Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date UpdateOne of our listeners met a gorgeous woman without even speaking a single word with her! In fact, he doesn’t even know what her voice sounds like. We’ll find out how he did it in a brand new Second Date podcast!
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You know, one of my favorite memories of all time is going on a road trip with my family once I turned twenty one, and all of us simultaneously yelled at our driver to stop when we saw the sign Jurassic bar.
Wait a minute, not v direct.
You were with your momy, what.
The whole family, mom, dad, and the sister.
And it was just a regular bar, but with a dinosaur themed night.
Okay, And so.
If you went in, you got a dollar off your draft if you roared like a dinosaur.
Oh that's good.
And I don't know how.
Many drinks my mom had that night, And again we had a private chaffeur, so it didn't matter.
Oh, I thought you meant like when you said driver like uber no, no, no, no, no, he's our driver, so your driver, I see.
And I'm sure our listeners have also had a lot of fun memories of certain themed nights at different pubs around the country.
And today a guy named Reid.
Sent us an email saying he believe he met the girl of his dreams recently the bar night.
I love when you relate to the regular people.
Just unfortunately no butlers in my life. Okay, there's a sirmen in my life.
Oh, I've been to one of those theme bars where it's like e r have you have you seen so?
Honestly?
And they would give you shots in uh syringes.
Yeah, when you gave birth to your children, I know you had a lot of drugs pumping through.
It wasn't a bar. Sorry about that.
Read Let's get to you and and your your date? Where did you go? What was this themed bar night?
It was very fun, very cool? A note passing night. Have you heard of one of these?
Middle school? A Lexus has officially checked out already?
Though you change my mind?
Can you explain how? How does how does it work?
So the way it actually works? When you go in, there's different tables set up. So what you can do is while you're there, you look around the tables and if you see someone that you might be interested, you can anonymously send them a note from your table.
Oh, it's like, is it like a singles event? I didn't valtage? So Cupid is the one who passed your notes between you? Some addresses Cupid? But if you don't ever know who the note's from, how do you meet the person to sign your name or not?
Okay, So how did it go for you?
Read? It ended up going really well. I've really kind of been in this habit of really only meeting through the apps, and I wanted to actually meet in person, and this seemed like a fun way to transition into that.
Can I ask you read during the event, how many notes did you pass about other people like to how many women were you note passing too?
So what ended up happening? Early on? I saw one girl who was rather attractive and that was rather interested.
Is this the girl that we're talking about for your second date? Updated?
It is Tina?
Tina?
What did you write to her?
Actually? You know what I put in the first one?
What did you say?
I put down in two minutes, I'll walk past your table and I hope to see that beautiful smile again. And then I had to lay at dot and I said I already did that four times.
Joe, Okay, I hope she got it, because.
Did did she write back and said, Oh, you're the weird guy that keeps walking past me.
She liked it, and she wrote back and then we ended up passing the notes all night.
Oh just you and her?
Yeah, And then the last one had her phone number on it it.
Right down silent in this bar question paper.
Yeah, you can't actually because it's people come in groups, so she was actually was in a group.
Start chatting with friends less awkward than.
So at any point do you go over and like actually speak to her with your voice or is it all no passing?
Here's the thing you could But that night we didn't. Uh. I think we were just kind of enjoying the fun of the theme. And when she gave me her number, I ended up texting. And we've been texting for a couple of weeks at this point, and we still we still haven't actually spoke.
What you have no idea what her voice sounds like?
No, I have no idea.
Wow, okay, this is interesting. We don't have a whole lot to go off of. Then, I guess what we need to do is hear some of the texts that you guys have said and back and forth. That's a good idea, like how flirty they are?
You need that?
I think you give us a good idea of what we're working with here with Tina.
Here, let me find a good one. Okay, I said, when can I see you again? Pick a day that ends?
And why that's cute.
It's so corn what alexis math?
Yeah, we're selling the.
Math on that one.
Maybe Tina's just like Alexis and couldn't figure out a day. I thought it was only week days, and I was like, that sucks all right.
