Big Bang. What it is?

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Here it's palpable with what's somebody feeling today? I'm good? What's up with y'all? Everything are great?

Here it's palpable with what's somebody feeling today? I'm good? What's up with y'all? Everything are great?

Yeah, and I love y'all talk about anything.

Yeah, and I love y'all talk about anything.

Oh, that's what we're doing today, though. This is gonna be one of them conversations.

Oh, that's what we're doing today, though. This is gonna be one of them conversations.

We just let you know. So we hope you brought your Your energy is on me. Yeah, I want to them.

We just let you know. So we hope you brought your Your energy is on me. Yeah, I want to them.

I want to start like shout k K was asking like, what's the problem with niggas, right, and he kind of attributed to niggas and fatherhood and not having fathers and all that type of ship. So I think you're the person, perfect person to ask, like, what do you think is the problem with African American women?

I want to start like shout k K was asking like, what's the problem with niggas, right, and he kind of attributed to niggas and fatherhood and not having fathers and all that type of ship. So I think you're the person, perfect person to ask, like, what do you think is the problem with African American women?

He jumping right ahead. We got to get to it.

He jumping right ahead. We got to get to it.

If you don't know, I'm the one that I keep pushing on our people for us to accept the logic the facts that single mother households produce the worst fucking product. Now you can say it like that, or I could dress it up where females won't get offended, and I can say fatherlessness is the biggest issue in our community with women and raising children and then expews into the dating pool. So for me, when you ask what's up with us nowadays? Fatherlessness coming from these single mother households, and even if you didn't directly come from one, they leave when we talk about low income. They lead the opinion leaders in our community.

If you don't know, I'm the one that I keep pushing on our people for us to accept the logic the facts that single mother households produce the worst fucking product. Now you can say it like that, or I could dress it up where females won't get offended, and I can say fatherlessness is the biggest issue in our community with women and raising children and then expews into the dating pool. So for me, when you ask what's up with us nowadays? Fatherlessness coming from these single mother households, and even if you didn't directly come from one, they leave when we talk about low income. They lead the opinion leaders in our community.

They are you know what I'm saying.

They are you know what I'm saying.

They the voice in the hood, the mamos that's raising the babies by theyself with no daddy's around. Like, that's who's leading right now in regards to you know what the children are taught. So now you're looking at an adult generation that came from a lot of fatherlessness, a lot of women, female headed households.

They the voice in the hood, the mamos that's raising the babies by theyself with no daddy's around. Like, that's who's leading right now in regards to you know what the children are taught. So now you're looking at an adult generation that came from a lot of fatherlessness, a lot of women, female headed households.

Let me ask you, it's a problem.

Let me ask you, it's a problem.

I have a question.

I have a question.

I'm gonna let you finish, But once you get done with that, I want you to touch on whether or not you think that single mothers get offended about their lack of ability because they are female, and because they are emotional.

I'm gonna let you finish, But once you get done with that, I want you to touch on whether or not you think that single mothers get offended about their lack of ability because they are female, and because they are emotional.

I feel like so I feel like they get offended because they triggered and can't manage their emotions. The offense comes from and let me take a step back, right, you can't receive information if you're in your feelings and how you hear shit depends on your temperament and your energy. So off top, if you defensive, if you feel some type of way, if you got these traumas on you that you haven't seen about with yourself, you're not the right and you're gonna come at the conversation or you're gonna come at the information listening with your inner child, your insecurities, the stuff that you know you dead wrong for, that shame, the guilt you know won't let you stand on you know what I mean.

I feel like so I feel like they get offended because they triggered and can't manage their emotions. The offense comes from and let me take a step back, right, you can't receive information if you're in your feelings and how you hear shit depends on your temperament and your energy. So off top, if you defensive, if you feel some type of way, if you got these traumas on you that you haven't seen about with yourself, you're not the right and you're gonna come at the conversation or you're gonna come at the information listening with your inner child, your insecurities, the stuff that you know you dead wrong for, that shame, the guilt you know won't let you stand on you know what I mean.

So when it comes to us, it's a struggle to just.

So when it comes to us, it's a struggle to just.

Receive the information. And then outside of that, we struggle with accountability. Like I'll be the first female to say, like, when you put women alongside men, women have a real fucking problem with being accountable.

Receive the information. And then outside of that, we struggle with accountability. Like I'll be the first female to say, like, when you put women alongside men, women have a real fucking problem with being accountable.

Hey no, but but how did you tap into this because you want to always this mindset right, how did you tap into your right mindset.

Hey no, but but how did you tap into this because you want to always this mindset right, how did you tap into your right mindset.

So okay, so let me say this, Like growing up, I was a nerd in school, right, and then when I jumped into young adulthood, I was in the streets. So I went from being in the books to now being in the streets.

So okay, so let me say this, Like growing up, I was a nerd in school, right, and then when I jumped into young adulthood, I was in the streets. So I went from being in the books to now being in the streets.

By personal choice.

By personal choice.

Yeah, okay, basic environment.

Yeah, okay, basic environment.

When I'm big on the way your life looking, the ship you go through is based on your choices, So I won't put shit on anything else. But environment plays a big role in the choices that we are. You know able to choose from exactly, so environment play the role in it. But I jumped in the streets, and then you know, from being intelligent in the books but then also being street smart and then being able to be that homegirl to a lot of street niggas. Like there was a lot of ship said and done in front of me to where it molded my perspective differently. You see a lot of ship sitting in the track with niggas that they ain't trying to fuck.

When I'm big on the way your life looking, the ship you go through is based on your choices, So I won't put shit on anything else. But environment plays a big role in the choices that we are. You know able to choose from exactly, so environment play the role in it. But I jumped in the streets, and then you know, from being intelligent in the books but then also being street smart and then being able to be that homegirl to a lot of street niggas. Like there was a lot of ship said and done in front of me to where it molded my perspective differently. You see a lot of ship sitting in the track with niggas that they ain't trying to fuck.

On you you like, bro, but to help you get it, like damn, we do do these niggas to the point that these niggas wild want to be a good nigga. But I can't do to the fact that the ship you done showed me. Yep, that's it is.

On you you like, bro, but to help you get it, like damn, we do do these niggas to the point that these niggas wild want to be a good nigga. But I can't do to the fact that the ship you done showed me. Yep, that's it is.

And the thing about it is my platform, Like I give so much game that helped females, but the whole emotional side they can't see through, you know, feeling some type of way because I said something about the state of parenting in our community when we talk about, you know, a certain demographic with us, they can't hear past that. So it just turns into a fence. You you know, your type of paragraphs and your feelings. But it ain't hard to look around. I mean, you know a lot of what men struggle with nowadays as a grown man, being able to try to manage your emotions, and you know a lot of what women struggle with in relationships where you want a nigga to be, you know, head a household, but you can't. You know, it's a power struggle. You don't know how to be feminine. You don't know how to you know, be in that role once you make it home.

