Second Date Update: No Ghost For You

Published Jan 25, 2023, 4:45 PM

The woman in today’s Second Date believes she’s CRACKED the code on finding the perfect match and although we’re skeptical, she swears it works!

Second. You know, my childhood best friend was named Lewis. Oh I like that name till one day when we were playing Ninja Turtles and Lewis wanted Donna Tello to use the twin katanas and I told him no, Leonardo has the katanas, Donna Tello has the big wooden stick. Of course, an argument, so naturally I called the cops, and long story short, wasn't allowed to play at Lewis's house anymore. But imagine my surprise when I opened up my email this morning and so Lewis emailed the show for hell back to you, Jack. Did you just get out of prison Lewis. Lewis, you're finally ready to apologize and admit you were wrong? Or is this a different Lewis? I swear I would never mix up what weapons the turtles have. Thank you for saying that, Lewis, to mess with that, Why can't they interchange them? Though? I mean, like they've done all this out of the studio. Some questions train for each weapon. Dedicate your life to a weapon, you don't just give it to someone else. Now, explaining the Ninja Turtles to brook Over, Meanwhile, we don't can do hear anything about Louis's date. Lewis, I am sorry for Brook. Did you go out with someone who is a turtle lover? Apparently like I wish? Oh? What do we know about the person you went out with? What's her name? Her name is Jamie? Okay, so we met online? Beautiful profile picture. Oh so we've been doing this lately with all of the people who match through like an app or something. Can you pull up her profile? Uh? Yeah? Yeah? Did we have to get word on if people enjoyed us doing this or not? I think I'm gonna say that I enjoy it. It does make it feel like we're part of like the online date experience with us. Yeah? Are we going to swipe right? Yeah? Exactly what you do the same? Read some of the stuff that's on Jamie's profile for us, Lewis, Yeah. So, Uh, Jamie said she's five three, she's got long brown hair. She talks about being in a dance class, which is great. What kind of dance? Um? I don't know, but she she is in shape. I like to work out as well. Were all those things true when you met up with her? Was her hair long and brown? Three? Did you pull out the ruler just to make sure. Maybe just a measuring app on your phone the point could you stand back a little bit further? Okay, all that stuff matched up. She she has a dog. I have a dog. That was all great. She has listened on here Myers Briggs f W the Myers Briggs Personality Test. It like tells you what type of person you like. I can't remember all the different combinations, but there's a bunch of different combinations. You can be interesting. So yeah, I swiped and we met up and planned a date. What was it like the first time you guys saw each other. We hit it off, We got along really well. We had planned to grab a drink or two, and then we were gonna go on a ghost tour. Oh that's fun. Tell us about the ghost tour. What was that about. Yeah, I've never been on one with a day before. I've been on a couple with friends. But I thought, oh, this is fun, and like she gets scared, like you've taken multiple ghost tours in your life? Yeah, come on, why not? Okay, So it was your idea? Was she into it? She was totally into it. Yeah, she said that sounded great. So I bought the tickets. Then we were going to meet up at the pickup spot for the Little Bush Ghost Bus. That sounds fun. Yeah, what was the highlight of that for you and her? Like where you made a connections on the high like like did it get spooky or anything on the tour? I want to know, was there like any like hugging or something. I don't know, like she got scared and jumped into your arms. I would love to say that that was the case. But we didn't end up going on the ghost tour. Oh oh oh no? Why so like three cours the way through the Drink's Ghost Tour starts in like twenty minutes and Jamie's like, hey, you don't want to be really fun, Let's go see a movie across the street instead. I already paid for the ghost tour ticket a movie, and I didn't want to be be like, well, I already paid, Like no, so I was like, maybe she's afraid. I don't know. I didn't want to push back too much because I want to pull the Lewis move and called the cops on her right there. So did you go to the movie instead? Yeah, we went to the movie and the movie was fine though ye no, yeah, it was it was you know, two hours of us just sitting in the dark, and I didn't want to like hold hands, like we weren't right at that point yet, right, because you'd only had two drinks or a drink beforehand. Yeah, so exactly. Yeah. So the movie was fine, and then the end of the night was just kind of awkward because it was like, all right, thanks for a good night, we'll talk soon. The whole time, I'm just like, man, I wish you would have gone on the ghost tour, right, because that's like an experience, it's something you can share together. So since then, she'll respond to my