it's this other girl was giggling. I thought it was points for me. Like, oh, people like him. Clearly I was wrong. Don't churn other women when you're on a date. Told me, I'm a I'm a charismatic, charming guy. You and I have the same curse. Okay, we make everyone we talked to laugh sometimes bare that Megan. I know that this is a lot coming at you, but from my perspective, it's just like you're going out with a guy who's just very charming to a lot of people, naturally very likable. He doesn't even try to do it. He's just kind of that type of person. And is that something that is a little bit intimidating to you? Is he too charming? No, I don't think anybody can be too charming. We've had on the dating segment multiple times. Women love him. I'm doing him that's helpful. Way he was on here before with different ladies. Oh no, Yeah, he's a wanted man. I'm sorry. I just meant you know, you're lovable and just trying to make a point about him. To be fair, that one with a lot worse than this one's going yet. Yeah, he is making strides towards improved. Okay, we got to stop like chit chatting about this. And just get you two out on another date. Seriously. Yes, and Megan, they said they're gonna pay for it. They're gonna take us to it. They're gonna have to go to a nice place. That's my job. But yeah, Logan has done this so many times he can pretty much do it him. Sorry. Yeah, I'm trying to I'm trying to get to the action. So Megan, what do you say one more date with Logan on us? Yes? Um, I think you guys are hilarious. Um, and Logan, like, I get where you're coming from. Like I would rather have a guy be super charismatic and funny and kind of have everybody like him rather than being, you know, a dork that you know doesn't have any confidence or boring. YouTube may be made for each other. Yeah, so that's happening. Um, I think I'll do it. Let's go out again. Thank you so much. It takes a team, it takes a village, and you guys are my my my true ones there looking Jeffrey in the morning. Okay, I'm gonna say this and I mean it in the nicest way possible. Oh boy, I hope we never ever hear from Logan ever again, because I want this thing to work out between him and Megan, and he never asked for another second date update. I'm gonna be honest, I can't believe we did it. I mean, and Logan kept getting in his way. Yeah, but we got through that. I don't think I got in his way a little bit too. Yeah, it's okay, but that's what Logan does. Like even though he doesn't always say the right thing, He's just so likable you want to keep being around him and keep talking. And the good takeaway here though, is probably don't flirt with the waiter or waitress while your data is still seated at the table to say things like this, Well, don't do it while they're there. Wait until they leave to go to then you can get your fru on the check or something is a pro leave a big tip in a phone number. Anyway, I really do hope Logan and Megan go the distance. The only other time I want to hear from him is maybe for a second date update update. I how it goes to bed Steven then I want it to be very very brief, and I don't know if Logan's able to do it, but best of luck to them, and if you want help getting another date, Email us at Brooke and Jeffrey. We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.