Second d friends, we have another mystery on our hands. Those because normally when we do these calls, the other person has completely ghosted our listener and is avoiding any contact. Right, Well, that's not the case here. In this one. The guy has moved in with her and is paying her entire rent. I don't get it. I'm kidding. They're not that close at all. But okay, Megan, our listener wants our help because the guy is asking her out. She's just not interested in the type of date that he has in mind. Interesting, she wants our help. Megan, Welcome to the show. Hi, guys, how are you good. I'm really curious about this conundrum you're in. Yeah. Yeah, Well, so I met this guy online. We were chatting for several weeks. Okay, what's his name? His name is Finn. Finn Okay, yeah, I don't know any since so it was kind of drawn to him by a unique name, and then you know, we're getting to know each other over. Of course, there was several weeks chatting online, and one of the things he mentioned was that he had younger sisters and that he's protective over them. So I felt like, this is a guy that knows how to be a respectable woman. But he's an older brother, so it's still questionable. Yeah, I mean the younger brother always because he's been beaten down the older brother. It's really a crup toting exactly or he who or he could just be a jerk to him, I mean who knows? Right, Yeah, but I notified that maybe he had that, like more of that alpha big brother presence. I'm attracted to that, Okay, okay, Yeah, So anyways, for our first date, he actually invited me over to his house, which is not something typically you do with somebody that you've met online, right, well, not do but alpha men, you're right over it's actually a den I believe they call it a den. Yes, so you felt comfortable doing that? You felt okay with it? I did? I did. I felt like I got to know him well, you know, well enough online that I felt fairly comfortable going over. Yeah. It was interesting. You know, he gave me an address to go meet him, and I I'm driving into the Neighborhood's a really beautiful neighborhood, full up to the house, and I wasn't really sure, like, am I at the right destination? Um? A beautiful house as a house. It's not an apartment. Huh No, it was like a huge it was like, I guess it could be considered a mansion. Who house, Okay, like it was a serious house. I mean, it turns out that his family is very well off, and like they parents allowed him to rent the house from them's house. We use rent, I'm sure in quotes right now meet me in the West Way. Yeah, well if you could, if you get to reap the benefits of that, then go for it, I said. I mean it was awesome. So you're you're impressed walking up to the door. Yeah, I mean he had a whole game room and there's like a billiards table, like a shovel board. We played all these things. There was a bar, like a full stock bar with beer on tap in it. What was he like, like, it's great that he's rich, But what was your vibe with him? No, one honestly cares. Do you take hoverboards between all the rooms? You guys got along? Yeah, you casual. He wasn't like stuck up for snobby about it. He's like, oh, let me show you around, and that's good talk. What was the most romantic part of the night, That's what Brooke wants to know. Yeah, sure, I would take dinner. Um, he ordered in from a really really nice steakhouse. Oh wow, you ordered delivery that steakhouse days and lobster tail. But he had set it up and outdoor patto and he laid out the table and everything and they had like a beautiful view. So that was like the most romantic part of it. That's better. It sounds lazy. He wouldn't take you to steakhouse, but that's pretty nice. Like, and this man wants to go out with you again? Why are you talking to us? This sounds amazing. Well, so after I left him, we had a great time. He invited me over again for a second date. But awesome. I have actually suggested us going out somewhere and like having fun and you know, maybe dancing a little bit. But he was really adamant about going back to his house. Is it like sending you red flags? And he's like trying to keep things secret or something like famous where he like literally is like I don't want to I was getting married, but yeah, not famous enough. You don't want to hang out back at his house. I mean it's not that I've minded, but it just seems weird that he was here. I mean just his tone. He was very specific about just staying in at his place. Yeah, not a good sign. Well, maybe he has a second parents house that he wants to show you that that's true. Oh um, are you worried that it's like too good to be true? Why can't tall like hiding me? Or if he's trying to just get my pants and he just wants to get there quicker. I have no idea what Alexis will tell you. That's not the worst thing in the world. Yeah, yeah, okay, So even though he is reaching out and asking for a date, you want a different type of date out in public, Yeah, I want like a social date. Yeah. And honestly, you just want to find out why why he's so adamant about the house. We have a mystery and we're putting on our Sherlock Holmes costumes as we speak, I detective attire is coming out, and then when we come back, we're