Second date updated.

Second date updated.

There's a lot of confusing information out there about how to attract a mate online. That's what the video says, how to catch your mate is that what you're doing?

There's a lot of confusing information out there about how to attract a mate online. That's what the video says, how to catch your mate is that what you're doing?

Information is so bad.

Information is so bad.

Hereted out how to sheet from Yahoo in front of it.

Hereted out how to sheet from Yahoo in front of it.

It's so conflicting though.

It's so conflicting though.

It's like, be super clear with your intentions, but also be mysterious and coy.

It's like, be super clear with your intentions, but also be mysterious and coy.

Make sure to be.

Make sure to be.

Super funny and playful, but don't be joky or they're gonna think you're not serious.

Super funny and playful, but don't be joky or they're gonna think you're not serious.

What does it make sense?

What does it make sense?

Yeah, show who you really are, even if you run a puppy mill. Let them know. Yeah, okay.

Yeah, show who you really are, even if you run a puppy mill. Let them know. Yeah, okay.

And one of our listeners says, she got swept up in the confusion of how to maximize your dating profile, but in the end, I guess it turned out to be a good thing for her.

And one of our listeners says, she got swept up in the confusion of how to maximize your dating profile, but in the end, I guess it turned out to be a good thing for her.

Well, I don't know.

Well, I don't know.

She's on the phone with us, so let's.

She's on the phone with us, so let's.

Let's figure it out. Cynthia, welcome to the show. Tell us what happened?

Let's figure it out. Cynthia, welcome to the show. Tell us what happened?

Hi, guys, so good to be here.

Hi, guys, so good to be here.

Well that's good, Cynthia, look at you.

Well that's good, Cynthia, look at you.

Try an extra heart again. Yeah, So what happened?

Try an extra heart again. Yeah, So what happened?

How did you get swept up in the confusion of the online dating well, Google is.

How did you get swept up in the confusion of the online dating well, Google is.

Free, but it's a jungle.

Free, but it's a jungle.

So yeah, yeah, wait, you ask Google for advice instead of like your friends.

So yeah, yeah, wait, you ask Google for advice instead of like your friends.

What should she ask her friends? Oh?

What should she ask her friends? Oh?

No, I feel like you should run your profile by your friends and see what they think if it's showing you in the best light or not.

No, I feel like you should run your profile by your friends and see what they think if it's showing you in the best light or not.

Well, we get there eventually.

Well, we get there eventually.

Okay.

Okay.

So I'm looking up all these different ways on how I can get more matches with online dating, and some of the things I found were that if your profile picture has your hair out of your face, you're twenty seven percent more likely to get a match.

So I'm looking up all these different ways on how I can get more matches with online dating, and some of the things I found were that if your profile picture has your hair out of your face, you're twenty seven percent more likely to get a match.

Yeah, unless you have an ugly face. Oh wow, is that what the problem is, Cynthia? Can you confirm that? For over there? I shaved my no one's ma Did no one else take that?

Yeah, unless you have an ugly face. Oh wow, is that what the problem is, Cynthia? Can you confirm that? For over there? I shaved my no one's ma Did no one else take that?

I didn't take that. I was thinking it was big on TikTok for all they said guys like hair up.

I didn't take that. I was thinking it was big on TikTok for all they said guys like hair up.

Okay, okay, So twenty seven percent more likely if you have your hair up out.

Okay, okay, So twenty seven percent more likely if you have your hair up out.

Of your face, right, and seventy six percent more likely if you have a teeth smile if you smile with your teeth.

Of your face, right, and seventy six percent more likely if you have a teeth smile if you smile with your teeth.

That's assuming you have all your teeth in there, right, missing, right, I smile with my gums gummy smile. That's only because your ratio. Yeah, okay, anything else.

That's assuming you have all your teeth in there, right, missing, right, I smile with my gums gummy smile. That's only because your ratio. Yeah, okay, anything else.

This is one from my side that I also find to be pretty true. If you're alone in your pictures, no friends, no one else in the photo, you're sixty percent more likely, I.