And the thing about it is my platform, Like I give so much game that helped females, but the whole emotional side they can't see through, you know, feeling some type of way because I said something about the state of parenting in our community when we talk about, you know, a certain demographic with us, they can't hear past that. So it just turns into a fence. You you know, your type of paragraphs and your feelings. But it ain't hard to look around. I mean, you know a lot of what men struggle with nowadays as a grown man, being able to try to manage your emotions, and you know a lot of what women struggle with in relationships where you want a nigga to be, you know, head a household, but you can't. You know, it's a power struggle. You don't know how to be feminine. You don't know how to you know, be in that role once you make it home.

And you also and it's another thing too, I think with that house situation, with like being the head of household and all that, is that a lot of women lack the proper skills to be the foundation for that man to be that head.

And you also and it's another thing too, I think with that house situation, with like being the head of household and all that, is that a lot of women lack the proper skills to be the foundation for that man to be that head.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah, and I'm gonna kick it to y'all blood row.

Yeah, and I'm gonna kick it to y'all blood row.

Like in a lot of other cultures, they're raising their girls to be women, feminine nurturers, to embody everything about us, even that emotional side, to learn how to use that intuition as a way to.

Like in a lot of other cultures, they're raising their girls to be women, feminine nurturers, to embody everything about us, even that emotional side, to learn how to use that intuition as a way to.

Be valuable to a family unit.

Be valuable to a family unit.

Right, right, We in our community, we're mothering one another from a space of like, I'm gonna raise my daughter to be independent, right, I'm gonna raise her to do everything for herself, not need a nigga for nothing.

Right, right, We in our community, we're mothering one another from a space of like, I'm gonna raise my daughter to be independent, right, I'm gonna raise her to do everything for herself, not need a nigga for nothing.

But you know, our biology as human beings, especially as.

But you know, our biology as human beings, especially as.

Women, we're wired for companionship, Like it's our DNA in our biology. So when I see people that be talking about you know, I'm independent, I'm gonna be by myself up these niggas.

Women, we're wired for companionship, Like it's our DNA in our biology. So when I see people that be talking about you know, I'm independent, I'm gonna be by myself up these niggas.

They ain't shit.

They ain't shit.

You going against your nature, Like, regardless of what you want to say online, of what you want to say to us, there is something in you that's.

You going against your nature, Like, regardless of what you want to say online, of what you want to say to us, there is something in you that's.

Gonna pull you towards companionship.

Gonna pull you towards companionship.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And then when you're being raised with the program and in an opposite direction, this is when you become psychologically fucked.

And then when you're being raised with the program and in an opposite direction, this is when you become psychologically fucked.

Up a lot of issues.

Up a lot of issues.

Like you know, we talk a lot about you know, the males. Yeah, women, To be honest, we struggling right, not psychologically. We are they showing us how to take advantage of all our knew rights.

Like you know, we talk a lot about you know, the males. Yeah, women, To be honest, we struggling right, not psychologically. We are they showing us how to take advantage of all our knew rights.

Be boss bitches, start businesses, earn all this money.

Be boss bitches, start businesses, earn all this money.

But then you don't know anything about being submissive in your household. Like you know, men won't respect over love any day. So it's like, in order for you to really be that woman in your household, you got to be able to take that hat off at the door from that business. You might be the top realatory, you might have three folk salons that got that online hair brand, but can you turn that shit off and be a woman at home Because a nigga don't give a fuck about you being a boss in the house. Right, this nigga gonna put his mic down, like you ain't gonna talk.

But then you don't know anything about being submissive in your household. Like you know, men won't respect over love any day. So it's like, in order for you to really be that woman in your household, you got to be able to take that hat off at the door from that business. You might be the top realatory, you might have three folk salons that got that online hair brand, but can you turn that shit off and be a woman at home Because a nigga don't give a fuck about you being a boss in the house. Right, this nigga gonna put his mic down, like you ain't gonna talk.

What do you think where you think our culture when that changed though, Like when you thinking black coature, that all changed.

What do you think where you think our culture when that changed though, Like when you thinking black coature, that all changed.

So for me, I mean I could go, I could go way back, but I like to just kind of bring it to a you know, we're both okay, So so on the surface level.

So for me, I mean I could go, I could go way back, but I like to just kind of bring it to a you know, we're both okay, So so on the surface level.

Late nineteen sixties early nineteen.

Late nineteen sixties early nineteen.

When took them out of the house.

When took them out of the house.

Yes, them fucking welfare programs.

Yes, them fucking welfare programs.

And I see so many people trying to rebuttle the fuck out of this online. It is a fact that those programs were set up a certain way to continue with the economically castrating black males, but then also putting our mindset in the space where psychologically we raise our children to not be supportive of the family unit. And when you go all the way back to slavery life, you know the number one thing a way to control a nigga, take the mind, keep the body strong, but take the fucking mind. They'll work hard towards your agenda without thinking twice about what the hell they're doing. And you know, really, even when you go back to slavery, it's started with females. Just while they took the biggest, strongest male nigga, bring them in front of all the women and kids, beat the fuck out of them.

And I see so many people trying to rebuttle the fuck out of this online. It is a fact that those programs were set up a certain way to continue with the economically castrating black males, but then also putting our mindset in the space where psychologically we raise our children to not be supportive of the family unit. And when you go all the way back to slavery life, you know the number one thing a way to control a nigga, take the mind, keep the body strong, but take the fucking mind. They'll work hard towards your agenda without thinking twice about what the hell they're doing. And you know, really, even when you go back to slavery, it's started with females. Just while they took the biggest, strongest male nigga, bring them in front of all the women and kids, beat the fuck out of them.

You know what I mean?

You know what I mean?

Similar to what we seeing today when you see niggas being murdered over and over again, they publicizing that it's everywhere, police killing niggas. Niggas killing niggas is constantly being put in front of our faces. So you show that this nigga looks strong, but he ain't really strong compared to the system or the white man, so to speak, just giving you the imagery. Right, So then you got mothers raising children based on you know, let me, let me train my children up, my boys, I'm a baby them, I'm you know, raise them a certain way.

Similar to what we seeing today when you see niggas being murdered over and over again, they publicizing that it's everywhere, police killing niggas. Niggas killing niggas is constantly being put in front of our faces. So you show that this nigga looks strong, but he ain't really strong compared to the system or the white man, so to speak, just giving you the imagery. Right, So then you got mothers raising children based on you know, let me, let me train my children up, my boys, I'm a baby them, I'm you know, raise them a certain way.

To basically desensitizing our people to the black male masculinity.

