Big Fat and DJ Scream bring you Big Facts, the hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today www dot Big Facts pod dot com live for first class sounds. You know who that is? DJ Scream, Big Banks here, Baby Jade is here, O g Shote Shot Jones in and it is time for a Big Facts Friday. What's the match my energy? Yeah, wow, we cannot we cannot. Yes, imagine we could not have a podcast. We should be grateful. That is definitely true, because they ain't. Then who win you in no meaning thing? Then wound gotta respect, respect j what we're doing man Friday listening right, But the word of today is forgiveness. Forgiveness. That yeah, that's the deep point. So the textbook salteam definition for all these people keep calling me, The textbook definition is the action or process, the action or process of forgiving or being forgiven. And the Urban Gerban definition is the greatest thing you can ever do for another person and yourself when even after they have hurt you so badly you thought you would die, you can move on and love again. I agree with that, actually for the first time, agree with the Urban Can you say that last one again? The greatest thing you can ever do for another person and yourself. When even after they have hurt you so badly you thought that you would die, you can move on and love again. I can't agree because they all emotions, you know what I'm saying. Any emotions is some's just inside of you. It's it's a different. If somebody physically harmed you, then I don't think you could forgive them for that, but they can take it as if you physically harm them, if you really cut them so deep, they could take you know what I'm saying, It's still the same. Yeah, I feel, but it's still meltal though, you know, because some mental harm can turn the physical harm, to be honest, because like if you mentally break somebody down and now they're not eating and now they're so stressed style and it's still mental. You can change that by changing your thoughts, and it's still someone else controlling. Somebody shoot you in your back and you paralyze, that's different. You can't take that back. But if you said something to me, or cheated on me, or whatever you did to me, there's something that I can just say, fuck it, ain't thinking about it nor more. That's up to you, Yeah, I agree, right, yeah, right. Forgiveness, I feel like, oh, when you forgive, it's definitely taking a weight off his shoulders. You know what, I say, you got to forget forgetting, forgetting it. But when you forgive, I think that like that, like the Erman Dictionary said, I think that takes a weight off your shoulder, bro, because you're clear not the resentment and you're able to open your heart back up again. M h. And probably two thousand and eight, going back, two thousand eight was the first time I practiced forgiveness. I actually reached out to the person and say, you know what, fucking you know what I'm saying that The person cried and boo hoo and all that ship, but I felt like free. I feel like when you're holding that ship, when you're holding that ship in and you don't forgive people, it really do you more harm than the person because they might not be thinking about this ship. I'm not. I don't think I'm I don't think I'm there yet actually reach out to a person that has wronged me or harmed me. But I can definitely internally make that decision within my to like let it go and forgive it and just they no longer exist. But if you haven't forgave them or you put it in the back burner, do you think you really over it? If you have an address, you know what it come down to. Let me let me know, let me jump into you have to actually have a conversation with your wrong door in order to actually forgive. Do you think that, No, I don't think. I don't think. But give them and they don't even got to know you for though, you have to be in that space to where if you run into that person, and that's that's the truth forgetting that. But if you can be okay, yeah, I just say you have any buddy, buddy, but you could be okay whatever you can see them, Yeah, I can be okay with running into them, but as far as like having to re interact with them and have a conversation. And that's basically like the same ship that we just fell out about. But if you run into them. But if you run into and then it triggers something, mean you ain't forget, You ain't over it. Yeah, it's holding you back more than it's holding you. Haven't you realized that that moment, you really haven't forgiven because you may think you have, but you realize that that moment, like, she's still a fun nigger. You know what I'm saying, because now you're faced with it. But I don't think you've got to change your perception of the person to forgive you and you want to slap them. You ain't forgave it, right for sure. But if you see somebody that you say you forgave, but you still don't want to be in the presence, So even if they come towards you, you ain't forget. How So because you can, you can forgive somebody with them you're just saying, I ain't forgave you. But no, you can forgive somebody and still not funk with them. I'm a firm believer I can forgive you. It's still not funk with you at all. That's true. But if you see like, if you feel like, if you feel any type of way, then when you see them, then it's something still there. Wait, so if you see this, you're supposed to nothing nothing. No, let me feel a certain type of it was so bad for me. A family member asked me, if you got on the plane and you had to sit by them on the plane, go get your money. Door. Whatever, what would you do? I just wouldn't get on the plane. That's the old me that was not evolved. That need to stop my money. That's how bad. That's how much. That's how much I did not like I'm going to put that particular person shake in my hoodie. But you go to sleep. Fuck you, I'm getting them, Yeah, for sure, that's what I'm saying. That you've got to be able to sit right here with this person. I mean, you gotta talk to them. You can do that, though I can't wait. Wait, hold on, guys, just because you can't sit on the plane next to them, don't mean you did not forgive that. What do that mean? What you like? I'm let I'm letting. I'm letting them up. I'm let them up. I'm letting to up my trip, my money, my move, my day, everything. I can't sitting next to this person. It's like when fifty centers your rules saw each other on the plane. There was disruptive. It was disrupted. They talked about that ship like that ship the ship was all wrong. I'm uncomfortable. If they're making you uncomfortable, you ain't forgave right have any type of ability to affect your emotions kind of way. I just looked at it like, if you know what I'm saying, I could forgive you right, meaning that I'm not gonna bring up the situation, meaning we're not gonna said. I could be like I don't want no smoke. Yeah you wan't something. Let bygones be bygones. That's not giving. This forgiveness is true. Forget it's it's really right here, it's really right here. Whatever it was, I'm not even thinking about it when I see you. That's what I thought. If we don't speak about it, then it's over right. No, it's all about the role that the person. If you have an X right, you have truly forgiven your ex. When you can walk and run into your ex and you ain't think about that ship or you ain't think about you gotta know that you don't have to be friends. But it doesn't affect you. You go, you see your ex, you feel this hot ship all over your body. You man, you're angry, and it's start thinking about old ship. You ain't forgave you. Ain't you got your girlfriend? Like why I've seen this? Yeah, yeah, you forgave him. You got to just be able to keep it moving and see them. It don't affect you two seconds going about your business And yeah, exactly, I got some healing. A lot of people do. I did have therapy for years to learn forgetting that. I would ask my therapist what what's forgiven this? Again? How does ship work? I don't get it years? But holding gridge don't do them fun with you though? Fun with you bad because you only need it as mad with you bad. These other people that you're mad at don't give a funk about you. That's why they made you mad. I thought holding grudges was more so like if I see this person, I'm like talking ill and I'm like wishing ill intent. Isn't that more so a g because that negative energy is consuming all of your time? Right? But so if you don't wish a person ill intent, that's not holding the grudge, is it? No? No, you can't. What if you wish a person ill intent? That can be well? I can't see. Rude means that you have a valid reason to be upset with this person because they did something to you. But it's anonymous with forgiveness. Though, what do you mean if you're holding the grudge, you haven't forgiven fact right right, all right, big facts canceling sessions. Yeah, I just feel like you gotta forgive people, man, in order to move on, in order to grow. Do you forgive everything though, that's the only way you because I was always do you forgive, but you don't forget. It's a serenity. You have to forgive everything if you start