This is one from my side that I also find to be pretty true. If you're alone in your pictures, no friends, no one else in the photo, you're sixty percent more likely, I.

Swear more likely. There's been times where I'm swiping and I'm like, what girl is the girl? Because every picture yeah part of the fun, Jose, It's like, oh, spin the wheel over? Who am I going to get?

Swear more likely. There's been times where I'm swiping and I'm like, what girl is the girl? Because every picture yeah part of the fun, Jose, It's like, oh, spin the wheel over? Who am I going to get?

I think? Ok?

I think? Ok?

I just all group is weird? What'd you go it?

I just all group is weird? What'd you go it?

Did you do some group, some solo?

Did you do some group, some solo?

Did you do all one way?

Did you do all one way?

Well?

Well?

No, I did all just single photos of me because I find that when I'm swiping for guys, if I have to guess who you are in the photo, I'm not going to I'm just gonna play.

No, I did all just single photos of me because I find that when I'm swiping for guys, if I have to guess who you are in the photo, I'm not going to I'm just gonna play.

Okay, So did you take all that advice?

Okay, So did you take all that advice?

Yeah?

Yeah?

Yeah, yeah, So I tried it and I forgot nothing after a week. Nothing nothing nothing really, I mean remember like weirdos of course, like guys who were very interesting.

Yeah, yeah, So I tried it and I forgot nothing after a week. Nothing nothing nothing really, I mean remember like weirdos of course, like guys who were very interesting.

So what'd you change? Would you do to change your luck?

So what'd you change? Would you do to change your luck?

Well?

Well?

She couldn't change her face up, Brooke, Like, that's not very nice to tell her to get surgery before. Can we like move off of that and maybe get to how how did you change your dating profile?

She couldn't change her face up, Brooke, Like, that's not very nice to tell her to get surgery before. Can we like move off of that and maybe get to how how did you change your dating profile?

That's what I asked, What did you change about yourself? It was the way you said it. Yeah, we knew, so what happened?

That's what I asked, What did you change about yourself? It was the way you said it. Yeah, we knew, so what happened?

So I just ended up asking my friend what she thought of what I had uploaded.

So I just ended up asking my friend what she thought of what I had uploaded.

Actually, that's exactly what you What did your friend say?

Actually, that's exactly what you What did your friend say?

She said, looked like a volts of raptor.

She said, looked like a volts of raptor.

Were you burying your teeth or smiling?

Were you burying your teeth or smiling?

She kept saying that I had such big teeth and that was my hair pulled back, like my forehead looked a bit.

She kept saying that I had such big teeth and that was my hair pulled back, like my forehead looked a bit.

She are you mad?

She are you mad?

Or are you like?

Or are you like?

I can see it?

I can see it?

I mean I was humbled for sure.

I mean I was humbled for sure.

I'm trying to figure out who's mean or your friend or Brooke.

I'm trying to figure out who's mean or your friend or Brooke.

I would never say that to my friend.

I would never say that to my friend.

Oh my god. Oh wow. Okay, so she gave you a few tips to change stuff.

Oh my god. Oh wow. Okay, so she gave you a few tips to change stuff.

That was kind of all she said. I guess her tough love pushed me to kind of just go back to the drawing board and just go back to what I was already doing.

That was kind of all she said. I guess her tough love pushed me to kind of just go back to the drawing board and just go back to what I was already doing.

Are we never going to get a date here? Or we like what happened?

Are we never going to get a date here? Or we like what happened?

Well?

Well?

So I ended up just posting what I felt was right for me. But I ended up getting a date with this guy Aaron.

So I ended up just posting what I felt was right for me. But I ended up getting a date with this guy Aaron.

Okay, cool.

Okay, cool.

Yeah, we ended up texting. We went out for like pizza and wine and stuff. And it's funny because I told him about, you know, my experience was trying to update my profile and that was kind of the topic of conversation for most of the night. We laughed about it and ended up taking pictures of each other, you know in dinosaur pos it.

