They didn’t leave because they stopped loving the kids—they left because the job itself stopped loving them back. 

We hear the "teacher shortage" talked about as a dry economic statistic, but behind those numbers are thousands of stories of exhaustion, burnout, and painful resignation letters. In this episode, we sit down with Lydia, known to millions online as @unhingedmillennial1, to talk about the raw, unfiltered truth of why our most passionate teachers are vanishing from the classroom.

After 15 years on the front lines of early childhood education, Lydia explains that the exodus isn't about pay packets—it’s about a fundamental shift in the "hidden load" teachers are expected to carry. From mediating behavioral crises to the collision between modern parenting styles and classroom reality, we explore why so many educators feel they are working without a safety net.


The Classroom Collision: We break down the difference between "gentle" and "permissive" parenting and how it’s changing the daily life of our teachers.


The Emotional Toll: Why teachers are being forced to become therapists and crisis managers, leaving no room to actually teach.


A Call for Empathy: This isn't an attack—it's a plea for the system to recognize that teachers are human beings who need boundaries to function.

If you’re a parent, a teacher, or just concerned about the future of our schools, this is a conversation you cannot afford to miss.

They didn&rsquo;t leave because they stopped loving the kids&mdash;they left because the job itself stopped loving them back.&nbsp;
We hear the "teacher shortage" talked about as a dry economic statistic, but behind those numbers are thousands of stories of exhaustion, burnout, and painful resignation letters. In this episode, we sit down with Lydia, known to millions online as @unhingedmillennial1, to talk about the raw, unfiltered truth of why our most passionate teachers are vanishing from the classroom.
After 15 years on the front lines of early childhood education, Lydia explains that the exodus isn't about pay packets&mdash;it&rsquo;s about a fundamental shift in the "hidden load" teachers are expected to carry. From mediating behavioral crises to the collision between modern parenting styles and classroom reality, we explore why so many educators feel they are working without a safety net.
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The Classroom Collision: We break down the difference between "gentle" and "permissive" parenting and how it&rsquo;s changing the daily life of our teachers.
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The Emotional Toll: Why teachers are being forced to become therapists and crisis managers, leaving no room to actually teach.
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A Call for Empathy: This isn't an attack&mdash;it's a plea for the system to recognize that teachers are human beings who need boundaries to function.
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If you&rsquo;re a parent, a teacher, or just concerned about the future of our schools, this is a conversation you cannot afford to miss.

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Tune in for your weekend fix of thought-provoking conversation!

Join&nbsp;Brent Bultitude&nbsp;every weekend for lively chats with industry insiders and special guests! Covering the latest trends and exciting topics, it's your go-to for fresh insights and fun conversations.
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Brent&rsquo;s Business background and personality are fundamental to asking the right people the right questions with interviews, the latest news, quizzes, music and your calls on 13 12 69. Plus Brent interviews many more people that are going to tell us what&rsquo;s going from stories in the news to the things you care about.