going to try and get you your second date up date. Right after this second date, we're on the phone with one of our listeners named Megan, who went out on an interesting first date with a guy named Finn, and Megan There's something that you mentioned when you wrote your email to us that you didn't talk about in the first part. What's that? Because you said that you had your first date at his place, which turned out to be this really big mansion that his parents owned, yet steak dinner ordered in. But in your email you said that Finn cut your steak for you. Is that? Is that a sweet thing or is that a I think it depends if you ask I hate cutting, mind someone else cutting. That's probably because you order it super well done and you have to use a chainsaw to get into it. Why would you do? What was your read on that, Megan? I mean, at the moment, like, I thought it was kind of sneering because the food is actually delivered with past steak flatwear, and he took out actual like steak knives, so I thought he was doing it to be like courtious and nice and serving. Okay, here comes the airplane. Also, I would love Jose just supposed to be a giantman child. I really just did take care of a But did your mind change about it? It It sounds like you were gonna say but I mean, like when you say it out loud, Yeah, it sounds like kind of creezy, but in the moment it wasn't that way, but it felt fine in the in the time. In retrospect, right, probably should have just handed the knife to you and let you cut it. Well, I think it is right you ask. Like some girls like Brook or like you, I can cut my own steak man. It's just I'm not a child. I want my whole meal. But I love it. I feel like it could have been a chivalrous move. And let's call this chivalrous man and find out for sure. Because the weird part is he is asking her out. He's just not willing to go away from his house. He wants to keep it kind of SECRETA. This is gonna be a weird call. Can I have a phone number for you? Jeff? You know what you're asking? I thought you just didn't you go ahead and dial the numbers you ask, That's what I was saying. That was really sweet. Host dial the numbers for me, and we're gonna call Finn and talk to him. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Finn? Yes? You speaking? Hey? So sorry? I hope this isn't a bad time. Um, you're on the radio right now? Is Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Um, excuse me, who is this. We're a morning radio show. It's called Brooke and Jeffrey. Uh, we're doing a segment called a second Date Update. We're reaching out for one of our listeners who you went out with the other Well, I guess not didn't go out with, you stayed in with at your house. You guys had a date. Her name was Megan. Um, okay, I don't I don't understand. Why is she reaching out to you? Why are you calling me? Well, apparently there's a little bit of a miscommunication because you are asking her out on another date. You just don't want to go, like out out in public with her. Yeah, that's just sending up some weird vibes. Maybe there is there, like a reason. No, it's just, um, I'm just trying to, you know, get to know her more, that's all, okay? And why your house? Every time we heard your house is beautiful? I mean yeah, dude, no, yeah it's great, it's great. Yeah, it's a great place. So you know what's the problem, right, Well, it just seems counterintuitive because normally people want to get to know someone before they invite him over. But you want to get to know her before you go out in public. Yeah, but we've stalked for a long time online. We really got to know each other. Yeah, that's good. She mentioned that, and and she said she's really likes you. But one of one of the theories that has been circulating around here is that maybe you're trying to hide her. That you don't hide her. No, you don't want anybody to see that you're out with her. No, not at all. That's good to hear. Okay, a picture of you two right now. Great, that's cute. You said she's great. Yes, absolutely, I mean she's beautiful. What's the problem. Why won't you take her out? Like that's what she would really like? Well, I mean, I are you like you sound sound like something is there? You know what's going on? You just don't want to tell. Are you married or something? Is that? What knows? What is it? Then? Look at we're assuming the worst of you. Just if it's something that's simple, just clear it up. It's well, it's not simple, but it's just stupid. It's stupid. And I just that's great. We love stupid. Yeah, we're experts and stupid on this show. I'm so stupid, bro. I'm trying to make it feel comfortable. No, I've just true, well, essentially, essentially, for the next six months, I'm not allowed to leave the house. Rules from your parents. Why is it why we think it's I'm under house arrested. That's what I figured. Okay, what did you do? Is it for something really bad or just like kind of in jail? Right, it's stupid what you're doing. I don't even know I could say this, though, you'd you take it more house arrest for just telling people what happened. True. Basically, me and my buddies we got together to pretend like we were the village people. Well, I work in TV and