What if we told you there was a way to have a wild, adventurous date and you’ll leave with MORE MONEY than you started with? We just learned about it from the guy in today’s Second Date!
The second date of day.
One of the best parts of dating is trying out new things like activities, new activities, new foods, felonies, because you never know what unique experiences you might have and how you're gonna feel when you're with this new persons.
That's fine. I was jam.
And that's what happened with one of our listeners, Aaron, who says he went out with a new woman and she inspired him to try doing something for the very first time.
Aaron, is this your first time being on a radio show?
Not my first time, but conversations?
Yet she's inspired you to do at least two new things.
Look at you.
Wow, this woman already sounds like a keeper. What's her name?
Her name is Becca, Becca, I am Becca online. It was my first foray, No.
Really, is the first time you ever did online dating?
Yeah? I was always like my dream was to do it, like find a person in person and connect. And then I was like, you know what, it's been such a struggle. Nobody wants to talk anymore in person.
The internet is where people go to give up on their previous.
So much.
But where did you decide to go for your date?
Okay? So the plan was we were supposed to just go me to the bar and have some beers, and that was actually good, but then kind of got a little out of control.
What do you mean really good way? Yeah?
Yeah, it was like in a good and bad way, if that makes sense.
I don't think it means bad isn't good either, I think it just means bad bad.
Yeah, I'm more confused. Tell us what happened.
Okay, so it sounds weird, but we were drinking at the bar and then I noticed out the window there was a pawn shop across the street.
Okay, so you're not in a very nice neighborhood.
I get it, Yestars, Hey, listen, I grew up hanging out at pawn shops.
They are not in the nice neighborhoods.
Oh, that makes a lot of sense.
Yeah, so you saw the pawn shop and what.
And then I was like, this is a little bit weird. But I've always wanted to go to those, you know, can we check it out? I've never been there.
Oh so this is the new experience that she inspired you to have. Yeah yeah, wow, oh.
God, it could be really romantic and magic.
Have you ever been to a pawn shop?
Jeffrey Well, no, No, they.
All smell a little weird. They're sad places.
You're desperate people, go, Aaron, maybe.
You had a better experience, Aaron, what was yours?
Like? Yeah, So we just walked across street and she was down with it, and so I popped in, looked around and I was like, I haven't I actually have an idea, and so I went put to my car. She waited for me, and I came back and I was like, I had this whole cookie jar in the trunk and my grandma gave me. It kind of looked valuable, so you know, I wasn't your So I was like, Okay, let's see here's.
A good opportunity to get of it and maybe make some money.
It's getting a value.
Yeah, so you brought it in.
Yeah, And it was like to the guy behind the counter, I was like, hey, how much for this cookie jar?
And he was like nothing, See, that's they lowball you at first.
Yeah, there's a Civil War cookie?
Like is there diamonds or guns inside that?
I was in the family for a bit and I was like arguing with the guy. I was like, no, it's an antique, you know, and he's like, dude, I can't sell this for anything, but like, I was just joking. I was like, oh, well, what about the necklace that she's wearing, you know, and your necklace?
Joe?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's obvious.
Joe isn't an obvious joke, though, what did bea say?
I mean, we're both kind of tipsy, so she was a little offended at first, but she kind of laughed at it when she realized I was joking. Okay, she was like, well, actually this necklace is from her ex. So she was like, I wouldn't mind really getting rid of it.
She was wearing her ex boyfriend's necklace on her first date.
Choice you could just get a sometimes exes give good jewelry.
I'm sure, Okay, it was nice enough, but so we started negotiating with the guy and then he was like, I'll give you eighty dollars for it, and she's like sure, and she got rid of it. So, like, yo're drinking money man the black in the bar.
Are you worried?
What if it was worth a lot more than that?
They're always worth a lot more than that if they're going to give you eighty bucks.
Yeah, but to get rid of an ex boyfriend's necklace. It kind of feels good to get rid of.
It emotional weight.
All right, So now you have eighty dollars to keep drinking.
Yeah, we went back to the bar and we spent all eighty dollars. Now it was fun.
Was she just mad that she ended up having to pay for the date then that way?
No, she didn't say anything about that. Like, you know, we left the bar. We ended the night with the hugs.
Okay.