Yeah, we ended up texting. We went out for like pizza and wine and stuff. And it's funny because I told him about, you know, my experience was trying to update my profile and that was kind of the topic of conversation for most of the night. We laughed about it and ended up taking pictures of each other, you know in dinosaur pos it.

Really, Oh my god, I love it.

Really, Oh my god, I love it.

See good sense of humor, embrace it, and now you bonded, although everybody else in the pizza parlor was like, what the Yeah, I love it.

See good sense of humor, embrace it, and now you bonded, although everybody else in the pizza parlor was like, what the Yeah, I love it.

Your pet names for each other are already raptor att Yeah.

Your pet names for each other are already raptor att Yeah.

So what's happened since then?

So what's happened since then?

I just I haven't been able to hang out with him in like a month. That was like a month ago.

I just I haven't been able to hang out with him in like a month. That was like a month ago.

And it sounds like you've been texting. It just hasn't lined up.

And it sounds like you've been texting. It just hasn't lined up.

Yeah, I schedules haven't lined up. We haven't been able to find a good time, and I just I don't know, I'm getting a little discouraged. I felt like, you know, we lost a bit of momentum, and I was just wondering if you guys would give me some advice or helped me out a little.

Yeah, I schedules haven't lined up. We haven't been able to find a good time, and I just I don't know, I'm getting a little discouraged. I felt like, you know, we lost a bit of momentum, and I was just wondering if you guys would give me some advice or helped me out a little.

Well, Brook's gonna tell you to change the way your voice sounds, so maybe you don't want to ask us to advice.

Well, Brook's gonna tell you to change the way your voice sounds, so maybe you don't want to ask us to advice.

Talk about her?

Talk about her?

You sound amazing, You sound fun You sound funny and self deprecating.

You sound amazing, You sound fun You sound funny and self deprecating.

I know, but what about herb Brook? I know me, but what about her? You know what?

I know, but what about herb Brook? I know me, but what about her? You know what?

We're just gonna call this guy Aaron for you when we come back and do your second date update right after this hold.

We're just gonna call this guy Aaron for you when we come back and do your second date update right after this hold.

On second date update on that phone with us today.

On second date update on that phone with us today.

Is a woman who just updated her dino dating profile, the Majestic Cynthia Soaurus rep.

Is a woman who just updated her dino dating profile, the Majestic Cynthia Soaurus rep.

You know, I think there was a lot worse dinosaurs she could have been compared to.

You know, I think there was a lot worse dinosaurs she could have been compared to.

We're gonna call her c Rex for short, or maybe just Cynthia, which is her normal name for human name. But the reason why we're poking fun about it is because she found an article online with all these tips about what types of pictures you should take if you want to get better matches on dating sites, and she found some ideas where you're supposed to pull your hair back, show more teeth that's supposed to get more guys to swipe on you. But after a week online with no matches, her friend told her the truth. The reason no guys are biting is because you look like a velociraptor.

We're gonna call her c Rex for short, or maybe just Cynthia, which is her normal name for human name. But the reason why we're poking fun about it is because she found an article online with all these tips about what types of pictures you should take if you want to get better matches on dating sites, and she found some ideas where you're supposed to pull your hair back, show more teeth that's supposed to get more guys to swipe on you. But after a week online with no matches, her friend told her the truth. The reason no guys are biting is because you look like a velociraptor.

It looks like but listen, the most ferocious of the dinosaurs. Yes, and with a very muscular built.

It looks like but listen, the most ferocious of the dinosaurs. Yes, and with a very muscular built.

Better, and it doesn't look like that normally.

Better, and it doesn't look like that normally.

It's just with the new hair back do and the teeth bearing poses.

It's just with the new hair back do and the teeth bearing poses.

It came across dinofe.

It came across dinofe.

But she finally realized she just needed to be herself.

But she finally realized she just needed to be herself.

That was the good part, but it ended up being the topic of conversation on her date with a guy named Aaron.

That was the good part, but it ended up being the topic of conversation on her date with a guy named Aaron.

They had a great time together.

They had a great time together.