film, and so I had a police uniform and my buddy has a construction worker uniform. We all got together. We pretended like we were the village people to play at this casino. So we show up and they're like, uh no, you're not the village people, right, are super old, probably at least one of them. So let me see if I understand what you're saying. You and your friends impersonated a famous band to get money from a casino and you got caught. Well, I mean, yeah, so what is that that's like defrauding a company. Yeah, that's it. It doesn't matter what the charges are really because I'm on house, arrested and I can't go anywhere. Okay, she was gonna notice if you ever got intimate, because that is well, ye can't hide that one. Yeah, here's the good news. I know you didn't want to come out with the truth to Megan, but you kind of did. Yeah. I didn't tell you this before. She's on the other line listening. What surprised Hi, Ali, Megan? I mean I wasn't really expecting that's the reason why we couldn't go out. If I'm relieved that you're not married or have a girlfriend or are you a better option? Yeah, well, you know, it's like it's so stupid. I don't I don't want to that to be our first thing that we're talking about, and I'm just like, oh God, how do I do this? Yeah? I mean, Megan, now you've you've heard the real reason that he's not calling you back because he's a secret Village People impersonator who defrauds casinos. Is that a turn off to you or is that a turn on? I mean, I guess just going back to our first dat I don't know why you didn't just tell me. Well, it's not exactly something you lead off with. You know, Hey, by the way, you know, I'm a criminal. I'm currently under house arrest. I mean, like with the second date, like you're inviting me back, right, and if I did go and we kept a charade up, I'd eventually find out. No, No, you wouldn't have found out. How would you not found out? Oh, I mean because you've never you would have never seen the bracelet. How what I don't want to He wears snow boots everywhere, maybe to put his monitor on a different part of his body. You never find if you can't find that part of the body, do you hear a beeping? Yeah? I mean I just think that it's weird that you think that I wouldn't find out right now, I think you should have told me. Yeah, yeah, I know, it's it's just not something. I'm just embarrassed by it. I don't want to I don't want to tell you. Well, that makes sense, though, Megan. You can see that he's finally at least it took a lot of prodding, but he did finally admit the truth to you, Megan. He's come clean. Would you like to go out on another date with him? We will offer you a gift card to his house. No, I think we just have to get post Yeah, exactly, do we? Or we can pay for the uber to and from. How many more months are you still on your house arrest there, Finn, I got three left? Okay, just three more months of dating at his house and then you can go out somewhere. Yeah, go back to that casino and do not do the village people thing together. Yeah, no, that's off limits. I can't come back there for a few years. Okay, Well maybe you just do do it at a bar or at a senior home or something and work your way up. But we will do that. We'd like to get you guys back together. Yeah, I mean, it's not like a deal breaker for me. I'm I mean to be full honest. I've been binge watching Animal Kingdoms, so I'm all about you know, criminal stuff right now? All right? Ye, zebras look great in black and white? So is this a yes for another day? Yes, that's a yes. I think. All right, we'll get you back over to Finn's places parents house. Awesome. I can't think of a worse endorsement for online dating. Than screw it. I'm not going to meet somebody else. I'm just gonna keep seeing the guy who's under house arrest for the next three months. Oh that's true, brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Man. You know, the more I think about it, the more I'm not sure if she should have said yes to another day just now. Well. I wanted to be happy for them, but now I don't know. Okay, listen, I've dated a fellow, but he was honest about it from the beginning. Like that guy was just he would have never told her. He even admitted that ye months left. There's no way she wouldn't have found out, right, And the guy sounded like he was in his early thirties. So that's usually the time in your life when you stop making really stupid decisions. Wow, Like I get the idea of him and his buddies at a bar one night, being like, oh, you know, it would be really funny. Let's all dress up like the village people and try and steal money from the casino. That's where it should have ended. I don't even get that part, like a dream, because that's not how Brad Pitt and George Clooney didn't well, I mean, it's a guy thing. You kind of joke around about stuff like that, but you don't actually buy the costumes and go to the casino and actually take the money. He already had them. I mean, to be fair, maybe there was a little legitimacy, but I remember, if you ever want to get a second AD update, you can always reach out to us. We'll call that person who isn't calling you back. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,