To basically desensitizing our people to the black male masculinity.

Yeah, and so now we're.

Yeah, and so now we're.

Used to seeing niggas get fucked up to the point where we okay with fucking niggas.

Used to seeing niggas get fucked up to the point where we okay with fucking niggas.

But used to seeing niggas not being solid in no capacity. Shit. Niggas get locked up, they tell, yep, you know what I'm saying, Niggas bitching up in all types of ways. So it's like it's just like, yep, this ship, it's really okay now because this is there's no consequences to this ship.

But used to seeing niggas not being solid in no capacity. Shit. Niggas get locked up, they tell, yep, you know what I'm saying, Niggas bitching up in all types of ways. So it's like it's just like, yep, this ship, it's really okay now because this is there's no consequences to this ship.

And if you understand psychology and condition, and you show a bit something over and over again enough times, I don't give a fuck who you are is gonna affect your mind. Me y'all included, show a motherfucker with an agenda over.

And if you understand psychology and condition, and you show a bit something over and over again enough times, I don't give a fuck who you are is gonna affect your mind. Me y'all included, show a motherfucker with an agenda over.

And over the same type of shit.

And over the same type of shit.

We don't even realize we programmed to believe black men ain't shit before you even interact with a black man that ain't shit.

We don't even realize we programmed to believe black men ain't shit before you even interact with a black man that ain't shit.

It's it's in your mind, you know what I mean?

It's it's in your mind, you know what I mean?

So you you got it?

So you you got it?

Yeah, So look, I'm mean to cut you out, but this is okay speaking on that about believing that a nigga ain't shit before you even for real see the niggain' shit. There was There was this thing on Instagram the other day. It was a girl talking and shout out to my Boyfriendessa's only. They were having a conversation about getting to know like she was speaking from a female's perspective, so she was saying, you gotta get to know a nigga's family, how he was raised, if he watched his mom get beat on. You know, I'm saying all that shit because it's almost guaranteed that he's gonna repeat that cycle. And she was saying, if I find out that a nigga watched his mama get beat on, or if I find out that he did certain other things or whatever, I'm not fucking with him because I know that he's gonna be like that. And my thing is, I don't agree with that because some people have a reverse reaction to that type of shit, Like I saw my mama get beat on, so I don't want anybody else that I love to have to go through that. So I'm going to make sure that you know I'm the right kind of man to not beat on women.

Yeah, So look, I'm mean to cut you out, but this is okay speaking on that about believing that a nigga ain't shit before you even for real see the niggain' shit. There was There was this thing on Instagram the other day. It was a girl talking and shout out to my Boyfriendessa's only. They were having a conversation about getting to know like she was speaking from a female's perspective, so she was saying, you gotta get to know a nigga's family, how he was raised, if he watched his mom get beat on. You know, I'm saying all that shit because it's almost guaranteed that he's gonna repeat that cycle. And she was saying, if I find out that a nigga watched his mama get beat on, or if I find out that he did certain other things or whatever, I'm not fucking with him because I know that he's gonna be like that. And my thing is, I don't agree with that because some people have a reverse reaction to that type of shit, Like I saw my mama get beat on, so I don't want anybody else that I love to have to go through that. So I'm going to make sure that you know I'm the right kind of man to not beat on women.

And you know what I'm saying, all.

And you know what I'm saying, all.

That kind of shit, And I also feel like you if everybody, I feel like everybody deserves a fair chance at least once, Like if you give a nigga a chance, you know what I'm saying, and then he shows you, Okay, this is what I'm about to turn into, then okay, yeah, get the fuck on. But you can't just prejudge people and automatically be like, Okay, this is what you saw or whatever. So I'm not fucking with you because this is what you're gonna turn into, because that's what has niggas afraid to open up in the first place, because they already feel like, Okay, if I tell this bitch what's going on with me, then she's gonna make an assumption and figure out think that she knows how to play me or knows how to treat me. And it doesn't even make sense for me to even try to be ship to her in the first place. If if I can't even fucking have a safe space with this boy.

That kind of shit, And I also feel like you if everybody, I feel like everybody deserves a fair chance at least once, Like if you give a nigga a chance, you know what I'm saying, and then he shows you, Okay, this is what I'm about to turn into, then okay, yeah, get the fuck on. But you can't just prejudge people and automatically be like, Okay, this is what you saw or whatever. So I'm not fucking with you because this is what you're gonna turn into, because that's what has niggas afraid to open up in the first place, because they already feel like, Okay, if I tell this bitch what's going on with me, then she's gonna make an assumption and figure out think that she knows how to play me or knows how to treat me. And it doesn't even make sense for me to even try to be ship to her in the first place. If if I can't even fucking have a safe space with this boy.

As soon as soon as you show me that this is who you think I am, I'm gonna be their time, Tine.

As soon as soon as you show me that this is who you think I am, I'm gonna be their time, Tine.

That's just how niggas be.

That's just how niggas be.

Okay, you already, I'm already. I'm already convicted, right, So you know this shit and a nigga nature to do some of the ship that you think I'm doing, right, just be real. So it's like a nigga gonna just bruh. This shit is fucked up, I'm gonna tell you.

Okay, you already, I'm already. I'm already convicted, right, So you know this shit and a nigga nature to do some of the ship that you think I'm doing, right, just be real. So it's like a nigga gonna just bruh. This shit is fucked up, I'm gonna tell you.

So it is relevant what a person has been through and they upbringing right, definitely it is, but their understanding of what happened to them determines how they turn out. So it's not just oh, you went through that, so you're gonna be like, this is what is your understanding of what you went through?

So it is relevant what a person has been through and they upbringing right, definitely it is, but their understanding of what happened to them determines how they turn out. So it's not just oh, you went through that, so you're gonna be like, this is what is your understanding of what you went through?

How did you process.

How did you process.

What you saw with your mother or your father or you know, whoever was raising you, grandma, whatever the household looked like?

What you saw with your mother or your father or you know, whoever was raising you, grandma, whatever the household looked like?

How did you process that?

How did you process that?

What?

What?

How is that relevant to.

How is that relevant to.

You as an adult?

You as an adult?

You know, what are you doing with those experiences? And this is why we need to go back to fucking Dayton. We need to go back to getting to know one another. But like I always say, raw sex feels so good, and we don't talk about that.

You know, what are you doing with those experiences? And this is why we need to go back to fucking Dayton. We need to go back to getting to know one another. But like I always say, raw sex feels so good, and we don't talk about that.

We don't talk about that. We just you know, we talk about, Oh you need to wrap it up, Oh you're gonna get pregnant, what about STDs? But we skip over like.

We don't talk about that. We just you know, we talk about, Oh you need to wrap it up, Oh you're gonna get pregnant, what about STDs? But we skip over like.