Problem is that was a month ago, and now she needs our help to get things jump started once again. Brooke, I'm afraid to even go to you. Every time you say something it comes out offensive. But what do you want to say?

Problem is that was a month ago, and now she needs our help to get things jump started once again. Brooke, I'm afraid to even go to you. Every time you say something it comes out offensive. But what do you want to say?

It's a cretaceous cynthia over here.

It's a cretaceous cynthia over here.

No, I think it's good cynthia that you and him have been talking. You've been trying to get something nailed down. I know it feels like maybe the what is it called momentum has dulled a little bit.

No, I think it's good cynthia that you and him have been talking. You've been trying to get something nailed down. I know it feels like maybe the what is it called momentum has dulled a little bit.

That's exactly what she said.

That's exactly what she said.

I just don't want you to come off as too needy, you know, like this is your only option, because it's not right.

I just don't want you to come off as too needy, you know, like this is your only option, because it's not right.

It might be your only option.

It might be your only option.

Actually we don't want to know, Cynthia.

Actually we don't want to know, Cynthia.

Can you dial down the desperate needy vibes that you're given towards Brook right now?

Can you dial down the desperate needy vibes that you're given towards Brook right now?

Oh my god, no problem. I don't mean to come off super.

Oh my god, no problem. I don't mean to come off super.

Needy, don't. I don't think you are, you know, don't bring up again the fact that you weren't getting a lot of matches, because would do y You want to make it sound like this last month has been so packed and oh my god, I totally forgot to call you.

Needy, don't. I don't think you are, you know, don't bring up again the fact that you weren't getting a lot of matches, because would do y You want to make it sound like this last month has been so packed and oh my god, I totally forgot to call you.

So yeah, exactly what I texted you twenty times by accident.

So yeah, exactly what I texted you twenty times by accident.

Even if he if he says yes to a dick, maybe you tell him that you're maybe available.

Even if he if he says yes to a dick, maybe you tell him that you're maybe available.

It's been so long since first date. It actually was the time of the Dinosaur.

It's been so long since first date. It actually was the time of the Dinosaur.

Tell yeah, yeah, we're gonna cut the advice segment of this short and just call Aaron for you.

Tell yeah, yeah, we're gonna cut the advice segment of this short and just call Aaron for you.

How does that sound? C Rex, Here we go, I'm just kidding here.

How does that sound? C Rex, Here we go, I'm just kidding here.

Let's call him.

Let's call him.

Hello, thanks for calling. This is Aaron.

Hello, thanks for calling. This is Aaron.

Did you run a business? Aaron? What a formal way to answer? Uh?

Did you run a business? Aaron? What a formal way to answer? Uh?

Well, yeah, that was not expecting that we're a radio show and you're welcome for college.

Well, yeah, that was not expecting that we're a radio show and you're welcome for college.

Thanks for answering a radio show.

Thanks for answering a radio show.

Yeah, we're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're doing a segment right now, hoping that you'll be a part of it.

Yeah, we're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're doing a segment right now, hoping that you'll be a part of it.

It's too late. You're already a part of it, So buckle up.

It's too late. You're already a part of it, So buckle up.

What is this about, perfect, This is about your dating life. Actually, about a month ago, we went out with one of our listeners named Cynthia.

What is this about, perfect, This is about your dating life. Actually, about a month ago, we went out with one of our listeners named Cynthia.

Cynthia, yes, beer, I think wine.

Cynthia, yes, beer, I think wine.

You never, Cynthia. Oh yeah, we Yeah, we had a good time. That was a good date. Yeah.

You never, Cynthia. Oh yeah, we Yeah, we had a good time. That was a good date. Yeah.

Oh that's so great to hear.

Oh that's so great to hear.

Nice to hear, because we're all confused and we're trying to help her figure out if there's a reason why you're not getting back to her and wanting to see her again, if that's even true.

Nice to hear, because we're all confused and we're trying to help her figure out if there's a reason why you're not getting back to her and wanting to see her again, if that's even true.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, because she's super busy right now.

Well, because she's super busy right now.