underst and I ain't gonna go there. If you start understanding your chakras and ship. Like when I forgave them people, I was literally saw blessings the next day, kid, you not yes, like the next day I was blessed. I just start seeing blessings because I have blocked that ship. I'm blocking my own blessings, not for game. So you got to if you can, if you're able to trust me. The toughest everybody got their obstacles in life, the toughest ship in the world, and forgiving it's tough because you love and you give so hard that you won't do that to that person and they're stabbing your back and it's like, suck you for life forever and you just think about the worst ship. But it's really harder on you than it is them people. As soon as you let that ship go, open up, whatever it is, open it up. It's a test, yep, exactly because at the end of the day, you can be you could be saying yourself, it ain't then tricky everybody around ain't something that need but God no person, Yeah yeah, yeah, I ain't stid in that ship, but god no, you right, you gotta. It's like a healing process. You gotta heal yourself from that ship. Yeah, it's a process period. Like it's it's like you're not just if somebody has really fucked you over, especially somebody that you care about, is somebody that you really had genuine love for, Like you're not gonna be able to just get off of that ship like that. And then and then and then to think about it, you can forgive a person and then get knocked out of forgiveness by what they're saying afterwards. You get what I'm saying, at break you back into that dark sea. Ain't a test like poking the bell like a nigga knowing like he acted like he forgave me, an it ain't he's still on that. So they say some little bit ship to get back to you, and then you react like seem real. You gotta be able to not see that ship like and then what it is. You know you ain't did none of me, ain't did none of You're like starting and saying he's on him. Hey man, they say do whatever they want to say. They see me, they play with me. Somebody gonna die and just how I go. Period. So that's that's for anybody in the world, like or pedestrian, anybody. So you just gotta start putting people in in that in that box. So I gotta protect myself that it ain't that what I've been sitting around and do the bit ship there then back and anybody got time for that, right right exactly? Yeah? Yeah, the truly is sin and be the best like version of yourself if you if you can rid yourself and everybody don't have all of these traits. But you know the ship that sucks you up, like hey, jealousy, grudges, what else y'all know, I'm the bash anger all that ship. You get that ship out of you, you feel yourself rising, like you feel your whole energy rising. So you gotta be able to rid yourself and ship and ship. Definitely stop your motion, definitely stop your motion for the way you will be motionless. And then I think, I think it really stops it when you know better. That's what hurts you when you know better, like when you don't know God to go food and cheer. That's what you think of yourself, like you think yourself like, damn, I trigger the fun that they tried me. Yeah, that used to it used to be right, funk all that for not that ship manna be waterfol in general. Man, Yeah, you're going on on. I forgive you whoever. And again I reiterate that. With that forgiveness, that don't mean you'll the whole hands and walk through the park. I mean, I don't never say ship. That's what I'm saying. You ain't gotta do that. But no, no, no, no no. He just said you have the right. You have the right, and about because he said I forgive you. But this is the most polite fuck you that exists with me. Yeah, I don't wish you no harm on with your family, no harm none of this ship. But you can never come back. So you can forgive somebody and it's still be funing somebody's It's the way they make you feel to know that you haven't forgetten I'm gonna get in first class. I'm gonna get on the plane. I'm gonna get on the plane. I'm gonna get on the plane, put on my beach bud dress. Okay, yeah, like this, and you're right there and I ain't stand you. Yeah, but I look at it like and then I'm an energy person, So I'm like the fact that you even that close to me is the issue. Even if I forgave you, Like if I don't funk with somebody, I don't even want you that close around me because I feel like your energy is too close to me. It's gonna be days. Well, I feel that true. I'm like that, y'all still working on it's working. Yeah, okay, we're still working. What happened? The part, the great part about it is that you want to You want to, you want like I can see it is a disease. Yeah. I didn't say all day that. You know what I'm saying. I forgive everybody, but I still gotta work on. When I see you how I'm gonna react because of the person that I am. But in my heart, I forgave it. I forgiven you. You want to forget them trying to get them and God know this. Yeah, God knows that. Like I'm really making an effort on this. But but but it's just like what they're calling church backsline. I don't know what ever. Doing your effort is to make your heart as pure as possible. But we are human and we are flawed. My effort doesn't mean any harm. But if I see you in person, I might mean some of the kids. It depends on the energy and the mood and the setting and everything. Everything's depends. But you will be tested. You will test, you will as soon as I see this person the whole time time. You got the grudge, right, so you're trying to forgive him. That's when you're gonna. Right. If you noticed that you don't have any type of whatever, that's when your blessing is gonna exactly that kind of gold is right there. Or you having that day with some amazing you spoke about this ship before two amazing ship is about to happen. You don't know it. That's when play yourself because you gave in to some bullshit. Will Smith on the Oscars, Will Smith, Yeah he might have been. It ain't like you need money in those ship, but he might have been aboutor who knows what even just winning the Oscar that was the first time he ever won one exactly right there before he can even win it play itself, So you gotta just be aby think, Jada, I really felt like my goodsters, I don't know, I feel like my goods should have stopped him at least if I if I have got one of these, I would have been like Jada, good with me. And then I just like, I feel like you shouldn't know if your man, like if you know your nigga, you know he's about to act up or whatever, Like at least one of these it's cool. It's cool, like giving him that, Like I'm that should have been enough that he stood up, and yeah, that should have been cool. Yeah, I feel I just feel like maybe she didn't think he was really gonna do it either, but she thought. I feel like this. I feel like, and you know, we don't know like everything that happened, We don't know all of the ports and afters and all that ship like when ship happens with us, but just from them showing her reaction before and her reaction after, like I don't know, it was just like to me, it was just kind of weird that like there was no like consolation or no, you know what I'm saying, like whatever, and then to go and make a public statement he shouldn't have done that like that was that was what do you say, cash? What exactly? Yeah, Like I just I don't know because it's just like all the ship that they've been through and with the union that they're supposed to have, Like there's no way I go against my nigga in public, and especially he would have done some ship like that, like we want to jumped this nigga together, right, slap this nigga pal pal like he would have been double pit slap. But you know what I'm saying, behind closed doors, you might let him know about what you don't funk with, but you're not publicly gonna say puss it right that nigga like when he ain't back down or something like he's already sucked up. Like but at the end of the day, like if we if we've been married all this time, we got all these we've been married, we've been together one day were together. We don't like especially because when she did that whole entanglement thing, Will didn't come out and been like yeah, my wife, she's been doing that. None of that. I don't agree with the whole state and stick the whole wre I don't agree with this. I mean not Chris Brown, No disrespect to Chris Rock or nothing like that, because nobody deserves to every put on. But it's just like and then on top of that, like he didn't even write the joke. Man, he's a comedian. It don't really matter, Like even if he wrote the joker, not David Chappelle. Dave Chappelle has said a lot worship right, he will trying to prove it, prove something his masculinity'll never be able to accept. Yeah, so they to prove it. So you think that they need to work on some forgiveness somewhere. Not then we're trying to get a nobody relationship with them. Like she already said that this other nigga was her soul mate, and the kids writing letters to the other foul mate was her soul mate. And she never should have got married, No, God should have got married. She