I decided. I was like, I can't drive home because I'm not I'm like really wasted at this point. So I slept in the back of my car, but we got her a uber oh an uber back with her.
I know I'm fine here.
I'm still sleep across from the part.
I mean, it's okay.
It's responsible, Like I I didn't want to leave my car there in the parking lot, and then my grandma's cookie jars in there too. You know, it's like with it, not.
The cookie jar jars, like sleeping with it.
Did your date see you sleeping.
In the car?
I don't remember, but I know she got home safe, so.
Okay, and I've been able to keep the conversation going with her after the date.
Well, that's the thing. It's like, I haven't gotten any responses from her. I mean she liked one of my texts, so I know she saw.
It, okay, but she didn't send liked great time. No, no, no, I mean maybe she regrets selling the necklace and felt like kind of pressured by you and she sobered up.
Well, I mean I hope not, because I mean we had a good time doing something we've totally never done before, and I mean same with her, so you know, sure, Okay, Well.
We're gonna give Bech a whole other thing she's never done before.
A random fun call from a bunch.
Of radio hosts when we come back and do your second date update Right after this se.
What was supposed to.
Be an ordinary date turned into a semi drunk episode of pond Stars.
With this music.
It was crazy how it happened.
Because Aaron saw a pawn shop out the window of the bar that they were at. They ambled over across the street and he sold his date's necklace for beer money.
Dude, why.
You say it in that sentence?
Exactly, I'm not even exaggerating.
Then they went back to the bar and drank more with the eighty bucks that they scored until he decided to spend the night in the.
Back seat of his own car. God's honest truths.
Any of that story up?
When you recapped a date like that, Yeah, no, is that creepy?
It just sounds like you're from my hometown. Like all of that, it's very familiar.
You're one of those friends in low places.
Yeah.
I mean, it's not the date that you envisioned for yourself, clearly, but maybe it ended up better than you ever expected.
And you said you had fun.
I had a great time. I would love to see her again, no regrets.
I can't believe that a girl wouldn't call a guy back after he couldn't sell his own grandma's cookies.
So that's what I'm talking about.
Yeah, all right, we're sure George Clooney did that one, and look where he is now, billionaire.
So that's going to be you soon. Aaron.
First, we got to get you out on another date with Becca, so we're going.
To call her right now. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey is this Becca?
This Becca?
Hey Becca? What's up?
You're on the morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Hey Becca, by guy, Welcome to the show.
So I'm like, I'm literally on the radio right now.
Yes, you are so hop on board because it's going to be a little bit of a bumpy ride. Okay, because well it's actually could be smooth.
It could be soon.
Because we're doing something called the second Date Update, and we're trying to hook you back up with a guy you went out with recently named Aaron.
Oh my god, seriously, Yeah, it sounds like you guys had a fun night together. I mean we definitely had a time. Yeah, I mean it, honestly, it was a great first date. But it kind of like led to like a kind of a bigger issue.
So what kind of a thing?
Well, I mean, did he tell you that we were kind of drunk and went to a pawn shop and he sold my necklace, like off my neck.
On a scale of one to ten. How romantic was that to you?
I mean, yeah, I mean it was all. It was definitely fun. I did not expect to walk out of that date without my necklace. The word to close the bar down afterwards, But yeah, I mean, I guess I intended on calling him back, but I took an uber home after our date, and I kind of couldn't help myself because before I parted with the necklace, I asked Aaron to take a photo of me handing over the necklace of the pawnshop guy.
Okay, happy memories.
Yeah, exactly exactly, because it was a gesture, it was on my ex and anyway, while I was in the uber, I sent that photo to my ex.
Oh a revenge.
Photo, yeow, I mean that cut that is a good revenge.
I'm look what happened to your sweet precious jewelry?
Yeah, I mean we had broken up probably six months ago or something, and we hooked up a couple of times and then yeah, and so like I had started an online dating profile to like help me get over him, or you know, just find other options. So I didn't keep doing that. But then this, like selling the necklace was like supposed to be the nail in the coffin, like shutting the door.
And that's a huge middle finger to get in your text, Like what did your ex say?
Well, he didn't really say much. He'd actually just like put question marks, and I didn't. I just honestly I got home and I passed out and I didn't really care.
