Brooke and JeffreyA mysterious handwritten note was dropped onto the table during our listener's date and it altered both of their lives forever! Hear what it said coming up in a new Second Date Update!
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Second Date Update Date. In the entertainment industry, it's all about good branding, Oh yeah, for sure.
And that's why today we're turning our second date update into a second date yupdate, trying to get a guy to say yep to a second meeting.
It's called good branding.
And I've already got our digital team recutting all of the station promos. And by digital team, I mean the one guy who still works here.
So thanks, Seth.
But in the meantime, let's meet our hopeful yupper of the day, goes on Jessica. Welcome to the show. I apologize for all the negativity in the.
Room, not against you, just against Jeffrey.
Just so you know, Hi, guys, thanks for having me.
Can we call her Yesica Jeffrey.
I kind of make that, absolutely can. If that's okay with you, Yessica. For your updated it's.
Going to be all have you hung up yet?
I'm sorry?
Okay, Okay, gotcha, I'm sorry to let go.
Let's start with an easy question. Who's the guy that you want us to call today?
So his name is Patrick. Okay, we met on a dating app. I've never been on a dating app, of course, but this is my first time.
That's your very first date from a dating app.
Yeah, and it was crazy because I was getting so many like messages from people and it's like hun goods.
Wow. Was that overwhelming?
Yeah?
Absolutely, I mean I definitely was trying to like weep through all of that, and so when I saw this guy Patrick message to me, it was like super normal. Yesked me just was like, hey, how are you? Wasn't anything about like physical appearance, so it looking creepy.
It wasn't like the others that are like fresh meat.
Yeah, it does say like new to the app.
Yeah, so the algorithm really does that.
Yeah yeah, okay, so you were attracted to his normalness?
Yeah, definitely. And we went to this restaurant that was really nice.
What were you feeling going into this because you ever even been on a blind date before. I mean, I mean, I know you can see people's pictures and shouting to them, but you don't really know what to expect, right. Yeah.
I was absolutely nervous because I normally want to do things with my dog happy happy pa f f y.
Which makes jose happy just thinking about Okay, sorry, how did we get onto her dog?
She normally goes places with her dog, and I'm guessing you didn't bring your dog to the restaurant.
No, I didn't because they didn't allow like dogs at the restaurant in there, Wi'm patio seating.
I thought you were going to put your dog inside of like a sweater and like do the thing where people stack on top of each other, and then your dog could sit in the restaurant like.
Eating parts of her steak through the buttons.
Yeah, and that would have been cute, but I guess still distracting for the date.
Was that hard for you not to bring your dog?
Yeah?
I mean I love my dog. I was thinking about her a lot, so on the date. It was so fun, but I kept like kind of thinking about her. So I was like getting distracted during the conversation. For example, I love to read and my favorite series is Harry Potter, and he was like, I'm reading the series again, so we were talking about it. It was just so nice, but I kept thinking about Tappy.
Did he notice that you were distracted and thinking about your dog?
I mean, I think a little bit, because he had to repeat the question a few times that.
He had, so that's interesting.
I wonder if he thought you were distracted or just like airheady.
I don't know, I mean, does that insult you? Just ye, didn't mean to insult you.
I don't think it was airheady. I think I was just like kind of like floating. I was just a little distracted.
Yeah, I was a balloon minded.
Okay, this second date yupdate is definitely turning kind of dark. Let's bring the yuppie mood back in. Okay, I did, and I apologize. See look at this, this is what I'm talking about positive energy.
And you're just asking if he thought that maybe she was a little spacey and not really because he didn't realize she was thinking about her dog.
Did you talk about your dog a lot?
Like?
Oh yeah, did you bring it up at all?
I mean I talked about Hafy a little bit, but I tried not to make it the whole conversation.
Yeah.
Okay, So just to recap, you're on your first time on a date through a dating app. You're feeling a little bit nervous, you keep thinking about your dog, talking about Harry Potter a lot, missing some of his questions. So far, it's going, okay, how does the date end?
So at the end of the date, I once to use the restroom, and he was like getting the check, and when I came back from the restroom, he was go. And we left me a note saying sorry, No, that.
Is a terrible first.
Let's give him a little bit of credit.
Was there at least a sad face at the end of sorry?
Make it kind of cute?
There wasn't a hard I'm sorry.
Why would you want to get a hold of this guy again? He ditched you at the end of the day.
Honestly, now I.
Want to know why he ditched me because everything seemed to be going great. And honestly, Lexus, I really want your feedback on this because I feel like you know men, and you know, like I feel like you can really help.
You think she knows men?
All men?
Okay? Yeah she does? Yeah, yeah, Lexus, what do you have to say about that?
No experts, boundaries.