You got to tell the human and program the mind to understand sugar taste sweet? So this is what you up This what a real discipline lie. It ain't in knowing what the consequences are. It's knowing the exacts that ship that's gonna feel good, in deciding that I'm a do different or I'm a you know, shy away from that until we get to know each other.

You got to tell the human and program the mind to understand sugar taste sweet? So this is what you up This what a real discipline lie. It ain't in knowing what the consequences are. It's knowing the exacts that ship that's gonna feel good, in deciding that I'm a do different or I'm a you know, shy away from that until we get to know each other.

You see what I'm saying.

You see what I'm saying.

Yeah, bringing life.

Yeah, bringing life.

But basically all the ship boil down to man mental illness, bro. Everything, everybody fucked up a little bit. So how you're gonna get with another motherfucker that's fucked up and both y'all fucked up?

But basically all the ship boil down to man mental illness, bro. Everything, everybody fucked up a little bit. So how you're gonna get with another motherfucker that's fucked up and both y'all fucked up?

It ain't gonna work out, trauma.

It ain't gonna work out, trauma.

You gotta get some help, We gotta get some helpful it is.

You gotta get some help, We gotta get some helpful it is.

But so for me, the root is in our upbringing.

But so for me, the root is in our upbringing.

Right exactly you and you can you can overcome, you know, anything you've been through based on understanding that ship, really looking at the traumas, how it affected you, the beliefs that was programmed into you, your paradigms and ship about life. But the other part of it is we don't want to be real that there's a problem with the way we're being raised.

Right exactly you and you can you can overcome, you know, anything you've been through based on understanding that ship, really looking at the traumas, how it affected you, the beliefs that was programmed into you, your paradigms and ship about life. But the other part of it is we don't want to be real that there's a problem with the way we're being raised.

But I don't know.

But I don't know.

In our community, all folks don't want you to tell them they did ship wrong. They want to pass on. I did the best I could on every everything that I had, Yep, with everything, and it's like so it makes generations after them not be able to confront you. So niggas and bitches is walking around with mental health issues. But if I go to, yes, if I go to but if I go to therapy, even start talking about this and you know, they start bringing up things from my childhood, pulling it out of me.

In our community, all folks don't want you to tell them they did ship wrong. They want to pass on. I did the best I could on every everything that I had, Yep, with everything, and it's like so it makes generations after them not be able to confront you. So niggas and bitches is walking around with mental health issues. But if I go to, yes, if I go to but if I go to therapy, even start talking about this and you know, they start bringing up things from my childhood, pulling it out of me.

I got the damn fight with Mama.

I got the damn fight with Mama.

She gonna damn don' want to knock me out, you know, even as an adult, because I'm saying things that makes her feel the top of way.

She gonna damn don' want to knock me out, you know, even as an adult, because I'm saying things that makes her feel the top of way.

I asked me some therapy too.

I asked me some therapy too.

And then that all goes back to accountability too, because the whole not taking nothing away from older people or no ship like that, but all I did the best of what I could when I had and all that shit that kind of negates accountability.

And then that all goes back to accountability too, because the whole not taking nothing away from older people or no ship like that, but all I did the best of what I could when I had and all that shit that kind of negates accountability.

Yeah, it because that's the excuse it does.

Yeah, it because that's the excuse it does.

And I'm gonna tell y'all, like when I was growing up, you couldn't tell grown people they was lying. Even if they were lying, you couldn't know that they flat out telling the lie.

And I'm gonna tell y'all, like when I was growing up, you couldn't tell grown people they was lying. Even if they were lying, you couldn't know that they flat out telling the lie.

You're gonna get popped in your motherfucking mouth if you say that.

You're gonna get popped in your motherfucking mouth if you say that.

So it's like from young age we was trained to like fuck with flaws ship if you raising one households well.

So it's like from young age we was trained to like fuck with flaws ship if you raising one households well.

From.

From.

What I'm saying is they okay, they never gonna call theirself flowed.

What I'm saying is they okay, they never gonna call theirself flowed.

But we've seen a lot of fla ships.

But we've seen a lot of fla ships.

How older people like Aunty, I know you lying, But if I say, Auntie, you lie, now, I finna get a whooping.

How older people like Aunty, I know you lying, But if I say, Auntie, you lie, now, I finna get a whooping.

Yeah, I want to get my ask saying what's real?

Yeah, I want to get my ask saying what's real?

And you can't even if you didn't say the word lying, If you just tried to say Auntie Fibby, you in trouble because grown people ain't never rown.

And you can't even if you didn't say the word lying, If you just tried to say Auntie Fibby, you in trouble because grown people ain't never rown.

You know, what's the sigma?

You know, what's the sigma?

Right?

Right?

Like I told, I told her one time before I told him my grandma like, it's just like you inherit being a hater too. I used to see my grandma like I'm telling you. As I get old, I realized that hate.

Like I told, I told her one time before I told him my grandma like, it's just like you inherit being a hater too. I used to see my grandma like I'm telling you. As I get old, I realized that hate.

The grown faul business. The kitchen is grown.

The grown faul business. The kitchen is grown.

Y'all talking about By the time she got a new store, that ragging motherfuckers she got she need to be cooking outside. He's eating on the lady store. But you couldn't.

Y'all talking about By the time she got a new store, that ragging motherfuckers she got she need to be cooking outside. He's eating on the lady store. But you couldn't.

You could never say that. You could never come out like and say what you see. And the other thing is, and I say this all the time like I do zooms and ship, just talking to people like about confronting where they get their ways from.

You could never say that. You could never come out like and say what you see. And the other thing is, and I say this all the time like I do zooms and ship, just talking to people like about confronting where they get their ways from.

Growing up? You you you can.

Growing up? You you you can.

Tell your parents is at odds they separated or whatever? You know, you can see from the energy. My mama don't really fuck with my daddy. No, mama, Dad don't fuck with my mama. And then when you go around, you gotta be faith. When I go with Daddy, I can't say certain ship about Mama.

Tell your parents is at odds they separated or whatever? You know, you can see from the energy. My mama don't really fuck with my daddy. No, mama, Dad don't fuck with my mama. And then when you go around, you gotta be faith. When I go with Daddy, I can't say certain ship about Mama.

I can't act excided about certain ship when I'm with Mama.

I can't act excided about certain ship when I'm with Mama.

I can't excited up, you know, like I'm too in my feelings about my daddy because I'm she.

I can't excited up, you know, like I'm too in my feelings about my daddy because I'm she.

Gonna give me the energy like I'm aggravating her.

Gonna give me the energy like I'm aggravating her.

You should be fucked up, especially like on kids because.

You should be fucked up, especially like on kids because.

Already, yeah, you you know you want to say, mom, I want to go with my daddy, but she gonna give you a certain energy or hell if you fuck with some of these new age mama your dad about mom my daddy said he gonna take me here.