So okay, that's good him then what's wrong?
But then the next day I woke up to my door, knock at my door, and it's my ex holding the necklace.
What did he go back to the pawnshop?
He had done some investigative work and figured out which pawn shop it was, bought the necklace back for three hundred and twenty dollars.
Oh, I made a pretty penny.
This is how much you mean to me?
Oh well, and he still want to do that, dude? Yeah, that is really sad.
Yeah, that's how men operate. We operate on sadness.
So not every man, not every man does that.
Us do.
So.
I mean you hailed him enough to pawn the necklace he gave you and then send it in a text like I.
Was drinking, I was drinking talking.
Let's guess what happened next, or you just tell us.
We didn't hook up, if that's what you're implying. But I did invite him in. We have some coffee, We talked things over, and honestly, I mean it was so unexpected. Maybe it was because I was hungover, Maybe it was because like it was hot, Like it was hot for him to go through all that trouble and then take three hundred and twenty dollars to.
Get it backs.
Are sad you at that point too?
You text an in vote right now seventy five ninety two Hot or not?
He didn't spend no three hundred dollars on it?
I mean, what was it worth to begin with? Did he ever tell you?
I don't know. He never told me, but it could not have been more than I was to say, hello, Hello, Aaron.
Is that Aaron?
I think your ex boyfriends in the back room.
He's been listening on the other line this entire time, wanting to jump in.
Are you serious? Yeah?
So wait, hold on, so you you had an amazing time with me, but then you got back with your exes. That was you hooked up with your ex.
I did not hook up with my ax. But we have decided to I think we, I mean we want to try. You know, we're trying it again. It's like, thank you so much. I mean, we had a fun day, and I mean I think you're a really great guy. I was one hundred percent anticipating having a second day with you.
I'm just being really honest, Like this really hurts actually, Like I didn't expect like this would happen. That I thought we had a great time and it was, like you said, it was six months ago, Like, really, you want to try that again instead of trying something new like we did.
You're getting with very risk.
Aaron basically teed up her ex to.
Like, yeah, yeah, I didn't. I didn't mean to do that. It just happened, you know.
I mean honestly, I know, but you thought that you were ridding her of the X instead of you know what I mean, like, you're you're getting rid of the necklace.
We're washing ourselves clean, we're moving forward.
You were probably just asleep in your car when he was across the street.
You're actually that good thing happened, So that's what I'm in your car? Oh sorry, oh god, yeah, I didn't.
Want to leave my car.
I just didn't. I don't want to leave the car there, and I couldn't drive home, you know, drunk, I was no.
I mean, I'm glad you didn't drive home, but I definitely didn't think you would sleep in your car.
Say, I think I think you're great and.
Good timing.
Okay, he's really sweet.
Maybe you should offer to buy the necklace back for even more than three hundred and twenty dollars the ultimate.
I don't know. I think if you're not taking an uber home like I doubt you're gonna spend more than three hundred and twenty dollars on this reclass, you're price.
Shaving him now.
Yes, it's just a gesture of money. We had a great time, he just said, with money.
I think that's important to keep in mind here.
And also it's important to keep in mind that she hasn't hooked up with her ex boyfriend yet.
So with that being said, I think.
I'm going to propose the two of you go out on another date, you and Aaron, and you can use it as a competition now to see who do you want to get with more.
Aaron or your ex boy or maybe Aeron will lead you to another X and then you can.
Good god, this has already been like kind of a shock for the system. But I mean, oh, I hear, but I think it's I feel I feel like a second date. Would that? Would that be awkward? I mean you'd.
Cheating on your new boyfriend.
Yeah, only if you're wearing that necklace again, then might be a.
Little longer just talking.
Hey, hey, look after a couple of whiskey, sours, whiskey, cokes, whatever you want. We're gonna sell that thing again.
Oh let's see how many times your exploit friend will buy.
It some time.
Come on, go out one more time, and we'll pay for it. Yes or no?
All right, if you guys are paying for it, I will do a second date.
It's a sloppy second date, just the way that we like it. We'll even throwing a free radio station blanket that the two of you can cuddle up underneath in the back seat of Aaron's car.
I was going to ask if you can definitely put the uber beltier
Brook and Jeffrey in the morning