Yeah, that's right, right, thank you, trying.

Yeah, that's right, right, thank you, trying.

To pencil you in somewhere.

To pencil you in somewhere.

Oh, she's busy, that's uh, well, that's probably good. Actually I'm kind of busy too, I'm really busy. Yeah.

Oh, she's busy, that's uh, well, that's probably good. Actually I'm kind of busy too, I'm really busy. Yeah.

Well you what are you so busy with?

Well you what are you so busy with?

Well, other dates. As it turns out.

Well, other dates. As it turns out.

Okay, I expect that you guys aren't serious other like second date third dates are just all first dates, well.

Okay, I expect that you guys aren't serious other like second date third dates are just all first dates, well.

A heck of a lot of first dates really well second dates. Yeah, it's it's all really new for me, I have to say. And what is all the attention that I'm getting online from my profile?

A heck of a lot of first dates really well second dates. Yeah, it's it's all really new for me, I have to say. And what is all the attention that I'm getting online from my profile?

It happened sudden.

It happened sudden.

Yeah, I don't know how much she told you about the date, but we were joking around. We just ended up taking these funny pictures.

Yeah, I don't know how much she told you about the date, but we were joking around. We just ended up taking these funny pictures.

Like dinosaurs, because that was like what she tried on her dating profile before, and and like was laughing about it.

Like dinosaurs, because that was like what she tried on her dating profile before, and and like was laughing about it.

Well yeah, and that's what we were doing in the photos, and they turned out pretty funny and just kind of as a goof. After the date, I put one of the photos of me up on my profile.

Well yeah, and that's what we were doing in the photos, and they turned out pretty funny and just kind of as a goof. After the date, I put one of the photos of me up on my profile.

And uh, you acting like a dinosaur?

And uh, you acting like a dinosaur?

Yeah, And it was a hit.

Yeah, And it was a hit.

What what.

What what.

My rough goal? Go figure? I started getting all these hits that like I've never gotten before.

My rough goal? Go figure? I started getting all these hits that like I've never gotten before.

But you're in some dinosaur algorithmo.

But you're in some dinosaur algorithmo.

It's the fact that he's with somebody, that's a proven fact.

It's the fact that he's with somebody, that's a proven fact.

They were taking pictures of each other. Was it just you or was it both of you?

They were taking pictures of each other. Was it just you or was it both of you?

It was just me, but it was all the tips and tricks and everything that she was talking about. I pulled my hair back, I showed my teeth and the smile and.

It was just me, but it was all the tips and tricks and everything that she was talking about. I pulled my hair back, I showed my teeth and the smile and.

Wait, so so those things work for guys but not for girls.

Wait, so so those things work for guys but not for girls.

Maybe just when you do them right.

Maybe just when you do them right.

Okay, is it just face shape?

Okay, is it just face shape?

I don't know what it was.

I don't know what it was.

I put one photo up and I get all this attention.

I put one photo up and I get all this attention.

This is really crazy.

This is really crazy.

But you know who would be really interested to learn this information is actually Cynthia herself, who just happens.

But you know who would be really interested to learn this information is actually Cynthia herself, who just happens.

To be on the other line right now.

To be on the other line right now.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah, she's hearing this.

Yeah, she's hearing this.

She's not listening as she Yeah, yeah.

She's not listening as she Yeah, yeah.

She's listening, and she wants to talk to you right now. Erin Oh no, no, yeah.

She's listening, and she wants to talk to you right now. Erin Oh no, no, yeah.

Yeah yeah, Cynthia Aaron, I am shocked. I basically put you on.

Yeah yeah, Cynthia Aaron, I am shocked. I basically put you on.

Yeah, you deserve most of the credit. You took the picture.

Yeah, you deserve most of the credit. You took the picture.

That's a good point.

That's a good point.

You're a really good photographer, Cynthia.

You're a really good photographer, Cynthia.

Forgetting you accidental petty almost Well, okay, Cynthia, remember we talked like dating has been really hard for me. I'm just not used to getting attention. Well now I am, I'm just going with it. I'm sorry.