Already, yeah, you you know you want to say, mom, I want to go with my daddy, but she gonna give you a certain energy or hell if you fuck with some of these new age mama your dad about mom my daddy said he gonna take me here.

Fuck your dad. I don't want to of that ship now, lying when.

Fuck your dad. I don't want to of that ship now, lying when.

Was the last time he took you anywhere?

Was the last time he took you anywhere?

Yeah?

Yeah?

So now I'm around my mama acting like I'm onna fuck with my daddy like that, Go with my daddy.

So now I'm around my mama acting like I'm onna fuck with my daddy like that, Go with my daddy.

Don't say too much about my mama.

Don't say too much about my mama.

You see what I'm saying. Like him.

You see what I'm saying. Like him.

By the time you get along away from both of them, you crazy as head, flaw.

By the time you get along away from both of them, you crazy as head, flaw.

In the bitch, we'd be six seven flaweding the bit fact because of a nigga just say I don't want to be in a relationship no more.

In the bitch, we'd be six seven flaweding the bit fact because of a nigga just say I don't want to be in a relationship no more.

She'll tell them.

She'll tell them.

Kids he left us. Yep. Yeah, So nigga be like, well, my dad, like so many niggas in this world, feel like, why my daddy leave me? No, bro, I left this bitch because she was crazy and I know I won't end up doing the wrong shit right now, you know.

Kids he left us. Yep. Yeah, So nigga be like, well, my dad, like so many niggas in this world, feel like, why my daddy leave me? No, bro, I left this bitch because she was crazy and I know I won't end up doing the wrong shit right now, you know.

But but you know you can't say that. You know, all single mothers got a dead beat baby daddy and they all went through some damsel and distressed struggle that oh he left them with.

But but you know you can't say that. You know, all single mothers got a dead beat baby daddy and they all went through some damsel and distressed struggle that oh he left them with.

I'm like, I'm so over that shit.

I'm like, I'm so over that shit.

I see that should not be like these bitches got to think we retarded to keep believing this narrative like we we seeing holes outright trap niggas. We seeing bitches outright crazy as fucking niggas is walking away from them and them bitches making it Well, you're gonna walk away from the child too, if you leave me alone. We're seeing the parental alienation were singing holes.

I see that should not be like these bitches got to think we retarded to keep believing this narrative like we we seeing holes outright trap niggas. We seeing bitches outright crazy as fucking niggas is walking away from them and them bitches making it Well, you're gonna walk away from the child too, if you leave me alone. We're seeing the parental alienation were singing holes.

Like And another thing too is a lot of these niggas are not legitimized, so they technically.

Like And another thing too is a lot of these niggas are not legitimized, so they technically.

Don't have rights and mix of that. I ain't gonna try to take my name out to how the suit for the baby. I ain't making no excuse for a nigga that don't take his kids.

Don't have rights and mix of that. I ain't gonna try to take my name out to how the suit for the baby. I ain't making no excuse for a nigga that don't take his kids.

You know what I'm saying.

You know what I'm saying.

You find the way, you find a way that God put yourself on something I don't know.

You find the way, you find a way that God put yourself on something I don't know.

Listen, I'm gonna tell you on that one point though, for a lot of men, because I'm in the trenches with they ask I disagree. It's a lot on what I'm saying is it's a lot of niggas that you know, they got the same you know narrative that I'm saying. If as a woman and me and you had a baby, I could keep you from that baby if I wanted to.

Listen, I'm gonna tell you on that one point though, for a lot of men, because I'm in the trenches with they ask I disagree. It's a lot on what I'm saying is it's a lot of niggas that you know, they got the same you know narrative that I'm saying. If as a woman and me and you had a baby, I could keep you from that baby if I wanted to.

But if you want it's a way though, listen, especially if.

But if you want it's a way though, listen, especially if.

You're in the streets and you you still currently in the streets. Bro, Come on, now, we know how to keep a baby from a nigga. Like we gotta stop with ending like we don't know this ship. We have a baby right now, you do me wrong. I can't get out my feelings nigga and make it where you never see this jit again.

You're in the streets and you you still currently in the streets. Bro, Come on, now, we know how to keep a baby from a nigga. Like we gotta stop with ending like we don't know this ship. We have a baby right now, you do me wrong. I can't get out my feelings nigga and make it where you never see this jit again.

And I know holes right now they gonna tell you ass, that's what they do.

And I know holes right now they gonna tell you ass, that's what they do.

They don't give a funck. Nigga.

They don't give a funck. Nigga.

Don't want to be with me, nigga, you ain't finna be around my baby. It's gonna be my baby. And anytime somebody bringing you up, I'm gonna pay your ass to be a deadbe even though you're willing to pull up and give money by shoot. Like you said, I ain't willing to get in front of the crackers and put myself out there because I'm knowing my baby mama get too upset, she'll tell him I see still sell dope. But bro, come on now, we got to start being honest about this shiit same way we willing to be real that it's some dead beat ass niggas, it's some holes by the masses on this bullshit.

Don't want to be with me, nigga, you ain't finna be around my baby. It's gonna be my baby. And anytime somebody bringing you up, I'm gonna pay your ass to be a deadbe even though you're willing to pull up and give money by shoot. Like you said, I ain't willing to get in front of the crackers and put myself out there because I'm knowing my baby mama get too upset, she'll tell him I see still sell dope. But bro, come on now, we got to start being honest about this shiit same way we willing to be real that it's some dead beat ass niggas, it's some holes by the masses on this bullshit.

I'll really, I don't really what you.

I'll really, I don't really what you.

Think calls that, like what you think calls be like that?

Think calls that, like what you think calls be like that?

It go back to programming from let me let me put it like this, right when you raised in the household, yes.

It go back to programming from let me let me put it like this, right when you raised in the household, yes.

Thank you, thank you.

Thank you, thank you.

Single mother headed households produce the worst product. And I'm gonna tell y'all like when you okay, so as a young girl, you being raised as no daddy around, you don't know what it feels like to get correction or you know, be in the presence of a man as an authority figure. When yo, you can have a man or like your mama could have a man around, or your daddy could have been around, but if he's not allowed to have influence, like make decisions without your mama because that yeah, and put without your mama put your two cents.

Single mother headed households produce the worst product. And I'm gonna tell y'all like when you okay, so as a young girl, you being raised as no daddy around, you don't know what it feels like to get correction or you know, be in the presence of a man as an authority figure. When yo, you can have a man or like your mama could have a man around, or your daddy could have been around, but if he's not allowed to have influence, like make decisions without your mama because that yeah, and put without your mama put your two cents.

When a man make decisions, you ain't got no daddy around.

