Social Media Advice - .03.25.25

Published Mar 25, 2025, 5:45 PM

Today’s Social Media Advice deals with a man who is upset about his brother and his girlfriend having loud sex on the family vacation with the whole family sleeping in the same house. The also answer a question from a man who is trying to establish ground rules after reuniting with his father who was never around when he was young.

This is from Ronnie and Steve Harvey FM. Ronnie says, our family rented a beach house together for a big vacation with siblings, spouses, and even our parents. Everything's been great except one big problem. My brother and his girlfriend are super loud at night, and not from snoring. Okay, it's beyond awkward. It's beyond the awkward, and I cringe even thinking about bringing it up with him. Worse, I'm terrified our parents have heard it too, and everyone's just politely ignoring it. Should I quietly say something to him? Or is it better left alone?

Oh? You got to say something. I'm tired of elephants in the room. Let's go to the elephant. Yes, let's go straight to the elephant and top to the elephant. Let's bring it up. Bring it up at the at the breakfast table one morning out.

Bring it up like, what what are you saying?

Yes, yes, listen, we've heard y'all last night? Everybody here, y'all. Can y'all please keep it down? Y'all loud? Y'all loud? Or can't y'all go around the corner with that? Mom and Daddy don't want to hear all that mama and y'all. Y'all, y'all got y'all just read it all. Thing y'all doing in front of mom and that, bring it up?

Bring it up?

I like that.

Tom super loud, he says too. They are super loud.

No, everybody on vacation, didn't heart y'all know, bring it up? Yeah, so how y'all vacation going.

We're not getting much sleep? Loud? Yeah, yeah, bring it up? Wow, in front of the parents and everything.

Huh, in front of everybody? Children too, everybody bringing children too.

It super loud, that's what. Super loud everybody. But it's amazing that it's only bothering him. They aren't talking about it amongst themselves. You know. You know you talk about people. Did you hear something? Nobody's any of that.

Yeah. The man that's most offended is normally the one that ain't getting it in.

You know what I'm saying.

Here.

Let jealous too? Now his wife, he's there with his wife. What what bouses?

Yeah? Him, him and Connie ain't doing it like that.

Connie doing it like.

Ronnie and Connie.

Conny ain't doing it like that. She's on her side. He's on his side.

Yeah, it ain't what it used to be.

So Ronnie is jealous of his brother brother name uh huh his brother.

Who donell come on, Dnnelle and Regina they're getting they're getting to busy. Regina not playing zero games, they role playing and everything. Wonder Woman. Why does he come up to coming up Hollway with this wonder Woman outfit?

So that's what super loud means. Okay, yes, Adam West, all right, all right, guys, we have time for another one. This one says my father was essentially nonexistent for the majority of my childhood. We just started being cooled. To his credit, he's been making efforts to get to know me and be more a part of my adult life, but have had little desire to offer him more than that. Lately, though, when we are together. When we get together, he's felt the need to offer me parenting advice when it comes to my wife and the two step children that I'm taking care of. I know he means well, but this really makes me mad. I realized this is my issue and that therapy might be needed to help me get past this, but I still feel the need to go completely off on him and get it out of my system. Before we had this little dad's son relationship. What do you think? What do you guys?

Once again addressed the elephant, tell you, tell your daddy. You ain't got no position to be telling me how to raise my kids when you ain't raised me. Be quiet, just shut up. You'd be glad I'm over here going out and having dinner with you at the Golden Corral.

Calvin, just in there, give it advice.

Come on, Calvin, that little one gonna be a

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