Forgetting you accidental petty almost Well, okay, Cynthia, remember we talked like dating has been really hard for me. I'm just not used to getting attention. Well now I am, I'm just going with it. I'm sorry.

Okay, Well, this has got to be a little bit overwhelming to hear all this, Cynthia, how you feeling right now?

Okay, Well, this has got to be a little bit overwhelming to hear all this, Cynthia, how you feeling right now?

Honestly, I'm I'm a little hurt.

Honestly, I'm I'm a little hurt.

I'm kind of shocked. Those pictures were just like joke pictures. I thought like it's kind of going to be like an inside joke between us. Yeah, and now other girls like that, my guess, And now you're gonna see all of them instead of me when I've been you know, we've been in contact.

I'm kind of shocked. Those pictures were just like joke pictures. I thought like it's kind of going to be like an inside joke between us. Yeah, and now other girls like that, my guess, And now you're gonna see all of them instead of me when I've been you know, we've been in contact.

No, no, I don't want to see them instead of you. I want to see you too. I just got to wait to get it opening.

No, no, I don't want to see them instead of you. I want to see you too. I just got to wait to get it opening.

But Cynthia, you're you're really packed too, right.

But Cynthia, you're you're really packed too, right.

Right, Let's just see if I can put you into my schedule as well.

Right, Let's just see if I can put you into my schedule as well.

Oh god, that's right, Cynthia. She's not going to wait around all day just for you to show up.

Oh god, that's right, Cynthia. She's not going to wait around all day just for you to show up.

This is the cat well, I have to say. Honestly, Cynthia is a She's a wonderful girl, and that wouldn't surprise me. I'm sure she gets a lot of attention.

This is the cat well, I have to say. Honestly, Cynthia is a She's a wonderful girl, and that wouldn't surprise me. I'm sure she gets a lot of attention.

I set something up, let's say next weekend. Is that something that is available for you?

I set something up, let's say next weekend. Is that something that is available for you?

She probably to cancel on like seven other guys just to make that happen for you.

She probably to cancel on like seven other guys just to make that happen for you.

Yeah, let me check my calendar, Which day?

Yeah, let me check my calendar, Which day?

Which does next Saturday?

Which does next Saturday?

Work? Wait? Saturday? Wait this coming Saturday? Maybe? How about five.

Work? Wait? Saturday? Wait this coming Saturday? Maybe? How about five.

Weeks Saturdays from that's your only free open try Monday.

Weeks Saturdays from that's your only free open try Monday.

Whoever Saturday Chick is and put Cynthia in her place and Saturday girls.

Whoever Saturday Chick is and put Cynthia in her place and Saturday girls.

Come on.

Come on.

I mean, two such highly successful daters meeting right here on this show. I mean that's a sign that you need to be saying, yes, Aaron, we'd love to send you out with Cynthia one more time if you're up for it, and we'll pay for the date.

I mean, two such highly successful daters meeting right here on this show. I mean that's a sign that you need to be saying, yes, Aaron, we'd love to send you out with Cynthia one more time if you're up for it, and we'll pay for the date.

Yeah. I definitely want to go out with again. But yeah, it's gonna be a while.

Yeah. I definitely want to go out with again. But yeah, it's gonna be a while.

Okay, I mean, Cynthia, are you still cool with that?

Okay, I mean, Cynthia, are you still cool with that?

Can you wait a little?

Can you wait a little?

A girl can only wait so long.

A girl can only wait so long.

We'll have to see.

We'll have to see.

Yeah, that's actually a good answer. Don't tell him yes or no, we know it's yes.

Yeah, that's actually a good answer. Don't tell him yes or no, we know it's yes.

Yeah, Cynthia. In the meantime, I'm really getting a lot of practice, so that could only work in your favorite.

Yeah, Cynthia. In the meantime, I'm really getting a lot of practice, so that could only work in your favorite.

Practice.

Practice.

Tell me, I want to know it'sok. Jeffrey in the morning,

Tell me, I want to know it'sok. Jeffrey in the morning,