So what do you think of Lexis? Why do you think she left me?
Yeah?
Share your wisdom, you know, I need a few minutes to think about it. Study.
She's the one that all of her friends go to for advice. Obviously.
Yeah, they're still waiting on.
That advice, some of them.
But TikTok answers.
We're gonna hopefully get all of the answers for you. When we come back, call Patrick and try to get you your second date yupdate and have him say yup to another meet up Yessica, it's happening.
Right after this second date update. If you're just joining us.
We've been talking to a young woman by the name of Jessica who recently dipped her toe into the pool of dating apps. Got hundreds of messages from eager male suitors, and she chose one who seems to be the most normal.
And if this is the most normal, then she's doomed. It was such a terrible end to date.
His name is Patrick, and it was a terrible end because she got ditched by him at the restaurant, actually back to the.
Table from a note.
It's so rude, so rude, absolutely but broke.
Can we at least say it's impressive that he knows how to write something by hand?
Can we give him that.
It wasn't a full sentence?
Okay?
Did it have any punctuations?
That's why he only wrote one word because don't know how to write a sentence.
That's possible. There's a few questions. Was there any punctuation on it.
No, man, I guess an exclamation mark would have made it feel worse.
But the good news is Jessica is gen Z and she's looking towards a gen Z.
Hero for answers here.
I think it's safe to say she wants you very, very involved in this call, Alexis, as do we're talking about you're the gen Z hereout any more thoughts now that you've had time to TikTok about why this guy ditched on Jessica, you really got.
Let's play some more music.
And there's just it could be anything. It could be her zoning out. It could be she likes Harry Potter. Okay, there's the odds of the dating world. Your first date probably isn't going to be good on a dating app.
Okay.
I just appreciate Alexis being open to helping me.
I don't know that I have a choice, but yes I have.
Alexis is going to take a very active role in getting answers out of this guy.
Let's call him and hopefully he picks up. But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Patrick?
Missus Patrick a man?
Thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
What's up, man, Good morning?
Uh, Okay, Alexis, we have we have a bunch of questions that we would like to ask you about a woman that you went out with recently.
Her name is Jessica.
What.
Yeah, it's part of segment that we do called the second Date Update.
So Alexis take it.
From here now with somebody and you're super rude at the end, actually like you need to explain yourself.
Okay, we're trying to get him to open up. I would love to hear.
You.
I'm sure you have a great reason that I will totally side with you.
Okay, did you hear that? Patrick? Do you know what she's talking about?
I'm I'm like totally confused. What are you talking about?
Okay, maybe I'll explain and then I'll talk about this girl. Jessica emailed us because she told us about your date at the restaurant and she is very confused. Why you ditched her halfway through with no explanation, just left it out that said sorry.
It was the end, but yeah, yeah, it was at the end of the night and there was no hope.
So I just left to know.
I got to say though, Man, that's pretty rude.
Well, she was being extremely rude. She was on her phone the entire time, and then just a year to the bathroom, and.
Then what disappeared to the bathroom?
Yeah, she disappeared to the bathroom for like thirty minutes.
Whoa, oh wow, that's a long time.
I'm exaggerating a little bit. I mean it was like ten minutes, but it felt like thirty.
Okay, now I'm starting to think it was two minutes.
Yeah, a long time.
But there's a line like you don't know yeah.
No, No. She was like she is obsessed with her dog, and it was like she would rather have been with her dog, and so I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna leave so she can hang out with her dog.
I mean, when don't most people rather be with their own pet the first day?
I mean, but her dog's not even there.
So like the whole night, she's like on her phone and she was trying to like put it to the side so I wouldn't notice. But she did it so much within like the first five minutes of us meeting that I asked her if she was all right, oh, and she was like, Okay, here's the deal. I have a dog cracker app and this is the first time been away from Pappy or whatever. The dogs mad.
Yeah.
Doesn't that make you feel better though, because in that moment, now she's being open with you and she's feeling like it's almost like an apology, like I am so sorry that I was on my phone.
It's kind of cute. But she had it set for this like bark alert, so when it would bark, her phone would buzz. That's annoying.
Yeah.
I was like, okay, well, maybe you should turn that off during the dinner, and like a few minutes later, she like pulls out her phone and she's like, oh my god, look Tappy sniffing the roomba. That means she's anxious. It means just what anxious anxious.
I was like, okay, oh, my friends had pet cameras had to delete it because of it.
It's so sad all the time. Yeah.
Yeah, And he would always distract them so they got rid of their ass.
Obviously, your day is just having separation excuted herself, you know, and the dog seems.
Like it's fine.
Well exactly, and then she goes to the bathroom and she was gone for such a long time that I actually thought she ditched me.
