The BIG FACTS crew discuss bad sex, being sprung, monogamy, cheating and everything relationships on this BONUS episode.
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Big Man and DJ Scream bring you Big Facts, the hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today www dot Big Facts pod dot com. Live for first class sounds is DJ Scream. It's time for another episode of Big Facts. Were up in here? DJ Scream, Big Bang Baby j a shout out of t duct tape, Dave Kodak, Big Homie, Kodak Shine. What do you have a name? Shi? Jones and Cai? What's the world's interesting today? Because this nick ain't got no wheat You go on wheelss it's coming. You're going wheatless on the way. All right, check up, everybody good, I'm fantastic. What y'all tell me if y'all won of course, this is the Transparency Hour. Okay, Yeah, I'm seeking I'm seeking out therapy. You're seeking out therapy. What's what's the word? I do therapy every Saturday? Real, Yeah, the therapy every Saturday, nine am. I won't miss it. Pull my heart up. You talked to Dr Joe and shot female Look. Yeah, yeah, you know, I'm seeking out notical attention? Are you joking? Right? It comes the time that you have to realize, man, it is you what you're doing You ain't doing nothing. Yeah, I'm the problem, see and I don't want to see it. I don't see none of that. What you'd be doing wrong? My problem, your problem, not nobody else. I'm my own problem, man. Okay, you feel don't get what I'm saying. You get what I'm saying. Let's move forward. Why do you want to do it like that, Janet? Listeners want to know us. Let's go, let's go, let's get it. And I ain't trying to be Yeah, they session, but I'm just saying that's what I'm what's on your brain, Jane, to be honest, bro, like you know how you just might be the words. Can't make up my mind about ship. That's this gym and not ship. Shout to my wife. Thank god, somebody said it other than me. You can't fix it. You were born that way, dog, like you're gonna You're gonna die like that. Like I hate to say it. She's like, you got bank, you got a big bank. You have a big bank, like then you got low down dirty Okay, then you got the Nah, he's still he's still. You can't never completely let him go. He's still like in the background. That's you like into we're talking, we're talking about we'll get that. Okay, hold on, let me see what these people sent in. Okay, so today we are speaking of talking about big facts. We got fan mail from Melissa. She's one of our loyal followers, and basically her question is, when you're dealing excuse me, when you're dealing with a person, and do you go into detail about your sexual pleasures the first time that you got to have sex, Like, do you let Like what she's trying to say is do you let people know down the first time you have do you let people? Do you let your entire freakiness out? Layman's terms, the first time you fuck, the first time you fucked, like, yeah, go all the way out? Like, yeah, what's going to be a damn good? Yeah, you gotta niga what you gotta let you do half your first appression song called the report didn't report of some ship, so you gotta report? Yeah, what the hell is the dick report? What she called up her friend the next day, explaining what you just did too, that that's more of a female, that's more of a female, that's more of a female. Question though female because of Nigga theta put it down the first time. You better do everything could do if you want to get it again. Yeah, she might not never get this. Move the female don't go If the female don't go crazy, you might not call it back. But so many get scared of that ship. Yeah, like many girls goddamn pro like go pro to pro man like ship. You do all that need to be scared, like bro here, I can't even shot she too, And then they always come back, So that's cap not really though, I'm run from that ship. Nah, they be scared. Yeah, they run down the street and turn around and come right. They've got to gather them. You got to regrow. Yeah, need to get scared, regroup and then return. I said, going crazy. Man, you got to those screen you know. I know you coming in here playing because you're gonna get a bad report. You don't never want nod Yeah, definitely. Who gives a funk about a report you don't even I guess that I guess, like y'all y'all, like y'all said the other ship only applies to females, I guess that only applies to you, niggas, because seeing a woman that didn't even mean a woman want the word on the blot to be she got some bad pussy reputation. But yes, absolutely yes it could be. It could be staked, it could be dry. I don't have those problems out here. That's like, look, they're gonna do it up. I'm just saying, like, seriously, your reputation, I don't know everything you do is part of your reputation. Like we say, I hate this part of your legacy. You know what I'm saying. You could be known as the person around town with some bad sex. Do you want that? I ain't never that club and everybody looking at you like the bad sex person. I want you, but I never like it's a woman's gonna be like I'm not sew is. I'm feeling you. Let's see how bad. Just push you and I'm a testing out. She still on your beat. I think you' got a bad dick apart, it's not even fun with him. It ain't even got to be bad dick. It could just be a little dick. What Yeah, this is not gonna working around. You got little dick bad out here, shot sex podcast coming, So I'm just saying little dick is out. I hear you got a little dick. That's how but see, it's not even it's not even necessarily like it depends like, it depends on like, it depends on