When a man make decisions, you ain't got no daddy around.

If he ain't have influence, right, So that's what I mean by fatherlessness. A nigga might be round, like your mama might have had a boyfriend or a stepdaddy, but that nigga couldn't tell y'all shit without her pointing her two cents, or your daddy really couldn't make no decisions for y'all without your mama speaking on it.

If he ain't have influence, right, So that's what I mean by fatherlessness. A nigga might be round, like your mama might have had a boyfriend or a stepdaddy, but that nigga couldn't tell y'all shit without her pointing her two cents, or your daddy really couldn't make no decisions for y'all without your mama speaking on it.

Fatherlessness. All that shit is fatherlessness.

Fatherlessness. All that shit is fatherlessness.

So if you're a young girl and you raise your whole your whole upbringing seventeen eighteen years, you don't know what it feel like to be in the presence of a man that has some authority. How you gonna feel comfortable with this shit out in the world. This while we end up struggling as young ladies trying to process and like feel comfortable around y'all feel like a nigga trying to control you for like you're trying to tell me what to do, for like you're trying to use your money to do. It's a lot of shit we misperceived or you know, we take it the wrong way because we don't know what it feel like. They have a daddy that say this is the decision as a man. That ain't no woman coming and put her two cents on it. Right then, you always seeing how a woman solves and processes and run the household. This is your programming, it's conditioning. Now flip the same shit to a young boy. You sixteen seventeen, fully grown in your bills, but you only ever saw a woman run shit.

So if you're a young girl and you raise your whole your whole upbringing seventeen eighteen years, you don't know what it feel like to be in the presence of a man that has some authority. How you gonna feel comfortable with this shit out in the world. This while we end up struggling as young ladies trying to process and like feel comfortable around y'all feel like a nigga trying to control you for like you're trying to tell me what to do, for like you're trying to use your money to do. It's a lot of shit we misperceived or you know, we take it the wrong way because we don't know what it feel like. They have a daddy that say this is the decision as a man. That ain't no woman coming and put her two cents on it. Right then, you always seeing how a woman solves and processes and run the household. This is your programming, it's conditioning. Now flip the same shit to a young boy. You sixteen seventeen, fully grown in your bills, but you only ever saw a woman run shit.

You only ever saw your mama, you.

You only ever saw your mama, you.

Know, decide how stuff gonna go in the household, and we nurture her. So a lot of times women don't even realize all that fussing the way you handling your son. You fucking them up, and we think because they a bitch, get grown, get a job, and they're paying their bills, that we did a good job. Meanwhile, like you said, a bitch working a job, psychologically fucked up, mental health issues like a motherfucker.

Know, decide how stuff gonna go in the household, and we nurture her. So a lot of times women don't even realize all that fussing the way you handling your son. You fucking them up, and we think because they a bitch, get grown, get a job, and they're paying their bills, that we did a good job. Meanwhile, like you said, a bitch working a job, psychologically fucked up, mental health issues like a motherfucker.

But you get your check, you.

But you get your check, you.

Go home, you pay your bills like the average American living paycheck to paycheck up maybe a little bit above that, but you got issh shoes. When it comes down the character, when it comes down the conflict resolution skills when it comes down to talk, and it's a lot of niggas that they're not gay. They heterosexual males. They are attracted to women, but they can't stand a fucking woman.

Go home, you pay your bills like the average American living paycheck to paycheck up maybe a little bit above that, but you got issh shoes. When it comes down the character, when it comes down the conflict resolution skills when it comes down to talk, and it's a lot of niggas that they're not gay. They heterosexual males. They are attracted to women, but they can't stand a fucking woman.

Hold up.

Hold up.

It's a lot of niggas that come from this fatherlessness that on the surface like I ain't gay, I'm not attracted to men.

It's a lot of niggas that come from this fatherlessness that on the surface like I ain't gay, I'm not attracted to men.

I'm a heterosexual male, but I can't stand.

I'm a heterosexual male, but I can't stand.

Bitches like I pursue them to fucking engage with your physical but talking.

Bitches like I pursue them to fucking engage with your physical but talking.

To you all sick, Yes, you make me sick, like up.

To you all sick, Yes, you make me sick, like up.

Yep, because his ship you got.

Yep, because his ship you got.

Shut the fuck up?

Shut the fuck up?

Man, talk to like I can't even talk to you and you can't attract one hundred Yeah, no, he ain't.

Man, talk to like I can't even talk to you and you can't attract one hundred Yeah, no, he ain't.

They try to. Well, we're gonna talk to her about like that's why you see mostly women like men. I can't like I don't. I don't want to show this side because you can get really frustrated the ceiling life.

They try to. Well, we're gonna talk to her about like that's why you see mostly women like men. I can't like I don't. I don't want to show this side because you can get really frustrated the ceiling life.

You actually think like this, bro, you can't father, you can't, you can't penetrate. You chin gonna let you influencer when you look at the family unit that she go get advice from. When y'all talk and how y'all problems is all women. None of them ain't got no man. Nobody ain't got no successful marriage. Every bit of what's driving her has to do with being independent. Why she's saying she wants to be in a relationship with you. So then what you do is I start watching you more than I pay attention to myself. So I'm watching all your moves, how you is with your phone, your schedule, just looking for ship because I can't sit with my own thoughts.

You actually think like this, bro, you can't father, you can't, you can't penetrate. You chin gonna let you influencer when you look at the family unit that she go get advice from. When y'all talk and how y'all problems is all women. None of them ain't got no man. Nobody ain't got no successful marriage. Every bit of what's driving her has to do with being independent. Why she's saying she wants to be in a relationship with you. So then what you do is I start watching you more than I pay attention to myself. So I'm watching all your moves, how you is with your phone, your schedule, just looking for ship because I can't sit with my own thoughts.

It's cold, cold.

It's cold, cold.

And then when you I'm telling you when you're when you're a lot of these grown men coming from single mother headed household, they don't have no father during their upbringing, no actual male influence. You get to the point where you realize, like I be wanting to slap the shit out of a bitch, like because from my perspective, like I don't know how to really process as a man, and she acted like a man. Niggas and men, notice y'all run out of words out to a certain extent, like in an argument, a nigga gonna reach that cap.

And then when you I'm telling you when you're when you're a lot of these grown men coming from single mother headed household, they don't have no father during their upbringing, no actual male influence. You get to the point where you realize, like I be wanting to slap the shit out of a bitch, like because from my perspective, like I don't know how to really process as a man, and she acted like a man. Niggas and men, notice y'all run out of words out to a certain extent, like in an argument, a nigga gonna reach that cap.

Because you you're gonna touch me like your words, don't touch me like a lick. See some niggas be fucked up to the point where they don't know how to control themselves either. The best thing to do what camera with a camera. The best thing to do is eject yourself from that. Yes, because you're not gonna be able to if you know you can't control certain emotions, you gotta re move yourself.

