Second Date Update: Long Distance Love

Published Feb 15, 2023, 4:02 PM

After a crazy, whirlwind weekend with a girl who lives across the country, one of our listeners thinks REAL LOVE is out there and wants a Second Date to prove it!

Second, what do you match with someone online and it's going really well? You feel like, you know, it's clicking. There's chemistry here. Maybe you start talking on the phone with them, Maybe you learn each other's birthdays, your safe words, your previous felonies, okay, yeah, personal. You start to have all these expectations building up, and you wonder, could this be the one? I'll tell you this. I don't know a lot about the story here, but I do know Robert, our caller, was feeling that and it may have caused him to say something that he now regrets. It banana? Is that what they chose? Is it that what he said? Let's find Robert. What was your safe word? Is it? Umi? Answer? Sorry, if this gets too weird, we'll SHOTMI. But welcome to the show man. Thanks. Sounds like you're catching feelings pretty hard for this girl that you met. What's her name? Yeah, her name is Grace. Grace. Okay, okay, tell us about Grace. So we met online? Um so, like, what's an online dating stuccion? I was recently single. I've been single like maybe a year. Okay, so I got back out there, but on I guess the real dating site, like not the little little ones like what does that mean? Well, it's just like the actual website, not the application. Oh okay, you're not I don't even know you go on websites. Yeah, so you're like dot com match dot com right right, right right, and you can get like ultraspecific about the things that you like, just like et cetera. Okay, and you can set your distance parameters to close by, or you can. Grace got us through all the different settings that are available on this dating at is really blown away. Now I really wanted I really wanted someone that had convertible. Wow. He's a funny guy too. I guess what you're saying is Grace checked all your boxes right, exactly. Nice. So we met and she lets across the country, and so we started. Oh man, that's not a box. You didn't put distance as a box there. I'm a romantic and I love sleepless in Seattle. Okay, I forget, honestly, I forget the premise of that. Hence the radio show call. Okay, you ran out of options locally and had to expand your net broader. I guess yeah. Yeah, So we met and we started talking, you know, on the app, and then we exchanged phone numbers and all right, this all sounds really really nice. Well let's fast forward to like, did you guys ever actually meet up and go on a date? Yeah? Okay, wait in person? In person? Oh my god, they're across country day dang? Did you who flu? Where? She flew with me? And it was great, Like you had flowers for me at the airport. Believe it or not, she brought flowers. Wow? Yeah? Were you so nervous because this is a whole weekend you're going to spend, I assume with this person? Of course? I mean I haven't done anything like this in a very I've never done anything like this. Okay, wow, how did that go? Was it? Was it? Oh? Yeah, it was great. It was awesome and we got some awesome meals. We walked a lot, obviously, and we learned about each other's families, and you know, it was extremely romantic. Oh my god, I'm happy for you. Did you guys share a bedroom a weekend? Or answer? You don't have to answer. Of course we did. I mean so she felt comfortable enough with that, right exactly? Yeah? So I mean, gosh, that is like whirlwind romance type of situation. What was it? Like like the last day. I mean, to be honest with you, it ended on like a pretty perfect note, like we said goodbye the airport. We believe it or not exchanged. I love yous? What okay, Jumanji, I'm calling Jumanji. It's way too early. Walk us through that moment. I mean, at least both of you said it, right, Yeah, we've she said it back to me. I mean like it was it was involuntary. Okay, so you said it first. It sounds like yeah, it was like I did not have control, okay, and now and so then she flew back to her hometown on her plane. How long has it been since that happened? Um? It has been about a week? Okay, okay a week? And wait and like, what's going on in your relationship? Are you still talking? I asked her when she got home. She got home safe? Yeah, and she said in her response, I'm reading it against you right now, homesafe dot dot dot not in interested anymore? Oh wait, in like a couple hours time, you went from I love you kissing to not interested? And I was like, what are you're joking? And then literally no response. This is okay, this is your problem. You should not let her get on the plane. Every movie will tell you, no, you live here now, Yeah, why don't you run out on the tarmac? Oh that is that is heartbreaking? Yeah, I'm sorry. Oh God, is there anything that you think you might have done wrong? I don't know. I don't claim to be a perfect human. Yeah. Like I I was just going with my gut and so that's what I did. And if I had done something, I would I would expect you to be honest with me about it. I mean, I mean it might not even be something that you did. It might be on her. Maybe she has another guy in her hometown. I think maybe she met a guy on the plane. Or I love you now, yeah, he said, whoever, I see what we do when I talk to all my friends and they're like, maybe this is just a blessing. Dude, you dodged a