said that she never wanted to get married like that, she never never wanted to get married. She got married because yeah, she said that she got married because she was Yeah, she was pregnant and her mom wanted her to get married. And since her mom wanted her to get married, that's why she went down with the whole situation. Even her walking down the aisle, they're talking on a red table talk she was crying and ship she didn't want to get married. That should have been my bitch. What I'm sure it was the whole statement for me with that statement, like we ain't righting with you? Yeah, we were too player for that, and so isn't possible like we're probably he ain't gonna say probably he might be a lunatic. Behind closed they say he is very sweet, Buthich. We don't know what goes on in any house, that's true what I'm saying. But the world I love like the nigga on the Oscar, you know what I'm saying, we'll smith is dumb there Oscar figures the face of being you know what I'm saying. But you just made me show my hand and then you when he didn't you think he banned from the oscars for ten years? Right? That really him? Yeah, this is a question, but it's just in my brain, like because big fact, do you think she'll go back to the Oscars. Yeah, I don't about him. Welcome, I'll give a funk about him. But well, I don't know because if you think about it, a year or two prior, she was trying to boycott the Oscars prior because he wasn't invited to the me. I feel like she really he really laying in the bed with his enemy. Man. No, that's how I feel now, you know. You know, at the end of the day, in my biggest moment, you're gonna you're gonna push my button. You see, I try to laugh at off and you look at me like you're laughing at that. So so you in it on the way that she looked at her husband. Yes, but that's only why he got up. I'm putting it on. Like women have intuition about certain ship. We got intuition about certain ships. I would tell Papa about dog. He bro that's your business, but that ain't good business. That's what I would do. I ain't saying I'm right, but I gotta tell my partner yours. But he was a key kid. Yeah, he was laughing about it. But then when she looked at up like damn out, Like if I look at you, you took that some type of way. So now I gotta make it. I gotta you know what I'm saying, I gotta I gotta make this right. Yeah, but it's crazy because just thirty minutes before that, when Regina Hall made the joke about their entire marriage, they were both laughing like it was funny. But just because he made a joke about the hairship. You know what I'm saying, no disrespect to anybody that has that condition, because you know, it's a very serious, self conscious condition. But y'all were just laughing at this lady making a farce of your marriage. But now all of a sudden, it's a big deal because it's Chris Rock and all of that, And now, okay, you're feeling hurt. I have a question, do y'all think that Okay, like you said, people have been talking about their marriage, and since the whole entanglement going on, they can't walk a red carpet without somebody bringing up their marriage. Nine times out of ten, the people that's bringing up their marriage are talking ill about them or women. Do you feel like at that moment, by it being Chris Rock, it was a man, so now we felt like it's the man, so now I can really say something everybody, I couldn't say it, dedicay bench if you want me to whit slop up fact big facts. I didn't even think. Okay, just got them on shlop a throing around him up if you want to her, I wouldn't never get a chancellor. Yeah, no, they probably scored you out. Then I cree rocket as he said somebody like we're going let go bl together. But to me, I feel like, personally, and you know, these the only pain we turned this ship to the pain facts. To me, I feel like I want to got up and did that for her. Yeah, I wouldn't. Yeah, you probably woudn't even Yeah, because I got know if this woman feel threatened about something, it tis me to rac because she will feel threatened about some or feel a way about something and know that I'll be tripping. So I ain't gonna trip out in front of this dumbas him in a position to and to maybe do something to cause himself to get out it or whatever. You know what I'm saying, because I care that much about him, So I don't want him to do anything to put himself in that position exactly. That's all I'm saying, so for you to even want me to do that, you don't get enough funk about me. But did you did you think that she wanted him to slap? But I don't think that in her brain to react, But I like her wanted Henry. Yeah, I don't think that she thought will Smith, the Prince of French, Prince of bell Lair, was We don't think that's wants him to do with Tupac would do Tupac, well, then that's the closest thing he could deal with that later, then that's what this is. Who she won't she don't see it. I want you to react how Tupac would have that we' have been not shot, right nigger? Though that would not have happened to Kevin Hartiday Chappelle. It happened to the person that could happen to that ship. Weren't gonna happen to one of the motherfuckers. We'll be back to the oscars like I didn't versus that time that it happens so fast that Chris Rock didn't have a chance of process that. I don't think what you mean that's the process. Then he turned it back he Chris Roll still leving I don't know why. That's how he built, That's how he is. He's still thinking on the professional level. That's the Oscar. He's still he's thinking, I'm gonna get money off this ship. Like he's still thinking. He's in that way saying he couldn't got that s wear, but he can in a great position. You know, if you want to take a slap, if it's worth it, if the slap is worth it, that come back to them. Because somebody slap you for a million dollars type shop. He could really sue the Oscars and the Oscars. He could. He could have fresh charm, but he could shoot. He could sue the Oscars and the Oscars would have to pay him because the Oscars didn't protect him first security. Damn. It could be called the Chris Rock. Shall that just happen? Like these niggers be getting shot at these clubs and shot at these departments and ship and suit apartments and sue the club and ship like that. You know what I'm saying, Like that's how I should go to the facility? Is the possible party because of the security. I don't know that man, what the type of was giveing this? So should Chris Rock If Will Smith hell no, And should Will Smith Chris Rohall forget I think he should forget us, not because you think he's knowing us underlying the issue he ain't. Yeah, I think he rights should. Should Will Smith forgive Jada? Hell No? Again, that's your business. I was personally probably forgive Jada. Should you think he should? Jadan't need to forgive Will. Jada needs to forgive Will for what for whatever it is that he'd done her that we probably don't know. Whatever it is, she needs to forgive him. That Shi seemed like I should just be doing the man and ship. That Shi seemed like something else, like he tried to fight to embarrass him. Okay, I'm not trying to play Devil's advocate, but I am Jada didn't do ship to Will. August Alstina was the one that came out and started talking about I was talking. So No, I'm saying that August Alstina was the one that brought the entanglement. He made it public. Yes, because nobody at the end of the day, I don't think. I don't think that that's that I've seen an issue that he slept, well, she slept, I mean she was married. She slept with him. But I feel like I feel like that's that's how they relationship, that he probably had the green like to do she she had green that's not true, they said, that's the biggest But she did. She did. She said that on some red carprid talk whatever, that it's not true. Well, we get some puss. He would cheat and she was fucking so what I mean we had green like, there ain't no green light. They both were cheating. I don't know. I just feel like whatever it was, they were dealing with it till he brought it to the lightning into saying she went on help a podcast and we're like, shit, what so you're saying, okay, so I'm cheating, it's okay for you to cheat, that's a green light. Hell, I thought they probably had. They don't, they said, she said that's the biggest thing of their relationship. And she said, that's the biggest myth of their relationship. They do not have an open relationship. Oh so you just you just the bad girl in then he cheated and shoot, you're gonna be fucking you're gonna this and bring this nick around my kids. But they also said hold on when it came down to the August Austina stuff that they was talking about getting a divorce and then they realized it was just gonna be too much, so he went on his side of the house, she went on her side of the house. So that's really understanding. So basically they separated the state of the same basically, and that's that's that's where the that's a lot of these people are. But that's how the whole August Austinda ship played the part. And everybody is now saying that she was cheating and all that, but