Because you you're gonna touch me like your words, don't touch me like a lick. See some niggas be fucked up to the point where they don't know how to control themselves either. The best thing to do what camera with a camera. The best thing to do is eject yourself from that. Yes, because you're not gonna be able to if you know you can't control certain emotions, you gotta re move yourself.

And then and then because the back and forth is only going to escalate because every I'm gonna tell you, women, we could go for days in arguments.

And then and then because the back and forth is only going to escalate because every I'm gonna tell you, women, we could go for days in arguments.

We come up with clever ship, make up ship, take shit out of our imagination.

We come up with clever ship, make up ship, take shit out of our imagination.

What else?

What else?

Nigga ain't processing ship that fast.

Nigga ain't processing ship that fast.

They run out of words, so not like like you said.

They run out of words, so not like like you said.

If you don't leave, and and the way these women are.

If you don't leave, and and the way these women are.

Nowadays, so bitch, I'm gonna make you shut up.

Nowadays, so bitch, I'm gonna make you shut up.

Yeah, and then you got a lot of women they don't realize this nigga out of words, so you ain't saying nothing.

Yeah, and then you got a lot of women they don't realize this nigga out of words, so you ain't saying nothing.

You're trying to leave.

You're trying to leave.

Now she challenging you even more because a bitch thinking she a nigga. The independent boss ship got you believing to a grown ass man. Damn, there are two times your side you're finna make him do something. This is when you see niggas walking away in a bitch, following by at him, poking him in.

Now she challenging you even more because a bitch thinking she a nigga. The independent boss ship got you believing to a grown ass man. Damn, there are two times your side you're finna make him do something. This is when you see niggas walking away in a bitch, following by at him, poking him in.

The back of the head. Put that as nigga, you're gonna do that?

The back of the head. Put that as nigga, you're gonna do that?

Come on?

Come on?

What protect that all? God bless her soul. Somebody needs to fix her.

What protect that all? God bless her soul. Somebody needs to fix her.

You.

You.

I'm gonna tell y'all, sh I had a femily member one time, right, Liz. I had a family member.

I'm gonna tell y'all, sh I had a femily member one time, right, Liz. I had a family member.

She arguing with her dude. So, and I was real young. So I'm just watching him argue. So I get to the point where I can see he ran out of words.

She arguing with her dude. So, and I was real young. So I'm just watching him argue. So I get to the point where I can see he ran out of words.

I ain't know that's what this was back then. But he went walking down down the sidewalk. He like this ship, I'm finna leave. She followed him, She pushing him. She's selling out, She yelling real. It was like you've seen something click and that nigga turned around and he just started chasing it. He never could get to it, like she running. He never could get to it. When I tell you, he beat the car up. He beat the car.

I ain't know that's what this was back then. But he went walking down down the sidewalk. He like this ship, I'm finna leave. She followed him, She pushing him. She's selling out, She yelling real. It was like you've seen something click and that nigga turned around and he just started chasing it. He never could get to it, like she running. He never could get to it. When I tell you, he beat the car up. He beat the car.

He was punching.

He was punching.

It was like, but I watched to push him to that point, like, and I'm like, bro, and I'm knowing like this family, so I'm knowing this nigga don't got no real father. Figures in his life. Men teach men how to process anger. Women don't teach men this because we don't know. Yeah, you gotta get that ship from a man. And when you're a black man in America, you have to have a mature, positive black male role model, like help you process and understand what you are because anger looks different on y'all. A Black man mad don't look like a white man mad, or an Asian man mad, or it don't look the same.

It was like, but I watched to push him to that point, like, and I'm like, bro, and I'm knowing like this family, so I'm knowing this nigga don't got no real father. Figures in his life. Men teach men how to process anger. Women don't teach men this because we don't know. Yeah, you gotta get that ship from a man. And when you're a black man in America, you have to have a mature, positive black male role model, like help you process and understand what you are because anger looks different on y'all. A Black man mad don't look like a white man mad, or an Asian man mad, or it don't look the same.

Bro, Do you realize you black? I told you, bro, what you look like anger? No other shit. It just looks scary. They'll shoot your ass and lock you based so hot.

Bro, Do you realize you black? I told you, bro, what you look like anger? No other shit. It just looks scary. They'll shoot your ass and lock you based so hot.

You see how that just did Kroy beer Man, This nigga say, I ain't even remember his kids. He was yelling and screaming at the police. They didn't do ship.

You see how that just did Kroy beer Man, This nigga say, I ain't even remember his kids. He was yelling and screaming at the police. They didn't do ship.

You can't be afraid to be wrong with your boy. That's why my boys I make sure I stayed around them forever, no matter what I went through my relationship with the fuck that ain't. I can't do that, you know what I'm saying. The niggas grown up, but they processing ship differently. But all the time you were calling me a bitch, I was being a bitch. You gotta let niggas know, bro, that's I'm not saying you're a bitch, but you're acting like a bitch for me. So you're not a bitch. Yeah, but you're acting like a bitch. You doing your face and ship. Just say what you want to say, nig you're making your face and fresh, and that's what your mama do.

You can't be afraid to be wrong with your boy. That's why my boys I make sure I stayed around them forever, no matter what I went through my relationship with the fuck that ain't. I can't do that, you know what I'm saying. The niggas grown up, but they processing ship differently. But all the time you were calling me a bitch, I was being a bitch. You gotta let niggas know, bro, that's I'm not saying you're a bitch, but you're acting like a bitch for me. So you're not a bitch. Yeah, but you're acting like a bitch. You doing your face and ship. Just say what you want to say, nig you're making your face and fresh, and that's what your mama do.

You might bitch you a nigga, but you have to teach boys boys up. Yeah, that you you saying some real ship. Boys have to be taught to process what's happening with them and articulated or walk the fuck away and go see by theyself.

You might bitch you a nigga, but you have to teach boys boys up. Yeah, that you you saying some real ship. Boys have to be taught to process what's happening with them and articulated or walk the fuck away and go see by theyself.

Yeah. And when you when you ain't been raised to do this, like, we will eat you up. Emotions relationship, Like, your emotions and feelings are the same. But you gotta be able to child on yours because you're a man. Women, we can get away with a lot more you got Yeah, yeah, okay, but that's acting like a bitch. Okay. If she said, if she said somebody of her mouth that she can control cuz was a mouth.

Yeah. And when you when you ain't been raised to do this, like, we will eat you up. Emotions relationship, Like, your emotions and feelings are the same. But you gotta be able to child on yours because you're a man. Women, we can get away with a lot more you got Yeah, yeah, okay, but that's acting like a bitch. Okay. If she said, if she said somebody of her mouth that she can control cuz was a mouth.