Second d friends, we have another mystery on our hands. Those because normally when we do these calls, the other person has completely ghosted our listener and is avoiding any contact. Right, Well, that's not the case here. In this one. The guy has moved in with her and is paying her entire rent. I don't get it. I'm kidding. They're not that close at all. But okay, Megan, our listener wants our help because the guy is asking her out. She's just not interested in the type of date that he has in mind. Interesting, she wants our help. Megan, Welcome to the show. Hi, guys, how are you good. I'm really curious about this conundrum you're in. Yeah. Yeah, Well, so I met this guy online. We were chatting for several weeks. Okay, what's his name? His name is Finn. Finn Okay, yeah, I don't know any since so it was kind of drawn to him by a unique name, and then you know, we're getting to know each other over. Of course, there was several weeks chatting online, and one of the things he mentioned was that he had younger sisters and that he's protective over them. So I felt like, this is a guy that knows how to be a respectable woman. But he's an older brother, so it's still questionable. Yeah, I mean the younger brother always because he's been beaten down the older brother. It's really a crup toting exactly or he who or he could just be a jerk to him, I mean who knows? Right, Yeah, but I notified that maybe he had that, like more of that alpha big brother presence. I'm attracted to that, Okay, okay, Yeah, So anyways, for our first date, he actually invited me over to his house, which is not something typically you do with somebody that you've met online, right, well, not do but alpha men, you're right over it's actually a den I believe they call it a den. Yes, so you felt comfortable doing that? You felt okay with it? I did? I did. I felt like I got to know him well, you know, well enough online that I felt fairly comfortable going over. Yeah. It was interesting. You know, he gave me an address to go meet him, and I I'm driving into the Neighborhood's a really beautiful neighborhood, full up to the house, and I wasn't really sure, like, am I at the right destination? Um? A beautiful house as a house. It's not an apartment. Huh No, it was like a huge it was like, I guess it could be considered a mansion. Who house, Okay, like it was a serious house. I mean, it turns out that his family is very well off, and like they parents allowed him to rent the house from them's house. We use rent, I'm sure in quotes right now meet me in the West Way. Yeah, well if you could, if you get to reap the benefits of that, then go for it, I said. I mean it was awesome. So you're you're impressed walking up to the door. Yeah, I mean he had a whole game room and there's like a billiards table, like a shovel board. We played all these things. There was a bar, like a full stock bar with beer on tap in it. What was he like, like, it's great that he's rich, But what was your vibe with him? No, one honestly cares. Do you take hoverboards between all the rooms? You guys got along? Yeah, you casual. He wasn't like stuck up for snobby about it. He's like, oh, let me show you around, and that's good talk. What was the most romantic part of the night, That's what Brooke wants to know. Yeah, sure, I would take dinner. Um, he ordered in from a really really nice steakhouse. Oh wow, you ordered delivery that steakhouse days and lobster tail. But he had set it up and outdoor patto and he laid out the table and everything and they had like a beautiful view. So that was like the most romantic part of it. That's better. It sounds lazy. He wouldn't take you to steakhouse, but that's pretty nice. Like, and this man wants to go out with you again? Why are you talking to us? This sounds amazing. Well, so after I left him, we had a great time. He invited me over again for a second date. But awesome. I have actually suggested us going out somewhere and like having fun and you know, maybe dancing a little bit. But he was really adamant about going back to his house. Is it like sending you red flags? And he's like trying to keep things secret or something like famous where he like literally is like I don't want to I was getting married, but yeah, not famous enough. You don't want to hang out back at his house. I mean it's not that I've minded, but it just seems weird that he was here. I mean just his tone. He was very specific about just staying in at his place. Yeah, not a good sign. Well, maybe he has a second parents house that he wants to show you that that's true. Oh um, are you worried that it's like too good to be true? Why can't tall like hiding me? Or if he's trying to just get my pants and he just wants to get there quicker. I have no idea what Alexis will tell you. That's not the worst thing in the world. Yeah, yeah, okay, So even though he is reaching out and asking for a date, you want a different type of date out in public, Yeah, I want like a social date. Yeah. And honestly, you just want to find out why why he's so adamant about the house. We have a mystery and we're putting on our Sherlock Holmes costumes as we speak, I detective attire is coming out, and then when we come back, we're