that wasn't the case. They was technically broken up and he was on one side of the wing of the house. She was another swing. I feel like that man really loved at Won. He really loved that woman. Whatever he mistakes is mistakes. He trying to he trying to fix his wrongs, and she's standing how Nigga would be like, but you gotta show me for life? Yeah yeah, yeah, I could see that. So basically she needs to forgive him because he don't forgave her for everything. Yeah, but I mean I don't know the details or whatever, but how does she get him from his first wife Jae? That's what I'm saying, we're talking about like him cheating and you know what, I'm saying, all of that blah blah blah whatever with your questions, I ain't never heard that. M hmmm. I doubt that. Well, God bless him in their union. And however, I want to see them folks ship play out together together for sure, like what people don't want to see. We've seen him talking about the folks being all that I want to be. Like the next time we talked about this ship, they got it right. They fucked really them too against the world. They're probably gonna go on a whole hiatus and take that time. Now. I feel like that's what they was on the verge or trying to do. That's what they're trying to do, but the media keeping it from happening and they allowing it. What the vibe, that's what we call them, the vibes. Yeah, but I mean, she keeps discussing the division. But that's her character though, and he got this self tough for her and take so much. I think he did. He hit that point. He just hit that point, make that point, at that breaking point. But at the end of the day, he probably good with what's going on, like I'm ready to go through the process of what I gotta go through to get my bitch back. But but they don't play with my wife while I'm in this process. Maybe and maybe you can. You're like, I could talk about her, but can nobody else talk about her? Talk We passed that, we passed the bullshit that we're working on because now, But why they ain't had that same energy for Jada female? Yeah that's what Yeah, okay, okay, okay, so just a female. She bought my truck. Smith absolutely could not have slap Regina, or he couldn't if it was such an issue or such a like like Black said, why didn't Jada gonna slap her? No, I feel you that could happen. It was such a oh my god, because Jada didn't feel like she she didn't feel like she should slap her over coming. She didn't felt like it was that serious. She didn't feel like it was that serious. I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm just saying she didn't feel like it was that serious Jada, and and Jada might feel like Jada might feel like it feels like something to prove ship like for him, he feels like he got something proved, but I feel like she got nothing to prove. He feels like he got something approved. I do got something approved because this ship funked up. So I'm trying to prove show you my love basically, But you're gonna receive something different from a woman than a man anyway. So they received it different from Regina because I'm your protector, you know what I'm saying. Then they might be Regina friend like playing like yeah they might yeah, And then Will might have told her to save face for her image to put that quote out. We don't know what these people are because the business entertainment, day business, and they went in as long as everybody's talking about that's real. That's real, right though, just like the cars looking on the outside, looking at outside, looking at it. I feel like she needs to really forgive that man or they need to forgive each other, need to forgive each other. Yeah, forgive me, but they feel like they need to forgive each other and show the world they got Damn. You can overcome any obstacle with your soul mate. Pop. Don't she want them back? Ship? You know how to get there? Right? No, you didn't just say that the truth, what the fund is happening that ship, That ship ain't looking good man. Man, So we are on the outside looking. We don't know how the house they could be whatever. We don't know, like just real ship out. Like you said, you don't know what going on. The people got gold. You don't know what the folks got going on and what they're going through. But I don't see them being happy, even the people that's happy, or you feel like maybe happy can be the other way that pops up divorce like they're getting because some people got that work. They know how to work it from and don't say shipped to each other in the house. Yeah, so we don't know forgiveness. That man that ain't cry though, bro on national television, Will Smith movies, Yeah, every face you can my head, I leave Mohammad, I leave face. What ain't crying crying every movie? Even when he got his oscar, he got like the remorseful. Yeah that's how we felt. But he could have been a hit mad like he probably trying out for a movie and we don't even know they're gonna make a movie out of this ship. He had the executive producer a bell Air. That ship just went crazy. So he could not be at the oscars, but he still got ship emotion. Even if Will Smith don't be emotion acting, he got other ship that's emotional. He gotta whole bunch of ship. That's what I'm saying. Out of the country they got they live. I like will and Jada though, because human in a position the play it though, Yeah, I don't like that part to put him in that position. When when the man said what she said, how you look that mean do something? What are you talking about me? Get up and slap me? Do something? That's a grain like I mean you ain't gonna do nothing. That mean you ain't gonna do nothing about it for real? I mean she really did. When you want me to react, and that means and you know what else that means maybe to not not to that capacity, but that means some ship like that doesn't happen before. Yeah. Yeah, that's like you didn't protect me, like they're probably the argument in their household. Yeah. Yeah, you let them say that to me. You can say something to my bitch. I'm going on, should have got that August. Yeah. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You're just gonna let that ship go down? Yeah, you let August tell the world our business. Yeah, the one that opened up my legs and let this that mad kick. So man, I talked to all this. We're cool. It was cool, man, Yeah, yeah, but y'all got some different ships. Always a woman job to protect me, vist sure I agree with that. I feel that way too, Like, ain't nobody for to play with my nigga while I'm right there. I don't give what's going on straight out or either pay or even if they're playing with you. If you know it's gonna go, let people just be like, don't worry about any hands after this exactly, not ruin your moment. Like they can can't creer rock anywhere. They could have taught him at the Vanity Fair party, at the part I have to do the ship at the Oscars. You can band me from the after party. Your ass out after this, you know what I'm saying. But I ain't even do this ship right here. But he just he only filly ship on site. See how he walked back and pop that college. He did keep my wife name your fuckingth yea. You had to vitalize it to make it real. When they do talk about it, it's gonna be a conversation one day, they're gonna talk about it. Chris rock Alredy said, he you're talking about to her some money. He already said that. So they're gonna make money off of everybody else. That's what I was saying. I'm gonna say this that I'm done talking for some money. Like on TV in Hollywood, New Folks is entertaining. The main thing is to entertained. So it sounds good, and I think what we're saying we're right about. But I wouldn't be surprised. Let me don't have a red table talk, spend off on Netflix whole movie together, because they entertainers. That's what they do. Chris walk did kind of like walk into the punch, I mean walk into that. I don't think that was staged. I don't think that she was staged. He didn't look like he was. Got them convinced me to get shopped at the oscars. Hell, Yeah, I see a show of right or throw something at ustand they're just gonna make some money off of it. Supposed to. You're supposed to make money off a crisis if you're a business person. So the moral of the stories, you know what they wanted us to talk about it, so we did because everybody been hitting when y'all gonna talk about it, So we talked about that ship. When you're talking about the noble ever, Yeah, but our we brought it up on the right word for giving. They need to give each other and show the world. Fuck y'all, it's us and let the battles going on and let them going on on. Y'all be mad whatever, keep talking about all the le's, keep talking about my X. Why I keep talking about Chris rock Creep talking about whatever? Funk? That were straight period forgiveness. Y'all forgive each other, will and jam Big Facts Friday. That's another one. Shouts to the whole team the game, Triple w dot, Big Facts pod dot Com. Now let's go eat. You're listening to Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ Scream. 