text with like a couple of words, not really a lot of punctuation, and it has been very noncommittal to hang on again, and I cannot figure it out. You don't have any idea. I have no idea. There are no red flags that I can think of. So she only drinks one drink, she changes the date right in the middle of it and doesn't call you back. It's questionable if she even knows who the Ninja Turtles are, Like, why do you want to go out with her again? She really hot, She is very hot, and like we clicked like on all other levels and I'm just like, I do something or maybe there's something else I totally missed. But dude, maybe her ex boyfriend is a ghost and she's scared she was going to run into him. That's the best theory that we have so far, but we're going to try and confirm it when we play a song. Come back and get your second date update right after this. All right, Lewis, cool, Thank you, hold one second date. You know who says no to a ghost tour a real life ghost? Oh, doesn't want to be found out? Another theory. Perhaps in the middle of Lewis's date, Jamie said, Nah, let's not do the ghost tour that you planned and already paid for. Let's instead do a movie and then I'll ghost you. Yeah, and that's what happened. But here's the thing is that Jamie is hot, so Lewis can't just let it go. He wants answers. Brooke, is that okay with you? Yeah? I'm fine with it. I mean, I think it's weird that you would cancel a ghost tour. When did she know that you had already had the tickets. I just think that's kind of rude. I mean, we had a plan. I don't actually know if she knew I had the tickets. Okay, that makes a difference. See, that's why you got to pull them out and wave them in front of her face so that she knows that they're really just an email or a code on his phone. Yeah. Well something showed her the evidence. I was imagining them on the ghost tour and then he's like, oh, my date is getting scared, and then everyone looks at him and goes, what date. Okay, that would have been a cool moment, but I never went on that tour, so it never happened. But maybe we can send you out on another ghost tour if we get her on the phone. Here, are you ready to do this? Yeah, let's go for it. Let's find out if she's real or not. I'm down on the number right now. I think thank ghost can answer phones. We'll see. Here we go. Hello, oh ghost. She would have said, Hello, Maybe it's just a bad phone connection. Is this Jamie? Hi? Yes? Is it Jamie? Hey? Jamie? What's up? You're on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hi? Yeah, do you listen? Did I win something? A lot of people ask that, Yeah, I like people's positive attitude. A lot of stuff away guys. So yeah, we don't usually call them up and just give things out for free, but we do have something that we want to give to you, potentially another date with someone that you went out with before named Lewis. Oh wait a minute. Obviously, we're doing a second date update with you here, Jamie, and we're trying to figure out what happened. What went wrong on your date with Lewis? Oh, very very simple. We just are in a match. Oh, that's it, that's it? Is it something that's really obvious that he should know? Yeah? I mean I thought we were a match, you know, based on his dating profile, but I think, you know, he might have stretched the truth a little bit. O Oh, like okay, you mean like he lied about his height or his weight or something or used an old photo. Oh yeah, no, no no, no, no, no, no no, no, not nothing like that. The thing is, like, I thought we were both NFPs and it turns out that he's actually at Hand of Jay. What did you say he's talking about that he's at the NFJ. So are you talking about that for I don't know what is it? The Briggs personality test? Is that what you're talking about. Yeah, Mayer's Briggs, Mayer Briggs. We don't know what the letters stand for. Oh my goodness. Okay, well you guys got to do it because I mean it's a personality test, right, and he has been tested like forever, is so incredibly accurate, and it's basically defined to identify a person's strength and preferences, right yeah, okay, and it's it's huge in psychology, like all of my friends do it. It's often. Do you work in psychology? No, no, no, no, but I mean everybody puts it on the dating app. I mean I'm on dating apps. Then you put it on your dating apps. Mebia just didn't understand what it was. I've never seen anything. You're single then or whatever it is, so we will find amount of your dreams to you put it on your dating app. Okay, what's interesting? What's your personality type? I am an E NFP that stands for NP. Yeah, so basically I am an extrovert. Uh huh okay, not the E. The N stands for intuitive, the feeling, and the P for perceiving. Okay, so all right, well I'm just switching over to another radio station, getting down an extroverted emotional person is what I heard. Well perceiving. Yeah, I mean I'm very intuitive and I'm very Yes, did you have to take a test to find that out? So why doesn't that work with him? Because he's an E NF J. So