Well okay, she just sent the lappy face.
It was supposed to set a day.
Okay.
Well, here's the thing, is like, you're obviously laying it on pretty thick with her right away through all the messages in tech you're saying, like, she has a beautiful smile.
You can't wait to see her again.
But a lot of times with girls, if you lay it on that thick, if there's no chase, they lose interest.
Absolutely.
I mean that is a thing. You can be too available.
So we have enough, I think to work with here. You are showing a lot of your cards early on. But maybe we can figure out more when we call her directly and you'll get to hear her voice for the very first time. Well, who knows, maybe that would be a turn on for you. We're gonna find out when we come back. We're gonna call Tina and try and get your second date update. Right after this second date update on the phone with us today is a man who is good with his words, at least on paper.
Yep, for sure.
Ironically, his name is Read.
Oh, it's just so perfect for this.
No, that's his brother.
I'm playing the.
Notebook music right now because his first meeting with a girl named Tina involved an actual notebook.
It's actually a pretty cute meet.
Cute yeah, because they were both at a themed bar night where you could write letters to people at other tables and pass notes back and forth, and that's how we ended up getting Tina's number. They have been texting ever since. He just hasn't locked down an official date yet.
Yeah, like, maybe he's too eager as kind of what we.
Were that was thank you, maybe picking up on There's also the tiny problem of the fact that they've never actually spoken words with their verses yet.
To each other.
Small issues, Jeff, That's what texting's for.
Yeah, including him gonna hear her voice for the first time. So we've heard some of the texts, but I do want to get to the last text that she sent because we never were able to get to it. Read Can you read us the final text that you sent that she never responded to?
I said, I miss you like stormtroopers miss their target.
Because they're like notoriously bad.
Yeah, anyone in Star Wars.
Okay, I got it.
No, I got it. But law, I would be freaked out a.
Little bit if someone said I miss you when I haven't spent any time in person with that.
Yeah, and just like you know, going over what we were saying before, you've already kind of put all of your cards down on the table for her.
It's like you flip them, then flip them again again. We're gonna try to hide.
Some Maybe we try and be a little more cooy when we're actually speaking with.
Yeah, Okay, okay, maybe it was a little much. I thought it was fun, but maybe you guys can help balance me out.
That's all right.
It is fun. Two people get there together.
It's sweet. You seem like a sweet dude like you.
We're all here for you.
Oh.
Actually, I'm going to be making the call, so never mind, shut up. I'm going to dal Tina right now.
We get to hear her voice for the very first time. Here we go, Hello, Hi, is this Tina?
This is Tina?
Who is this Tina?
You're You're on the radio right now with a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
I'm not interested. Thanks.
It's not a spam called Tina, it's legit.
Huh.
We're doing a segment called a Second Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of our listeners that you've met before sort of Oh.
My gosh, I've heard this before for real.
Yeah, isn't that fun?
Okay, So, I don't know if you remember this, but the other night you met a guy at a note passing bar thing.
I think it was a couple of weeks ago.
In fact, yeah, it may have been a while ago. His name's Reid.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know read.
Okay, okay, cool, what do you what do you think?
He was nice? He was cute. We texted a little bit. Yeah, yeah, it was like fun and I haven't met him or anything.
Yeah, we heard that. We've heard a little bit about the Barnet. What was the Barnet like for you?
I hadn't done anything like that before, but I ended up, I think, exchanging numbers with like three guys.
Oh oh, you were popular.
Yeah, it was more successful than I thought it was going to be.
Okay, so you've been you've been texting with a couple of guys from the thing.
Yeah, I actually ended up going out with one of them, like last week.
Oh cheat, Okay, that's totally fine, But has read been in your mind at all, Radar?
I mean, like I said, we were like text on and off throughout the week, and he's like cute, he's funny, kind of flirty, he's always a really jokey over text. But the thing is, he just hasn't actually asked me out yet.
Like I see, so.
You've been waiting for Reed to like make the move and he hasn't gone for it.