how you're describing, like little man, little dick is a little dick. Yeah, what is little dick to you? Ty? Y'all know what a little dick is. A little dick is little skinny little and ain't hitting no ship. Just sit on your balls, don't go past the balls. It's just out here bad you put it into I mean, I'm just saying it's got Come on, man, let go to the next part of that. You know, I'm turning this ship the Jang Lang Show. But one, if it's a nice person. Women always complaining about meeting a good nigga, a nice person. See the secondly, if the sex is bad, it's not gonna last. Yeah, what call us say? Women? Be a great super niggers nigger you're looking for? Don't do any exist, y'all Just out here. I ain't no but I ain't no no relationship gonna last with no bad six that's out period. You're not you got about to be with the same ship. That's not gonna work. You're not going home to no bad six bro. I mean you got to be attracted to it periously. Some of these women gold diggers, just like real gold diggers, just fucking with people with bad sex. Yeah, they're cheating, that's the cheating. She got no choice. Yeah, she don't care because in her head, your sex don't even count. She's obligated. What else is she gonna do. But at the end of the day, I bet you she got a nigga somewhere just hitting it the right way. Yeah, I'm saying that right wrong, but it's okay. So let me I got another question. Let me ask you all this because the nigga just taught me this last night, right, And nigga just told me last night that a nigga ain't ship unless he at least has one main bitch that he's cheating on. Shout out to my nephew. He just told me this last night, like we were having we were having a discussion, a little group discussion or whatever. And the general consensus they're younger, but the general can sense this is is that if you don't have at least one main bitch that you're cheating on, you just have a whole bunch of holes. I get what he's saying, Not saying cheating. He probably it's like if you don't, if you don't have some sort of ability in the middle of your chao, Yeah, you know what you're really saying, like, if you don't have that one girl at home who give a funk about you, you ain't really ship. You don't got not that one girl who cared about so different though, but she I guess she probably said yeah, she said that. He trying. He might be trying to say that, So the one that so the one that give a funk about you that you ain't gotten if you ain't got one motherfucker that love you, like additioning you, not the hole. I don't know about that part when they're talking about the hole. If you just get there with days saying like you at least got it, got one ship, that's an issue. That's an issue. But do you reward the one that gives a funk about you with better fucking around on? Definitely that's the reward. No, she don't want to come around your family when you got to show up and pop out, she better be the now. That's just kind of it's just that's kind of touchy though, like because it's like, no, it's just like when you when you're talking about when you get into the whole mains and sides discussion, time out before you even go any further. Would y'all ever be mazed with y'all niggas having sides? No, it depends. No, I mean because listen, Nick is gonna do what the nick is gonna do. But a nigg is not going to play in my face. Period. If I'm a unknown main and ignorant main and I don't know anything about sides, then I don't know anything about the side or whatever he's doing. Okay him, but me being uh the quote unquote main knowing that this nigga got side. Fuck no, it's I want to know. It's not a past. You don't know. If I'm ignorant the fact, that's not a pass. If I don't know about this ship and this nigger don't play in my face, that's not a past because I don't know about nothing. Like the way from me, you could be playing like you don't know. Yeah, sometimes I think you know when you knows. Yeah, you know when you know when you know, So it's all the same. Yeah, No, the funk is not. I get what you're saying, but it's like, deep downue though you haven't if you haven't a little ship that you feel like you gotta check this nigga phone or you gotta do all this. I'm just saying, not check, or you just feel like you're sniffing for something. You know it's something. But if y'all have disagreements and arguments about unnecessary ship, you know it's something else. Y'all just arguing the arguments about really that. But y'all, you're gonna talk about the tissue because you don't got proof, this nigga, because you're eating it to the fact. Whatever you said you don't got proved, but you really are this niggau. Something ain't right. But okay, here's my thing with that something might not be right or whatever, and we could be arguing about the tissue in place of the real argument about something I've been right, because there's no proof. But at the end of the day, if whatever is not, if I if I can't ever solidified what's not right, or if this ship has never like come across my doorstep or come across my phone, or like I've never fucking been faced with this ship in person, and there's no type of nothing going on that ever you respect the respect, just say that. Let me let me see the light broa. You feel like anything else would be disrespect. But she if you know something going on, you still but but you it might not be nothing going on and you may just be tripping. It's like the benefit of tripping. I'm just trying to play that they've never been tripping if I ain't never been tripping, Like if I know, I know. But what