because he is a J, which is judgmental. You know, they're a structure, Like they're structure in a way that they're not flexible. Wait, why are you talking about he's not flexible? He told us that you switched the date plans in the middle of the date and he was cool enough to like go along with it. I was testing him because I thought he was a P and I thought the reaction of what's expecting was like, oh, yeah, sure, let's do it, like, you know, be excited about it. And he said he was like pushing back, And that's when I realized he's definitely a J. Well, he's probably pushing back because he paid money already to go on this ghost tour that he talked about. You would his idea was more fun. Well, it doesn't matter how much money he paid. The point is it was just a test to see how flexible he was, and he wasn't. So he felt as sorry Okay, Well, let's do a test and find out what happens when you put an E NFP with an E n J and you get a WTFJ. There we go, I can follow now officially, hopefully we got Lewis on the line. Lewis you there? Yeah, I'm here. Oh, I hope you brother bring your own beer. Yeah, because this is gonna be bumpy, right, I don't really know what's going to be. How do you feel about being called a j? I I am uh angry, I'm a little Oh you're angry. Yeah. Um, we went out on a date and you decided to cast me. Oh that's what is a little well, I mean yeah, white. Wait, you know, if I'm gonna I'm in this to get somebody, I'm not gonna be waiting and see somebody right up the bat and see what's compactable. If for not, then we move on with our separate lives. Not to it that you're telling me that I'm the judging person. You are acting kind of j about his unwillingness to change. I'm very perceptive though, like how he is. So that's why I had a feeling that he was a jay, and that's why I pissed him, But you're being judgmental about him now for not doing what you wanted to do. You were being jay about his being j I think more than anything, Like do you really want to be with someone who's exactly the same as you? Well, that's what the whole test is about, is to find a perfect match. And if he's a Jay and I'm a Pete, we're not a match. I know that. I mean, if it was as easy as science, right, like we all would have no one would be single. You would have been able to put your name into an algorithm and found the perfect person. Like, not everybody's doing the test though, I know what. I just think you may be missing out. Do you know how many single people are here that don't know anything about the tests or like don't understand what is going on here? Yeah, someone asked you what my love language was, and I was like English, Yeah, I'm here to tell him this is what they need to do. You're just so hard up on the test, Like, I just think you maybe passing on on great people. Seem good, dud, spoken like a giant bee. Okay, look yeah, Jamie. Clearly Jamie knows exactly what she wants from a guy like, that's what she wants. And just because Brooke, you're not a fan personally of the test doesn't mean that it doesn't work. Well. I just want them to be more open. I'm just I'm rooting for Lewis here, man, I'm just trying to get him a second chance. Jeffrey, that isn't that what we're supposed to be doing, Lewis? Can you change your personality to fit into Jamie's lifestyle? Yeah? Yeah, let me just get right to that. Yeah, okay, great because once you do, once you finally switch over that jay to a pee, then we can send you guys out on a date and we'll pay for it. Yeah. You know what, I personally think, we're just done with the acronyms. I would be fine if I never hurt another one you want us to. It's TFU, I get it. Well, it looks like we're not going to be able to send you guys out on a date. And everybody now, like a true I n F J now, oh burn, I don't know. It sounded like Brookie Jeffrey in the morning, get a lot of people texting into seven eighty five nine two saying myers Briggs is the best tool for helping you not just with your relationships, but with your friendships, your work life. It actually helps you find balance. Has anyone in this room done it? No? I thought Myers Briggs like a paint company. Yeah, no idea, What I mean talking about it sounds like talking about paint time to do. I actually went online to try to test myself. After an hour of answering questions, it says I'm almost ten percent through size. It obviously told us everyone in this room is impatient. It's that part of our personality. I can't wait to find out which four letters I am in forty hours from now. But you know, I think she will find somebody out there that's her perfect letter combo. It's a real sterile way to find a match. But okay, good luck. It's a lot of people are using it, Brooke, so we can't hate on everyone. A lot of people are still single. But if you don't want to be single anymore, we might be able to help you with that email. The show We'll call the person wasn't calling you Battle Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning

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