Oh, w to go check on her dog or something.
Well, I went back to the bathroom and this girl came out and I was like, Hey, have you seen this woman in the bathroom. She's about this high, has this color hair. And she was like, oh yeah, she's in there facetiming her dog.
Okay, oh I get that baby.
She had a dog the car you can talk to there we go, so your little dog.
Thank you for explaining what happened from your perspective. That gives us a little bit more of a scope about what was going on, at least from your side of it.
And now you probably need to hear.
Jessica's side of it because she is on the other line listening right now.
And what does she want to do? Alexis I actually know what.
She wants anymore?
Get answers? They usually want to talk.
You want to talk to each other? Yes, start there, it's Jessica on the other line.
If she's there, Jessica, Hey, Patrick, Hey, what's up? Oh? I know it was just kind of weird, but like, I know, all that stuff did happen, but yes, is that really a reason to like get you? Yeah?
I mean I didn't know how long you were going to be in the bathroom facetiming with Taffy, and I was just like it was just frustrating. Like I get it's hard to leave a pet at home, but like, come on, it's only the dog's in danger. Well, you could have like messaged me after, Okay, that's fair. I could have messaged you after, But I was just like, I don't know, I was just so turned off. I kind of just was like, forget about it.
I mean, if I'm a guy and I'm on a date and the girl is not paying attention to me the entire time, I'm going to start to feel like she doesn't really like me.
It wasn't the entire time, he said. There was twenty minutes in between the phone and then her explaining, and then.
She would like at least she tried to take the FaceTime call away from the table.
I don't know, like, why didn't he bring it up. Why didn't you say, hey, you're kind of hurting my feelings. Let's go back to your house and hang out your dog.
I just don't understand why why we can't just decide to go on a date and be with the other person. Instead of being on our phones and.
Well my child.
Well, yeah, I'm sorry.
You should ignore your children if they're trying to interrupt you in the middle of a hot date.
That's really rude.
Brook does Oh absolutely, I don't answer their car. Maybe if she gets a second child, didn't, she'll care less.
Yeah, I just.
Think maybe next time, if you're that worried about it, Jessica, you can just find a dog sitter.
But it still doesn't warrant him ditching you at the end of the night. I'm with you on that one.
I appreciate your opinion on that, Brook, but I really like to hear what alexis.
I think it did not warrant him to leave you a note like that at the end of the day.
Finally, a thought that makes sense on this show. Thank you, Alexis.
You're welcome.
Okay, So so wait.
Are we not going to tell her but the future, maybe pay more attentions.
I think she should bring the dog to a dog friendly place.
Could be a good day. I mean, that's always an option.
And look, Patrick, if you're willing to give her another chance, we would pay for it.
I mean, it would be good to try her out with the dog.
To see if she's as distracted, if the dog's with her.
Yes, Alexis is going to tell you two reasons why you should say yes.
Right now, because is obviously cute.
That's obvious.
You owe her.
Did you say one and then b what's your second?
Doing this right now?
I mean, you can't say no that that logic.
I am, I'm out, I'm out. I'm sorry.
I just.
Jessica is too high strung for me. I just it's not gonna work.
Oh man, oh my god.
Jessica Patrick, thanks so much, like for telling me the truth. Now I know why. I mean, I can just get back to the hundreds of other messages I got.
You got hundreds, Okay, I don't think it's that much.
Hey, if there's.
Plenty of fish, it's definitely that said she was in the bathroom for thirty minutes and it turned out to be ten.
So I don't think we're judging your numbers.
That's actually fair.
Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
I can't believe we didn't get a yes for that. I thought for sure they'd be able to figure out a compromise between the two.
I alas, I didn't think it was that big of a deal, like, you know, I mean, I agree with him that people should be able to just be on a date for sure, but like there was.
No middle ground for either of them, right.
I mean, she was a little bit stressed out being away from her cat for the first time. That's sorry, dog for the first time. That's totally understandable. And it's also understandable that he wants to have a girl pay attention day.
Right.
But you know, in strange, confusing times like this, I'm just so thankful that we have Alexis to help us make.
Sense of everything.
What would you guys do without me?
And I know Alexis share your wisdom. Please? Why is the dating world like this right now?
Because people are people and that's how deep.
Oh my god, so inspiring.
She just peopled so hard.
I feel so much better now, Thank you, Alexi.
Instead of emailing us African Jefferys, just email Alexis your second date updates from now on.
I don't email. Whatever you gotta do, gross.
Just reach out to the show in whatever way, and Alexis can save you in your dating.
You don't have a success yet, but she will.
It's gonna happen, that's right. They didn't say no.
Manifest that positivity and go check out all of our podcasts wherever you get yours Abroke and Jeffrey