going to try and get you your second date up date. Right after this second date, we're on the phone with one of our listeners named Megan, who went out on an interesting first date with a guy named Finn, and Megan There's something that you mentioned when you wrote your email to us that you didn't talk about in the first part. What's that? Because you said that you had your first date at his place, which turned out to be this really big mansion that his parents owned, yet steak dinner ordered in. But in your email you said that Finn cut your steak for you. Is that? Is that a sweet thing or is that a I think it depends if you ask I hate cutting, mind someone else cutting. That's probably because you order it super well done and you have to use a chainsaw to get into it. Why would you do? What was your read on that, Megan? I mean, at the moment, like, I thought it was kind of sneering because the food is actually delivered with past steak flatwear, and he took out actual like steak knives, so I thought he was doing it to be like courtious and nice and serving. Okay, here comes the airplane. Also, I would love Jose just supposed to be a giantman child. I really just did take care of a But did your mind change about it? It It sounds like you were gonna say but I mean, like when you say it out loud, Yeah, it sounds like kind of creezy, but in the moment it wasn't that way, but it felt fine in the in the time. In retrospect, right, probably should have just handed the knife to you and let you cut it. Well, I think it is right you ask. Like some girls like Brook or like you, I can cut my own steak man. It's just I'm not a child. I want my whole meal. But I love it. I feel like it could have been a chivalrous move. And let's call this chivalrous man and find out for sure. Because the weird part is he is asking her out. He's just not willing to go away from his house. He wants to keep it kind of SECRETA. This is gonna be a weird call. Can I have a phone number for you? Jeff? You know what you're asking? I thought you just didn't you go ahead and dial the numbers you ask, That's what I was saying. That was really sweet. Host dial the numbers for me, and we're gonna call Finn and talk to him. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Finn? Yes? You speaking? Hey? So sorry? I hope this isn't a bad time. Um, you're on the radio right now? Is Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Um, excuse me, who is this. We're a morning radio show. It's called Brooke and Jeffrey. Uh, we're doing a segment called a second Date Update. We're reaching out for one of our listeners who you went out with the other Well, I guess not didn't go out with, you stayed in with at your house. You guys had a date. Her name was Megan. Um, okay, I don't I don't understand. Why is she reaching out to you? Why are you calling me? Well, apparently there's a little bit of a miscommunication because you are asking her out on another date. You just don't want to go, like out out in public with her. Yeah, that's just sending up some weird vibes. Maybe there is there, like a reason. No, it's just, um, I'm just trying to, you know, get to know her more, that's all, okay? And why your house? Every time we heard your house is beautiful? I mean yeah, dude, no, yeah it's great, it's great. Yeah, it's a great place. So you know what's the problem, right, Well, it just seems counterintuitive because normally people want to get to know someone before they invite him over. But you want to get to know her before you go out in public. Yeah, but we've stalked for a long time online. We really got to know each other. Yeah, that's good. She mentioned that, and and she said she's really likes you. But one of one of the theories that has been circulating around here is that maybe you're trying to hide her. That you don't hide her. No, you don't want anybody to see that you're out with her. No, not at all. That's good to hear. Okay, a picture of you two right now. Great, that's cute. You said she's great. Yes, absolutely, I mean she's beautiful. What's the problem. Why won't you take her out? Like that's what she would really like? Well, I mean, I are you like you sound sound like something is there? You know what's going on? You just don't want to tell. Are you married or something? Is that? What knows? What is it? Then? Look at we're assuming the worst of you. Just if it's something that's simple, just clear it up. It's well, it's not simple, but it's just stupid. It's stupid. And I just that's great. We love stupid. Yeah, we're experts and stupid on this show. I'm so stupid, bro. I'm trying to make it feel comfortable. No, I've just true, well, essentially, essentially, for the next six months, I'm not allowed to leave the house. Rules from your parents. Why is it why we think it's I'm under house arrested. That's what I figured. Okay, what did you do? Is it for something really bad or just like kind of in jail? Right, it's stupid what you're doing. I don't even know I could say this, though, you'd you take it more house arrest for just telling people what happened. True. Basically, me and my buddies we got together to pretend like we were the village people. Well, I work in TV and