That's what bitches do.

That's what bitches do.

How you doing this right? So we gotta make that shit look like some bit shit the nigga like broy argue with the bitch.

How you doing this right? So we gotta make that shit look like some bit shit the nigga like broy argue with the bitch.

We don't do so, bro, when you ain't throughout your whole upbringing, if you never had no men to show you that this is woman behavior.

We don't do so, bro, when you ain't throughout your whole upbringing, if you never had no men to show you that this is woman behavior.

This all you've seen. It's a fact.

This all you've seen. It's a fact.

Children model what they see facts. So you get to a point where you know you a boy, but I got so many of my mama ways because it ain't never been no men, because you've never seen anything to the contrast, and.

Children model what they see facts. So you get to a point where you know you a boy, but I got so many of my mama ways because it ain't never been no men, because you've never seen anything to the contrast, and.

You can't that.

You can't that.

The thing is, how can you argue with this ship like your son that you raise, it only has ever seen you problem solved you and how you are with emotions, running the household, with just certain shit, with family, your decision making.

The thing is, how can you argue with this ship like your son that you raise, it only has ever seen you problem solved you and how you are with emotions, running the household, with just certain shit, with family, your decision making.

He gonna grow up and make decisions like a bitch and women.

He gonna grow up and make decisions like a bitch and women.

We be knowing this, we just.

We be knowing this, we just.

Don't want to admit our accountability in it. So we will say it's a lot of bitch as niggas in the day and pool. It's pissed in the dating pool. These niggas be acting like holes. What's wrong with these niggas? But then, like when I want to talk about where they got it from, why these niggas got these problems?

Don't want to admit our accountability in it. So we will say it's a lot of bitch as niggas in the day and pool. It's pissed in the dating pool. These niggas be acting like holes. What's wrong with these niggas? But then, like when I want to talk about where they got it from, why these niggas got these problems?

They're not already.

They're not already.

We don't want to talk about that. No, No, you can't talk about single mamas. No, don't talk about some of the mamas.

We don't want to talk about that. No, No, you can't talk about single mamas. No, don't talk about some of the mamas.

Be trying to be real though, because I'm gonna keep it one hundred like I told, because my wife she gets to my boy the rock like but now I had to break it down and flip it on it, and I feel like this when she finally got the ship. You teach your boys not to go for you want me to go for. Women know the difference because you're gonna tell your son like, nah, if she acting like that, she mean this. But so when you I was taught this too, mm, so don't you You're gonna run some shit on meet it. You don't want to be bringing on your son, right, So you know the difference, right, I can't argue with that, that's say. But but you can't argue with that cause you just tell her like, hey, you should never go for this. If she say this, you should never this. You will tell these boys that, But you'll turn around and say this shit to me and be mad at me because I'm I'm not accepting that. You were just owning your feelings because I heard you say, if a motherfucker say that, THEYMN fuck with you like that, or.

Be trying to be real though, because I'm gonna keep it one hundred like I told, because my wife she gets to my boy the rock like but now I had to break it down and flip it on it, and I feel like this when she finally got the ship. You teach your boys not to go for you want me to go for. Women know the difference because you're gonna tell your son like, nah, if she acting like that, she mean this. But so when you I was taught this too, mm, so don't you You're gonna run some shit on meet it. You don't want to be bringing on your son, right, So you know the difference, right, I can't argue with that, that's say. But but you can't argue with that cause you just tell her like, hey, you should never go for this. If she say this, you should never this. You will tell these boys that, But you'll turn around and say this shit to me and be mad at me because I'm I'm not accepting that. You were just owning your feelings because I heard you say, if a motherfucker say that, THEYMN fuck with you like that, or.

If motherfucker do that, you get what I'm saying. So he'd be double standing too.

If motherfucker do that, you get what I'm saying. So he'd be double standing too.

They know they know right from wrong, but I'd be so far in my feelings. Fuck it, I teach negativity just because I'm in my feeling that I know I'm leaving you the wrong way.

They know they know right from wrong, but I'd be so far in my feelings. Fuck it, I teach negativity just because I'm in my feeling that I know I'm leaving you the wrong way.

Yeah they say anything else, Yeah, but a lot of it have to do with like the relationships in which these kids was born from the situations like we don't talk about that enough, right, please, they're not Like there's a good part of of this new generation that was not.

Yeah they say anything else, Yeah, but a lot of it have to do with like the relationships in which these kids was born from the situations like we don't talk about that enough, right, please, they're not Like there's a good part of of this new generation that was not.

Relationship because a lot of.

Relationship because a lot of.

That's why they was born because it puts it feel good without a rubble. That's why they Yeah, that's why she got pregnant, and it's why for me, Like when I'm talking to young girls and I'm raising girls, like, do not believe that just because a man want to fuck you wrong, he want to have a baby with you.

That's why they was born because it puts it feel good without a rubble. That's why they Yeah, that's why she got pregnant, and it's why for me, Like when I'm talking to young girls and I'm raising girls, like, do not believe that just because a man want to fuck you wrong, he want to have a baby with you.

Because that's not the case anymore.

Because that's not the case anymore.

And we're not going back to that until women change their standards, Like niggas is fucking wrong for the feeling.

And we're not going back to that until women change their standards, Like niggas is fucking wrong for the feeling.

And you got all these young.

And you got all these young.

Girls screaming, well, he slept with me raw and he nutted in me.

Girls screaming, well, he slept with me raw and he nutted in me.

He knew what was gonna happen.

He knew what was gonna happen.

And now you're a single mother and the nigga is not stunning you. He don't give a fuck by you saying that dad beat baby daddy. Shit, gonna get on welfare and struggle and say you did the best you can. Yeah, like, just like you gonna just keep repeating the same for as shit and don't get you better now, no facts, you know better, not saying you know better, you know better.

And now you're a single mother and the nigga is not stunning you. He don't give a fuck by you saying that dad beat baby daddy. Shit, gonna get on welfare and struggle and say you did the best you can. Yeah, like, just like you gonna just keep repeating the same for as shit and don't get you better now, no facts, you know better, not saying you know better, you know better.

You know this nigga ain't even being baby dadd of material or how he pull up on him.

You know this nigga ain't even being baby dadd of material or how he pull up on him.

But when you can't attract no difference from when you can't attract no different you be like fuck it because your inner is saying I need a man. I don't go fuck with a bitch, say out they mouth. Our biology is wired for a companionship. Like there are species of animals and organisms that do not run in groups. But then there are the animals in species and humans that we are wired in our biology to collectively group together, to socialize. That's why if you isolate a nigga, your mind will organically fuck up, fuck up, like when you put a nigga in solitary confinement long enough, he go crazy because we're not wired for like being it along.