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Big Fat and DJ Scream bring you Big Facts, the hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today www dot Big Facts pod dot com live for first class sounds. You know who that is? DJ Scream, Big Banks here, Baby Jade is here, O g Shote Shot Jones in and it is time for a Big Facts Friday. What's the match my energy? Yeah, wow, we cannot we cannot. Yes, imagine we could not have a podcast. We should be grateful. That is definitely true, because they ain't. Then who win you in no meaning thing? Then wound gotta respect, respect j what we're doing man Friday listening right, But the word of today is forgiveness. Forgiveness. That yeah, that's the deep point. So the textbook salteam definition for all these people keep calling me, The textbook definition is the action or process, the action or process of forgiving or being forgiven. And the Urban Gerban definition is the greatest thing you can ever do for another person and yourself when even after they have hurt you so badly you thought you would die, you can move on and love again. I agree with that, actually for the first time, agree with the Urban Can you say that last one again? The greatest thing you can ever do for another person and yourself. When even after they have hurt you so badly you thought that you would die, you can move on and love again. I can't agree because they all emotions, you know what I'm saying. Any emotions is some's just inside of you. It's it's a different. If somebody physically harmed you, then I don't think you could forgive them for that, but they can take it as if you physically harm them, if you really cut them so deep, they could take you know what I'm saying, It's still the same. Yeah, I feel, but it's still meltal though, you know, because some mental harm can turn the physical harm, to be honest, because like if you mentally break somebody down and now they're not eating and now they're so stressed style and it's still mental. You can change that by changing your thoughts, and it's still someone else controlling. Somebody shoot you in your back and you paralyze, that's different. You can't take that back. But if you said something to me, or cheated on me, or whatever you did to me, there's something that I can just say, fuck it, ain't thinking about it nor more. That's up to you, Yeah, I agree, right, yeah, right. Forgiveness, I feel like, oh, when you forgive, it's definitely taking a weight off his shoulders. You know what, I say, you got to forget forgetting, forgetting it. But when you forgive, I think that like that, like the Erman Dictionary said, I think that takes a weight off your shoulder, bro, because you're clear not the resentment and you're able to open your heart back up again. M h. And probably two thousand and eight, going back, two thousand eight was the first time I practiced forgiveness. I actually reached out to the person and say, you know what, fucking you know what I'm saying that The person cried and boo hoo and all that ship, but I felt like free. I feel like when you're holding that ship, when you're holding that ship in and you don't forgive people, it really do you more harm than the person because they might not be thinking about this ship. I'm not. I don't think I'm I don't think I'm there yet actually reach out to a person that has wronged me or harmed me. But I can definitely internally make that decision within my to like let it go and forgive it and just they no longer exist. But if you haven't forgave them or you put it in the back burner, do you think you really over it? If you have an address, you know what it come down to. Let me let me know, let me jump into you have to actually have a conversation with your wrong door in order to actually forgive. Do you think that, No, I don't think. I don't think. But give them and they don't even got to know you for though, you have to be in that space to where if you run into that person, and that's that's the truth forgetting that. But if you can be okay, yeah, I just say you have any buddy, buddy, but you could be okay whatever you can see them, Yeah, I can be okay with running into them, but as far as like having to re interact with them and have a conversation. And that's basically like the same ship that we just fell out about. But if you run into them. But if you run into and then it triggers something, mean you ain't forget, You ain't over it. Yeah, it's holding you back more than it's holding you. Haven't you realized that that moment, you really haven't forgiven because you may think you have, but you realize that that moment, like, she's still a fun nigger. You know what I'm saying, because now you're faced with it. But I don't think you've got to change your perception of the person to forgive you and you want to slap them. You ain't forgave it, right for sure. But if you see somebody that you say you forgave, but you still don't want to be in the presence, So even if they come towards you, you ain't forget. How So because you can, you can forgive somebody with them you're just saying, I ain't forgave you. But no, you can forgive somebody and still not funk with them. I'm a firm believer I can forgive you. It's still not funk with you at all. That's true. But if you see like, if you feel like, if you feel any type of way, then when you see them, then it's something still there. Wait, so if you see this, you're supposed to nothing nothing. No, let me feel a certain type of it was so bad for me. A family member asked me, if you got on the plane and you had to sit by them on the plane, go get your money. Door. Whatever, what would you do? I just wouldn't get on the plane. That's the old me that was not evolved. That need to stop my money. That's how bad. That's how much. That's how much I did not like I'm going to put that particular person shake in my hoodie. But you go to sleep. Fuck you, I'm getting them, Yeah, for sure, that's what I'm saying. That you've got to be able to sit right here with this person. I mean, you gotta talk to them. You can do that, though I can't wait. Wait, hold on, guys, just because you can't sit on the plane next to them, don't mean you did not forgive that. What do that mean? What you like? I'm let I'm letting. I'm letting them up. I'm let them up. I'm letting to up my trip, my money, my move, my day, everything. I can't sitting next to this person. It's like when fifty centers your rules saw each other on the plane. There was disruptive. It was disrupted. They talked about that ship like that ship the ship was all wrong. I'm uncomfortable. If they're making you uncomfortable, you ain't forgave right have any type of ability to affect your emotions kind of way. I just looked at it like, if you know what I'm saying, I could forgive you right, meaning that I'm not gonna bring up the situation, meaning we're not gonna said. I could be like I don't want no smoke. Yeah you wan't something. Let bygones be bygones. That's not giving. This forgiveness is true. Forget it's it's really right here, it's really right here. Whatever it was, I'm not even thinking about it when I see you. That's what I thought. If we don't speak about it, then it's over right. No, it's all about the role that the person. If you have an X right, you have truly forgiven your ex. When you can walk and run into your ex and you ain't think about that ship or you ain't think about you gotta know that you don't have to be friends. But it doesn't affect you. You go, you see your ex, you feel this hot ship all over your body. You man, you're angry, and it's start thinking about old ship. You ain't forgave you. Ain't you got your girlfriend? Like why I've seen this? Yeah, yeah, you forgave him. You got to just be able to keep it moving and see them. It don't affect you two seconds going about your business And yeah, exactly, I got some healing. A lot of people do. I did have therapy for years to learn forgetting that. I would ask my therapist what what's forgiven this? Again? How does ship work? I don't get it years? But holding gridge don't do them fun with you though? Fun with you bad because you only need it as mad with you bad. These other people that you're mad at don't give a funk about you. That's why they made you mad. I thought holding grudges was more so like if I see this person, I'm like talking ill and I'm like wishing ill intent. Isn't that more so a g because that negative energy is consuming all of your time? Right? But so if you don't wish a person ill intent, that's not holding the grudge, is it? No? No, you can't. What if you wish a person ill intent? That can be well? I can't see. Rude means that you have a valid reason to be upset with this person because they did something to you. But it's anonymous with forgiveness. Though, what do you mean if you're holding the grudge, you haven't forgiven fact right right, all right, big facts canceling sessions. Yeah, I just feel like you gotta forgive people, man, in order to move on, in order to grow. Do you forgive everything though, that's the only way you because I was always do you forgive, but you don't forget. It's a serenity. You have to forgive everything if you start