film, and so I had a police uniform and my buddy has a construction worker uniform. We all got together. We pretended like we were the village people to play at this casino. So we show up and they're like, uh no, you're not the village people, right, are super old, probably at least one of them. So let me see if I understand what you're saying. You and your friends impersonated a famous band to get money from a casino and you got caught. Well, I mean, yeah, so what is that that's like defrauding a company. Yeah, that's it. It doesn't matter what the charges are really because I'm on house, arrested and I can't go anywhere. Okay, she was gonna notice if you ever got intimate, because that is well, ye can't hide that one. Yeah, here's the good news. I know you didn't want to come out with the truth to Megan, but you kind of did. Yeah. I didn't tell you this before. She's on the other line listening. What surprised Hi, Ali, Megan? I mean I wasn't really expecting that's the reason why we couldn't go out. If I'm relieved that you're not married or have a girlfriend or are you a better option? Yeah, well, you know, it's like it's so stupid. I don't I don't want to that to be our first thing that we're talking about, and I'm just like, oh God, how do I do this? Yeah? I mean, Megan, now you've you've heard the real reason that he's not calling you back because he's a secret Village People impersonator who defrauds casinos. Is that a turn off to you or is that a turn on? I mean, I guess just going back to our first dat I don't know why you didn't just tell me. Well, it's not exactly something you lead off with. You know, Hey, by the way, you know, I'm a criminal. I'm currently under house arrest. I mean, like with the second date, like you're inviting me back, right, and if I did go and we kept a charade up, I'd eventually find out. No, No, you wouldn't have found out. How would you not found out? Oh, I mean because you've never you would have never seen the bracelet. How what I don't want to He wears snow boots everywhere, maybe to put his monitor on a different part of his body. You never find if you can't find that part of the body, do you hear a beeping? Yeah? I mean I just think that it's weird that you think that I wouldn't find out right now, I think you should have told me. Yeah, yeah, I know, it's it's just not something. I'm just embarrassed by it. I don't want to I don't want to tell you. Well, that makes sense, though, Megan. You can see that he's finally at least it took a lot of prodding, but he did finally admit the truth to you, Megan. He's come clean. Would you like to go out on another date with him? We will offer you a gift card to his house. No, I think we just have to get post Yeah, exactly, do we? Or we can pay for the uber to and from. How many more months are you still on your house arrest there, Finn, I got three left? Okay, just three more months of dating at his house and then you can go out somewhere. Yeah, go back to that casino and do not do the village people thing together. Yeah, no, that's off limits. I can't come back there for a few years. Okay, Well maybe you just do do it at a bar or at a senior home or something and work your way up. But we will do that. We'd like to get you guys back together. Yeah, I mean, it's not like a deal breaker for me. I'm I mean to be full honest. I've been binge watching Animal Kingdoms, so I'm all about you know, criminal stuff right now? All right? Ye, zebras look great in black and white? So is this a yes for another day? Yes, that's a yes. I think. All right, we'll get you back over to Finn's places parents house. Awesome. I can't think of a worse endorsement for online dating. Than screw it. I'm not going to meet somebody else. I'm just gonna keep seeing the guy who's under house arrest for the next three months. Oh that's true, brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Man. You know, the more I think about it, the more I'm not sure if she should have said yes to another day just now. Well. I wanted to be happy for them, but now I don't know. Okay, listen, I've dated a fellow, but he was honest about it from the beginning. Like that guy was just he would have never told her. He even admitted that ye months left. There's no way she wouldn't have found out, right, And the guy sounded like he was in his early thirties. So that's usually the time in your life when you stop making really stupid decisions. Wow, Like I get the idea of him and his buddies at a bar one night, being like, oh, you know, it would be really funny. Let's all dress up like the village people and try and steal money from the casino. That's where it should have ended. I don't even get that part, like a dream, because that's not how Brad Pitt and George Clooney didn't well, I mean, it's a guy thing. You kind of joke around about stuff like that, but you don't actually buy the costumes and go to the casino and actually take the money. He already had them. I mean, to be fair, maybe there was a little legitimacy, but I remember, if you ever want to get a second AD update, you can always reach out to us. We'll call that person who isn't calling you back. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,