Yeah, I just don't have time to like a text buddy or pentel like do you want to bring me out or not?
Yeah, well that's a great question.
Well before I tell you what I have to say here, where's your relationship with the other guy at that you've been out.
With one time?
I mean, it's just kind of that, Like it was a good date. He was cute, he was nice, we had like a little bit in common. But it dinner, so I clothed him down to go out again in a week. But it wasn't like oh my god.
It's just like, but you're not exclusive with that guy, right?
No?
Oh? My god, that would be crazy.
I'm really glad that you said that.
And you know who's extra happy to hear it is read because he's been on the other line listening this entire Oh.
My god, I was so worried we're gonna say that.
Red has been wanting to talk.
Are you there, I'm here, I'm here, all right?
What good news?
Read?
Say hi to Tina for the very first time.
Oh yeah, uh yeah?
How about uh?
Tina? Hands up. I'm in the s c I and you're on my most wanted list.
You're just talking? Are you not listening to what she was saying before.
About I think you got nervous.
I'm just having a little fun.
I'm just I understand.
Maybe let's turn it off.
All I'm saying is that when it comes to Christmas and Sanna asked me what I want Tina, I'm sending him a link to your I G. It's pretty cringe, man, It's not. It's not Craine. It's just because she reminds me of someone.
He's got something wrong.
I don't know if I like that does remind you of my next girlfriend?
My man, it kind of implies you have a current girlfriend too.
I know, dissect it.
Okay, let's just move on.
Are you trying to just make these guys laugh? Or are you trying to turn a woman on? You can't do both.
I'm just flirting with her. We haven't actually talked yet. I'm just I'm just getting started. I'm just building up.
Do you have like a normal conversation questions?
I don't know how Tina's feeling about this.
Read.
Honestly, I feel like.
I just like I dare you read to just say something that wasn't scripted?
Maybe just even ask her out? Just straight up? Yeah, Like that's a crazy idea, I know.
I mean, she teed you up better than I've ever heard anyone.
She's begging for you to ask her out. Go ahead, read, now's your.
Moment, Okay. I'm just one wondering if maybe Tina would you want to be my little spoon little I'm gonna take her out for soup? Soup, soup, no, no, no.
Happening.
Why is that a joke?
A joke?
I don't know. And it's like something my grandfather would really like, like, oh soup, And you're like, Granda, do you really want soup?
But no one knows Dude, Like there's someone out there who's gonna love there, but it's not me.
Well, no, no, no, I think he was trying to ask you out right there.
If he's not gonna do it, I'm just gonna do it for him, because you want the two of you to go out on a date in person, and we would pay for the date.
Tina, Hey man.
He kind of That's what I was building up to. It's just gonna ask her that.
Well, we can't wait like forty minutes for you to get every line. Now, we need to get to it. Yeah, we don't have a lot of time, so go ahead ask her yourself.
Okay, no line, you're single, I'm single. I feel like this is a problem we can solve together.
I never trusted this guy.
I feel like I'm gonna fight fire with fire, and I'm gonna say unfortunately at this point, I'm gonna make like a tree and leave.
Now she's speaking reads language.
I know we're perfect for each other. How she's funny, I'm funny, have similar humor.
I think she was scas mis reading that.
You gotta work on being more direct with these women that you like and just.
Be yourself for a second.
You don't need all these lines read you're you're a charming guy man.
That is myself. That's what I like.
Okay, well leave yourself on the side of the road.
Yeah, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
You know what, this is his faults on that one.
You think we can't take the blame for what happens because does.
He memorize them all?
I don't know where he has those from his hand.
But there is a window after you meet someone when you really need to ask them out, like you only have a certain amount of time. And not only did he miss his window, she opened up another window for him and he missed that one.
Too, and she screamed through the window, this is the window.
I will say yes to your question.
So gentlemen, make sure to find your window and jump through it, even if it's twenty stories up.
Some women are just worth it.
Yeah.
Funny is good, but not funny every single thing, you know what I mean?
We solve the mystery.
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