underst and I ain't gonna go there. If you start understanding your chakras and ship. Like when I forgave them people, I was literally saw blessings the next day, kid, you not yes, like the next day I was blessed. I just start seeing blessings because I have blocked that ship. I'm blocking my own blessings, not for game. So you got to if you can, if you're able to trust me. The toughest everybody got their obstacles in life, the toughest ship in the world, and forgiving it's tough because you love and you give so hard that you won't do that to that person and they're stabbing your back and it's like, suck you for life forever and you just think about the worst ship. But it's really harder on you than it is them people. As soon as you let that ship go, open up, whatever it is, open it up. It's a test, yep, exactly because at the end of the day, you can be you could be saying yourself, it ain't then tricky everybody around ain't something that need but God no person, Yeah yeah, yeah, I ain't stid in that ship, but god no, you right, you gotta. It's like a healing process. You gotta heal yourself from that ship. Yeah, it's a process period. Like it's it's like you're not just if somebody has really fucked you over, especially somebody that you care about, is somebody that you really had genuine love for, Like you're not gonna be able to just get off of that ship like that. And then and then and then to think about it, you can forgive a person and then get knocked out of forgiveness by what they're saying afterwards. You get what I'm saying, at break you back into that dark sea. Ain't a test like poking the bell like a nigga knowing like he acted like he forgave me, an it ain't he's still on that. So they say some little bit ship to get back to you, and then you react like seem real. You gotta be able to not see that ship like and then what it is. You know you ain't did none of me, ain't did none of You're like starting and saying he's on him. Hey man, they say do whatever they want to say. They see me, they play with me. Somebody gonna die and just how I go. Period. So that's that's for anybody in the world, like or pedestrian, anybody. So you just gotta start putting people in in that in that box. So I gotta protect myself that it ain't that what I've been sitting around and do the bit ship there then back and anybody got time for that, right right exactly? Yeah? Yeah, the truly is sin and be the best like version of yourself if you if you can rid yourself and everybody don't have all of these traits. But you know the ship that sucks you up, like hey, jealousy, grudges, what else y'all know, I'm the bash anger all that ship. You get that ship out of you, you feel yourself rising, like you feel your whole energy rising. So you gotta be able to rid yourself and ship and ship. Definitely stop your motion, definitely stop your motion for the way you will be motionless. And then I think, I think it really stops it when you know better. That's what hurts you when you know better, like when you don't know God to go food and cheer. That's what you think of yourself, like you think yourself like, damn, I trigger the fun that they tried me. Yeah, that used to it used to be right, funk all that for not that ship manna be waterfol in general. Man, Yeah, you're going on on. I forgive you whoever. And again I reiterate that. With that forgiveness, that don't mean you'll the whole hands and walk through the park. I mean, I don't never say ship. That's what I'm saying. You ain't gotta do that. But no, no, no, no no. He just said you have the right. You have the right, and about because he said I forgive you. But this is the most polite fuck you that exists with me. Yeah, I don't wish you no harm on with your family, no harm none of this ship. But you can never come back. So you can forgive somebody and it's still be funing somebody's It's the way they make you feel to know that you haven't forgetten I'm gonna get in first class. I'm gonna get on the plane. I'm gonna get on the plane. I'm gonna get on the plane, put on my beach bud dress. Okay, yeah, like this, and you're right there and I ain't stand you. Yeah, but I look at it like and then I'm an energy person, So I'm like the fact that you even that close to me is the issue. Even if I forgave you, Like if I don't funk with somebody, I don't even want you that close around me because I feel like your energy is too close to me. It's gonna be days. Well, I feel that true. I'm like that, y'all still working on it's working. Yeah, okay, we're still working. What happened? The part, the great part about it is that you want to You want to, you want like I can see it is a disease. Yeah. I didn't say all day that. You know what I'm saying. I forgive everybody, but I still gotta work on. When I see you how I'm gonna react because of the person that I am. But in my heart, I forgave it. I forgiven you. You want to forget them trying to get them and God know this. Yeah, God knows that. Like I'm really making an effort on this. But but but it's just like what they're calling church backsline. I don't know what ever. Doing your effort is to make your heart as pure as possible. But we are human and we are flawed. My effort doesn't mean any harm. But if I see you in person, I might mean some of the kids. It depends on the energy and the mood and the setting and everything. Everything's depends. But you will be tested. You will test, you will as soon as I see this person the whole time time. You got the grudge, right, so you're trying to forgive him. That's when you're gonna. Right. If you noticed that you don't have any type of whatever, that's when your blessing is gonna exactly that kind of gold is right there. Or you having that day with some amazing you spoke about this ship before two amazing ship is about to happen. You don't know it. That's when play yourself because you gave in to some bullshit. Will Smith on the Oscars, Will Smith, Yeah he might have been. It ain't like you need money in those ship, but he might have been aboutor who knows what even just winning the Oscar that was the first time he ever won one exactly right there before he can even win it play itself, So you gotta just be aby think, Jada, I really felt like my goodsters, I don't know, I feel like my goods should have stopped him at least if I if I have got one of these, I would have been like Jada, good with me. And then I just like, I feel like you shouldn't know if your man, like if you know your nigga, you know he's about to act up or whatever, Like at least one of these it's cool. It's cool, like giving him that, Like I'm that should have been enough that he stood up, and yeah, that should have been cool. Yeah, I feel I just feel like maybe she didn't think he was really gonna do it either, but she thought. I feel like this. I feel like, and you know, we don't know like everything that happened, We don't know all of the ports and afters and all that ship like when ship happens with us, but just from them showing her reaction before and her reaction after, like I don't know, it was just like to me, it was just kind of weird that like there was no like consolation or no, you know what I'm saying, like whatever, and then to go and make a public statement he shouldn't have done that like that was that was what do you say, cash? What exactly? Yeah, Like I just I don't know because it's just like all the ship that they've been through and with the union that they're supposed to have, Like there's no way I go against my nigga in public, and especially he would have done some ship like that, like we want to jumped this nigga together, right, slap this nigga pal pal like he would have been double pit slap. But you know what I'm saying, behind closed doors, you might let him know about what you don't funk with, but you're not publicly gonna say puss it right that nigga like when he ain't back down or something like he's already sucked up. Like but at the end of the day, like if we if we've been married all this time, we got all these we've been married, we've been together one day were together. We don't like especially because when she did that whole entanglement thing, Will didn't come out and been like yeah, my wife, she's been doing that. None of that. I don't agree with the whole state and stick the whole wre I don't agree with this. I mean not Chris Brown, No disrespect to Chris Rock or nothing like that, because nobody deserves to every put on. But it's just like and then on top of that, like he didn't even write the joke. Man, he's a comedian. It don't really matter, Like even if he wrote the joker, not David Chappelle. Dave Chappelle has said a lot worship right, he will trying to prove it, prove something his masculinity'll never be able to accept. Yeah, so they to prove it. So you think that they need to work on some forgiveness somewhere. Not then we're trying to get a nobody relationship with them. Like she already said that this other nigga was her soul mate, and the kids writing letters to the other foul mate was her soul mate. And she never should have got married, No, God should have got married. She