bullet. Maybe she's not that you loved her and now you like you know what I mean, Like I said, I've been single for a year. I've been like doing the work on myself. Like oh that's set. But here's a thing, like you take risks and you never know what's gonna happen, you know, all do you know what we're gonna get to pay off right now. We're gonna take a risk and call her on the phone in a few minutes here, and we'll see if she answers and hopefully get some answers out of her when we do your second date update. Next second, let's do a quick recap on one of the more romantic stories that we've actually had on our show in a while. I am so excited for this because Robert met a woman named Grace long distance over a website. They connected, had chemistry, and the other weekend she flew out to come meet him. I R L Yes. And normally when these things happen, you think the meetup couldn't possibly match the idea in your mind about how it's gonna go, right, Robert said, it absolutely did, and more. Yeah, it surpassed the build up, which is crazy. He even said I love you when he dropped Grace off at the airport, and she said it back to him, Yeah, which is very important to the story. But it got weird from there because since then he's only gotten one text from her saying home safe, not interested anymore. I mean, I've had bad flights before, but that must have been a really terrible, terrible flight, like well, like the turbulence in between us. It could be it could be that she just got scared, Robert. I mean like, you're you're in this love and then you fly all the way home and you're like, what am I doing? This is going to see them again? Yeah, exactly. All I'm going to end up doing is breaking my own heart. I can't do it, you know, Like, do you think that could be? It? My mind right right now? I have literally no idea. Okay, Well, hopefully we can give you a little bit of peace of mind. I'm just I'm praying more than any call that we've ever done before, that she actually picks up and tells us some things, because well, we can call back if she doesn't move, I'm setting a one call limit to this. If she doesn't answer, I'm giving up forever. That's how love works. One chance. Okay, here we go for some people. I hope she answers. Let's call Grace. Hello. Hi is this Grace? Yeah? Oh my god, Grace. Um, my name is Jeff from Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. You're on a radio show right now and we're really excited to talk to you. I'm sorry. Wait, what's going on, Grace? Today is gonna be a day that you will remember for the rest of your life, and the question is is it going to be a happy memory or a sad memory? That really depends on what you say next year, because no pressure or anything. Sorry about him, Okay, it's sorry. It's just it's just a regular day in your normal life. Why are you calling me? I don't I don't guess. We're doing a segment called a Second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of our listeners get back in touch with you after you met up with him the other weekend. Are you who are you talking about? Oh? You know, you're just about to say it. I'll spell it out for you. Are Yeah, Oh okay, trying to keep going. Yeah, that's okay. I've already contact with him. I've been in contact with him. So this is what do you all mean with Robert? Yeah, I texted him and told him I'm not interested anymore. So yeah, yeah, yeah, he got that text. We heard about that, but he's a little bit infused about why he felt like that came out of the blue. I mean it literally happened. I mean, you texted that hours after you had just said I love you. Uh huh, you could understand why he would be a little confused. Okay, let me say this, since you seem to know the whole story. When he dropped me off of the airport, it was completely in my consciousness that we were probably going to have a long term relationship, like possibly leading to marriage. Like, oh my god, oh my god. So you were feeling the exact same way he was at the airport exists? Yeah, I was. I was so wait, what what changed between saying goodbye to him at the airport and you sending him the text saying you're not interested? Well, I'll tell you what change. So my flight ended up getting delayed, so I'm in the sport for a couple hours waiting for us to board. He was so frustrated. Then I'm getting a phone call and it's him. It's Robert calling me, and I'm thinking, well, why is he calling me, because as far as he knows, I'm in the air right now. You know, he didn't say that he called you. He just said that he got that text message from you where he texted you. So I pick it up and it was obviously a buck dial. Oh Okay, so he's just like driving home from the airporter that happens. Yeah, what did you hear it? I heard him talking to a woman that obviously was not his mom, not his sister, somebody that he knows, maybe in a romantic way. Why, because that's how I could tell that, that's how he was talking to her, and it was very upsetting to me because I love you. There has to be an explanation for this. Maybe he was watching a romantic comedy and that's what you heard in the background. You there has to be something else going on here. Oh, I just oh my god, we're getting a butt dial to the radio station right now. Oh my god, it's Robert Robberty Grace. Hello, I'm here. Oh I don't. I don't need this. Sorry, I'm sorry, Sorry, I'm sorry. Sorry, I'm sorry. I