I'm saying to you is it's just like that should just be crazy, Like you can't you gotta It's not on something like innocent until proven guilty type ship. But it's like, why deal with that unnecessary headache if it's never been directly brought to your face. So so, because there's a lot of women in this situation. So if you because that's the catch, you're gonna be miserable trying to figure out what's going on. It's something this and that? Is it this that you never say you really funk with this person? If you find out and you didn't know, how do you react, Like if you find out but you really funk with this person, is there any second third chance? Is there any chance you know? Yeah, this is the heart with your heart with this person. I can't answer that, so I get in that situation. Okay, The thing about it, you take your nigga back, no matter how much crime. And I'm sorry you just basically it's okay, that's just covered up who it is, so who might let it be transparent. But you gotta let me know before somebody else let me know. So how you reacting me? She's already know. I'm already know. You don't already know because you just know. Or he told you, he told me, he told you I can't work with one woman if you decided to accept that. But do you reply to people? Okay, what we're just saying, she's saying that, she's saying she's gonna knows basically what she owns. I'm gonna make it real comfortable for him to tell me the truth basically. And then But what I'm saying, how do you reply to Do you get us some bullshit? Are you cheating too? If it's somebody I love it, yes, if he in my head, because I really mean really in relationship, No, we just saying that. I'm what I'm saying is who made the rule that relationships one one and one relationship. I want to get out of my relationship, gotta be one on one. But other people like what I'm saying is who made that rude? Though back in Africa we was kings man about Man six and ship. People can afford them, you should made to have them. It's just my thought. But you know, we wants to deal with all of that some people. Some people niggles with most as you can take care of the mutiple. What I'm saying what the same person wants to deal with all of those different personalities and think man to get what you gotta do. You like a business, it ain't personality, just like it's just like take care of to see. It's just like and I ain't saying for nobody else, I'm just saying, I'm just speaking that generally. Say. It's just like, bro, if you don't taste other food, you're not gonna want to eat the safe every day. If we were just listen and we were supposed to just say the first ice forgetting the rest of my life forgetting because I like it, No, I like sam, okay, go off. You know what I'm saying, ship get you a woman? That I'm just saying, So how people can't. They like, some women are really flavoring for they could be different, but some women will be open to it if you just tell them. I think. I think the betrayal is when you're trying to act like you can beat this person to this woman and then she being you know what I'm saying if I tell you, hey, man, I don't know what tick because because you're gonna be a fun niggaby lying to you just just just I think, yeah, And I think that's the that's the that's the fucking kick in the face, the lie, like even though you know and handle the truth, because they're scared of if I, if I don't lie to j she's gonna leave me. It's greedy itself. Wis just it shouldn't be that way. But if I tell her the truth, but maybe I can goddamn dance around and do this ship for six months a year before she find out and enjoy Jade and enjoy mother. That's that's like that show. That's greed. No, it is, it's great. Why why lie? Though? Like, why lie? Because a lot of can't handle that? Most people are said, again, a lot of people can't handle the truth. That's just the key to it and you can't you really you really feeling like I'd rather not hurt this person but ultimately hurt him in a way either way. You heard, If the person you love to tell you the truth and be like, I can't funk with just you, it's gonna hurt you. If the person don't tell you and you find out, it's gonna hurt you. Lie is gonna hurt more. For sure, it should because it's betrayal mixed with the truth. Not really because the nigga lie, He's gonna still come back with the guy, Dawn, I ain't mean to do it steal a laugh, You mean to get out? Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying, different stroke, different folks, man. You never know how this ship go at the end of the day. Absolutely, So what what what did we conclude? We concluded that you should tell the truth what we always a big facts about. Tell the truth. You'll be surprised, Yeah, but you'll be surprised, like you said, you'll be surprised. Might be on what you on period. We concluded that you should give the person you love the benefit of the truth of the doubt. And we also concluded that if you're gonna fun. You might as well show your ass. Oh, definitely the first time you bring them, bring him out. Yeah, because everything you do is amazing. You're listening to Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ Scream Facts on social media, a Big Facts Pod, Big Fame in DJ screen Bring you big fat hey Man, solway up at merch es. Yeah that's right. Www dot Big facts pot dot com. What's the real one? One time y'all, Get y'all some of this merchant man, Big facts pot dot com. Get that merch right now, shot with us side the way up, Big Fact Merch going down. It's the new website today Www. Got Big facts pot dot com. Visit now