said that she never wanted to get married like that, she never never wanted to get married. She got married because yeah, she said that she got married because she was Yeah, she was pregnant and her mom wanted her to get married. And since her mom wanted her to get married, that's why she went down with the whole situation. Even her walking down the aisle, they're talking on a red table talk she was crying and ship she didn't want to get married. That should have been my bitch. What I'm sure it was the whole statement for me with that statement, like we ain't righting with you? Yeah, we were too player for that, and so isn't possible like we're probably he ain't gonna say probably he might be a lunatic. Behind closed they say he is very sweet, Buthich. We don't know what goes on in any house, that's true what I'm saying. But the world I love like the nigga on the Oscar, you know what I'm saying, we'll smith is dumb there Oscar figures the face of being you know what I'm saying. But you just made me show my hand and then you when he didn't you think he banned from the oscars for ten years? Right? That really him? Yeah, this is a question, but it's just in my brain, like because big fact, do you think she'll go back to the Oscars. Yeah, I don't about him. Welcome, I'll give a funk about him. But well, I don't know because if you think about it, a year or two prior, she was trying to boycott the Oscars prior because he wasn't invited to the me. I feel like she really he really laying in the bed with his enemy. Man. No, that's how I feel now, you know. You know, at the end of the day, in my biggest moment, you're gonna you're gonna push my button. You see, I try to laugh at off and you look at me like you're laughing at that. So so you in it on the way that she looked at her husband. Yes, but that's only why he got up. I'm putting it on. Like women have intuition about certain ship. We got intuition about certain ships. I would tell Papa about dog. He bro that's your business, but that ain't good business. That's what I would do. I ain't saying I'm right, but I gotta tell my partner yours. But he was a key kid. Yeah, he was laughing about it. But then when she looked at up like damn out, Like if I look at you, you took that some type of way. So now I gotta make it. I gotta you know what I'm saying, I gotta I gotta make this right. Yeah, but it's crazy because just thirty minutes before that, when Regina Hall made the joke about their entire marriage, they were both laughing like it was funny. But just because he made a joke about the hairship. You know what I'm saying, no disrespect to anybody that has that condition, because you know, it's a very serious, self conscious condition. But y'all were just laughing at this lady making a farce of your marriage. But now all of a sudden, it's a big deal because it's Chris Rock and all of that, And now, okay, you're feeling hurt. I have a question, do y'all think that Okay, like you said, people have been talking about their marriage, and since the whole entanglement going on, they can't walk a red carpet without somebody bringing up their marriage. Nine times out of ten, the people that's bringing up their marriage are talking ill about them or women. Do you feel like at that moment, by it being Chris Rock, it was a man, so now we felt like it's the man, so now I can really say something everybody, I couldn't say it, dedicay bench if you want me to whit slop up fact big facts. I didn't even think. Okay, just got them on shlop a throing around him up if you want to her, I wouldn't never get a chancellor. Yeah, no, they probably scored you out. Then I cree rocket as he said somebody like we're going let go bl together. But to me, I feel like, personally, and you know, these the only pain we turned this ship to the pain facts. To me, I feel like I want to got up and did that for her. Yeah, I wouldn't. Yeah, you probably woudn't even Yeah, because I got know if this woman feel threatened about something, it tis me to rac because she will feel threatened about some or feel a way about something and know that I'll be tripping. So I ain't gonna trip out in front of this dumbas him in a position to and to maybe do something to cause himself to get out it or whatever. You know what I'm saying, because I care that much about him, So I don't want him to do anything to put himself in that position exactly. That's all I'm saying, so for you to even want me to do that, you don't get enough funk about me. But did you did you think that she wanted him to slap? But I don't think that in her brain to react, But I like her wanted Henry. Yeah, I don't think that she thought will Smith, the Prince of French, Prince of bell Lair, was We don't think that's wants him to do with Tupac would do Tupac, well, then that's the closest thing he could deal with that later, then that's what this is. Who she won't she don't see it. I want you to react how Tupac would have that we' have been not shot, right nigger? Though that would not have happened to Kevin Hartiday Chappelle. It happened to the person that could happen to that ship. Weren't gonna happen to one of the motherfuckers. We'll be back to the oscars like I didn't versus that time that it happens so fast that Chris Rock didn't have a chance of process that. I don't think what you mean that's the process. Then he turned it back he Chris Roll still leving I don't know why. That's how he built, That's how he is. He's still thinking on the professional level. That's the Oscar. He's still he's thinking, I'm gonna get money off this ship. Like he's still thinking. He's in that way saying he couldn't got that s wear, but he can in a great position. You know, if you want to take a slap, if it's worth it, if the slap is worth it, that come back to them. Because somebody slap you for a million dollars type shop. He could really sue the Oscars and the Oscars. He could. He could have fresh charm, but he could shoot. He could sue the Oscars and the Oscars would have to pay him because the Oscars didn't protect him first security. Damn. It could be called the Chris Rock. Shall that just happen? Like these niggers be getting shot at these clubs and shot at these departments and ship and suit apartments and sue the club and ship like that. You know what I'm saying, Like that's how I should go to the facility? Is the possible party because of the security. I don't know that man, what the type of was giveing this? So should Chris Rock If Will Smith hell no, And should Will Smith Chris Rohall forget I think he should forget us, not because you think he's knowing us underlying the issue he ain't. Yeah, I think he rights should. Should Will Smith forgive Jada? Hell No? Again, that's your business. I was personally probably forgive Jada. Should you think he should? Jadan't need to forgive Will. Jada needs to forgive Will for what for whatever it is that he'd done her that we probably don't know. Whatever it is, she needs to forgive him. That Shi seemed like I should just be doing the man and ship. That Shi seemed like something else, like he tried to fight to embarrass him. Okay, I'm not trying to play Devil's advocate, but I am Jada didn't do ship to Will. August Alstina was the one that came out and started talking about I was talking. So No, I'm saying that August Alstina was the one that brought the entanglement. He made it public. Yes, because nobody at the end of the day, I don't think. I don't think that that's that I've seen an issue that he slept, well, she slept, I mean she was married. She slept with him. But I feel like I feel like that's that's how they relationship, that he probably had the green like to do she she had green that's not true, they said, that's the biggest But she did. She did. She said that on some red carprid talk whatever, that it's not true. Well, we get some puss. He would cheat and she was fucking so what I mean we had green like, there ain't no green light. They both were cheating. I don't know. I just feel like whatever it was, they were dealing with it till he brought it to the lightning into saying she went on help a podcast and we're like, shit, what so you're saying, okay, so I'm cheating, it's okay for you to cheat, that's a green light. Hell, I thought they probably had. They don't, they said, she said that's the biggest thing of their relationship. And she said, that's the biggest myth of their relationship. They do not have an open relationship. Oh so you just you just the bad girl in then he cheated and shoot, you're gonna be fucking you're gonna this and bring this nick around my kids. But they also said hold on when it came down to the August Austina stuff that they was talking about getting a divorce and then they realized it was just gonna be too much, so he went on his side of the house, she went on her side of the house. So that's really understanding. So basically they separated the state of the same basically, and that's that's that's where the that's a lot of these people are. But that's how the whole August Austinda ship played the part. And everybody is now saying that she was cheating and all that, but