know this is really uncomfortable, but we need to get some answers here, just so that everybody gets a little bit of peace of mind. Robert, do you know what was going on with the butt dial? Yes? Yeah, you're cheating. That was what was going on. What was happening. I was ending things with a previous situation. That's a good thing. He was ending it. He was cheating. You're cheating. It's not yes. If if you have a woman fly from across the country while you're still in a relationship with somebody else and haven't ended it, that is cheating. Was it wasn't a relationship, It was a situation ship. You had overlap between your husband when you met him in the previous relationship that you were in. I never overlapped the relationships Jeffrey. Never. I met him while I was still seeing someone else. But then I broke up with that person and then breaking it up, broke it up after the weekend. You should have broke it up before, Grace. Yeah, you know, this is your chance to talk to Robert and set things straight once and for all. We can get some answers, hopefully what other answers did, Grace me. Just calm down, Brook, This isn't your relationship. Were Robert yet mad? That makes me mad? Robbie, you know, I'm really upset about this, and knowing that there was somebody else you're involved, It doesn't help. It doesn't help, But it's over and I'm here for you. Why did you wait? Why did you wait? Robbie? You broke up with her no, I'll text her right now. What what a cheating? Oh my god? Yuh was you breaking up? Well? That was me? That was me and this eating. So why didn't you initiate the breakup before you got on the dating website where you met Grace? Because we never officially said that we were each other's boyfriend and girlfriend. It just kind of was like a thing. So if it was just a thing, then you don't need to even have a breakup relationship talk like right, you just ghost them. You just ghostem out of respect for the other ladies feelings. I just wanted a clean break, Okay, I think that's there's nothing clean about this. This is so messy. Let's just get it messy and I'm willing to dive into this next thing with a full, honest heart. That's good now, now you got an honest heart. See, let's just get it out in the open. How many people do you currently love? Robert? Actually, in all seriousness, I meant everything that I said. I apologize for what you heard, and I if I can do anything to help us out, you let me know. I'll fly there, I'll fly you here and we can work it out. And if we can't, I understand where you're coming from. I'm not a bad guy. I'm just had like I had been single for a year. I don't know what I'm doing, but I do know that I do know how I feel. I mean, he sounds pretty sincere to me. And look, sometimes they don't turn off books, microphone, off microphone. We're done with this, Okay, Look, Grace, he sounds sincere, even if he was in the relationship at the time when he met you. Sometimes you don't know who you really love until you meet like that. One situation ship different, yes, exactly according to him, enormous enormous lengths to reach you and tell you that he really wants to see you again, and if you're willing to give him another shot, we'll pay for that date. If anything. Get in a room with him so he can bug his phone. You realize we live across the country from each other. I know. That's why we're gonna pay for the cheapest airline available. Yeah, yeah, I don't you know, honestly, I would just rather cut my losses. There you go, Grace, set some value so hard to find people out there. You might regret this said he loved you that Yeah, at the same time he was telling another woman the same thing, Jeffrey, he was telling the other one, I don't love you. No, he was different. He hasn't even fully broken up with that woman yet. All right, well I just did it over text. It's done. Okay, okay, okay. Now that he's officially broken up, would you like to go out on another date with him? No? Thank you? All right? Text her back and say back on again, Robert, because you're dumb broken Jeffrey in the morning. Well, the text board at seventy five nine two is pretty split on what he did was considered cheating. Seventy l seventy eight percent said they think it is. Twenty two percent said maybe I don't yeh Is that how it works for you? I feel yeah, I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt and say he wasn't. Those other twenty two percent are also in a relationship while simultaneously on a dating website. I mean, come on, well, you know what, he needed to be honest from the beginning. If he was like talking, oh god, all of it. If he was honest from the beginning, he never would have had her come out. It never would have happened because it's a problem. See. Yes, you know what the good thing that came out of that was is that we've never ever before had anybody break up with the other person that they were seeing via text mid phone call. Oh you believe that that text message went out? That's cute, Like, there's no way he really texts. Yeah. I'm still gonna believe that true love is possible. And if you want to believe in true love then you can always find it by going onto our podcast and listening to a Second Date Update whenever you want, wherever you get your podcast at Brooke and Jeffreys Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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