that wasn't the case. They was technically broken up and he was on one side of the wing of the house. She was another swing. I feel like that man really loved at Won. He really loved that woman. Whatever he mistakes is mistakes. He trying to he trying to fix his wrongs, and she's standing how Nigga would be like, but you gotta show me for life? Yeah yeah, yeah, I could see that. So basically she needs to forgive him because he don't forgave her for everything. Yeah, but I mean I don't know the details or whatever, but how does she get him from his first wife Jae? That's what I'm saying, we're talking about like him cheating and you know what, I'm saying, all of that blah blah blah whatever with your questions, I ain't never heard that. M hmmm. I doubt that. Well, God bless him in their union. And however, I want to see them folks ship play out together together for sure, like what people don't want to see. We've seen him talking about the folks being all that I want to be. Like the next time we talked about this ship, they got it right. They fucked really them too against the world. They're probably gonna go on a whole hiatus and take that time. Now. I feel like that's what they was on the verge or trying to do. That's what they're trying to do, but the media keeping it from happening and they allowing it. What the vibe, that's what we call them, the vibes. Yeah, but I mean, she keeps discussing the division. But that's her character though, and he got this self tough for her and take so much. I think he did. He hit that point. He just hit that point, make that point, at that breaking point. But at the end of the day, he probably good with what's going on, like I'm ready to go through the process of what I gotta go through to get my bitch back. But but they don't play with my wife while I'm in this process. Maybe and maybe you can. You're like, I could talk about her, but can nobody else talk about her? Talk We passed that, we passed the bullshit that we're working on because now, But why they ain't had that same energy for Jada female? Yeah that's what Yeah, okay, okay, okay, so just a female. She bought my truck. Smith absolutely could not have slap Regina, or he couldn't if it was such an issue or such a like like Black said, why didn't Jada gonna slap her? No, I feel you that could happen. It was such a oh my god, because Jada didn't feel like she she didn't feel like she should slap her over coming. She didn't felt like it was that serious. She didn't feel like it was that serious. I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm just saying she didn't feel like it was that serious Jada, and and Jada might feel like Jada might feel like it feels like something to prove ship like for him, he feels like he got something proved, but I feel like she got nothing to prove. He feels like he got something approved. I do got something approved because this ship funked up. So I'm trying to prove show you my love basically, But you're gonna receive something different from a woman than a man anyway. So they received it different from Regina because I'm your protector, you know what I'm saying. Then they might be Regina friend like playing like yeah they might yeah, And then Will might have told her to save face for her image to put that quote out. We don't know what these people are because the business entertainment, day business, and they went in as long as everybody's talking about that's real. That's real, right though, just like the cars looking on the outside, looking at outside, looking at it. I feel like she needs to really forgive that man or they need to forgive each other, need to forgive each other. Yeah, forgive me, but they feel like they need to forgive each other and show the world they got Damn. You can overcome any obstacle with your soul mate. Pop. Don't she want them back? Ship? You know how to get there? Right? No, you didn't just say that the truth, what the fund is happening that ship, That ship ain't looking good man. Man, So we are on the outside looking. We don't know how the house they could be whatever. We don't know, like just real ship out. Like you said, you don't know what going on. The people got gold. You don't know what the folks got going on and what they're going through. But I don't see them being happy, even the people that's happy, or you feel like maybe happy can be the other way that pops up divorce like they're getting because some people got that work. They know how to work it from and don't say shipped to each other in the house. Yeah, so we don't know forgiveness. That man that ain't cry though, bro on national television, Will Smith movies, Yeah, every face you can my head, I leave Mohammad, I leave face. What ain't crying crying every movie? Even when he got his oscar, he got like the remorseful. Yeah that's how we felt. But he could have been a hit mad like he probably trying out for a movie and we don't even know they're gonna make a movie out of this ship. He had the executive producer a bell Air. That ship just went crazy. So he could not be at the oscars, but he still got ship emotion. Even if Will Smith don't be emotion acting, he got other ship that's emotional. He gotta whole bunch of ship. That's what I'm saying. Out of the country they got they live. I like will and Jada though, because human in a position the play it though, Yeah, I don't like that part to put him in that position. When when the man said what she said, how you look that mean do something? What are you talking about me? Get up and slap me? Do something? That's a grain like I mean you ain't gonna do nothing. That mean you ain't gonna do nothing about it for real? I mean she really did. When you want me to react, and that means and you know what else that means maybe to not not to that capacity, but that means some ship like that doesn't happen before. Yeah. Yeah, that's like you didn't protect me, like they're probably the argument in their household. Yeah. Yeah, you let them say that to me. You can say something to my bitch. I'm going on, should have got that August. Yeah. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You're just gonna let that ship go down? Yeah, you let August tell the world our business. Yeah, the one that opened up my legs and let this that mad kick. So man, I talked to all this. We're cool. It was cool, man, Yeah, yeah, but y'all got some different ships. Always a woman job to protect me, vist sure I agree with that. I feel that way too, Like, ain't nobody for to play with my nigga while I'm right there. I don't give what's going on straight out or either pay or even if they're playing with you. If you know it's gonna go, let people just be like, don't worry about any hands after this exactly, not ruin your moment. Like they can can't creer rock anywhere. They could have taught him at the Vanity Fair party, at the part I have to do the ship at the Oscars. You can band me from the after party. Your ass out after this, you know what I'm saying. But I ain't even do this ship right here. But he just he only filly ship on site. See how he walked back and pop that college. He did keep my wife name your fuckingth yea. You had to vitalize it to make it real. When they do talk about it, it's gonna be a conversation one day, they're gonna talk about it. Chris rock Alredy said, he you're talking about to her some money. He already said that. So they're gonna make money off of everybody else. That's what I was saying. I'm gonna say this that I'm done talking for some money. Like on TV in Hollywood, New Folks is entertaining. The main thing is to entertained. So it sounds good, and I think what we're saying we're right about. But I wouldn't be surprised. Let me don't have a red table talk, spend off on Netflix whole movie together, because they entertainers. That's what they do. Chris walk did kind of like walk into the punch, I mean walk into that. I don't think that was staged. I don't think that she was staged. He didn't look like he was. Got them convinced me to get shopped at the oscars. Hell, Yeah, I see a show of right or throw something at ustand they're just gonna make some money off of it. Supposed to. You're supposed to make money off a crisis if you're a business person. So the moral of the stories, you know what they wanted us to talk about it, so we did because everybody been hitting when y'all gonna talk about it, So we talked about that ship. When you're talking about the noble ever, Yeah, but our we brought it up on the right word for giving. They need to give each other and show the world. Fuck y'all, it's us and let the battles going on and let them going on on. Y'all be mad whatever, keep talking about all the le's, keep talking about my X. Why I keep talking about Chris rock Creep talking about whatever? Funk? That were straight period forgiveness. Y'all forgive each other, will and jam Big Facts Friday. That's another one. Shouts to the whole team the game, Triple w dot, Big Facts pod dot Com. Now let's go eat. You're listening to Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ Scream. 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