Ask The CLO - 01.28.25

Published Jan 28, 2025, 4:32 PM
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It is as the clo All right, Colo, This is from April and Newark, who writes, I'm seeing a guy that is fifteen years older than me, and I love everything about him except for sex. He tries to buy me nice things just so he can tell me that I owe him. I want the nice things with no strings attached. Why is he so focused on the sex?

Why I don't understand the question. You're saying he buys you stuff to tell you that you owe him? All right now, is he saying the stuff that you owe him is the sex? Is that what she says?

That's what she's saying that he's said.

Maybe listen to me. He just pointing it out. That's what it's all for.

Wait, what's that's That's what it is, All of this for that and nobody helping you out with your rent and paying cards.

And he's sending these kids to school.

If ain't no sex tied to it, that that's he just he just pointing it out.

Well, maybe that's what she doesn't like the fact that he points it out.

We got I buy cars and swimming pools and diamond rings for sex.

Wait a minute, are you buy what now? Cars?

Swimming pools, diamond rings for six Burking bags.

Six.

I mean, look, man, it's like this. It's it's it's a. It's a it's a form of wining and dining. Now, the problem she has is you may not be getting the commitment that comes with all of that.

Wives do wives get the commitment.

Husbands try to provide for their wives everything they asked for.

Yeah, you're just not getting the commitment.

So he making sure that your The commitment he want from you is what you do to him.

I now, yo me.

See that's yeah, that's now, that's tacky. It's tacky, but that's what he tied it to.

See. So what he gotta do is he just got it. He just gotta.

Expect it instead of reminding you. Yeah, no, it don't sound good. It don't sound good.

She knows. I don't want you to forget that what I don't want? Yeah, he don't either. Too many nice things and no six coming up.

That's all right.

You like that bag much?

You like it exactly?

You like it a lot? Me too? All right, say you like that bag?

Let me tell you, let me tell you how I like its?

Right?

My birthday is three days after Christmas and My husband didn't get me a gift this year. He bought a new hot water heater in December and we agreed not to do gifts.

But what about my birthday?

Why does he get uptight when I say I expected a gift.

You got that hot water heater for Christmas?

You better get it there and take that bath. Listen to me, you see.

Now, let me tell you some friend, what a woman says is not what she means never, so bruh, you gotta get used to that. Y'all said we're gonna give this hot water heater, so weeen doing gifts this year. That was for Christmas. She watered a birthday gift.

Yes, I don't get the dish washing for not appliances.

Want something personal.

And appliances does not qualify. Trust me.

They don't take moll of your wife, no vacuum clean for the house.

Can't give her no flash screen TV. You sitting up there got the game on?

Right?

It has to be a personalized idol.

Now.

I don't know how old he is, but he should know better.

Yeah, doesn't say see buying hot water heaters. That's an over forty thing right there. You're right because young people don't even know.

You know, I.

Don't know how the waters heated.

They just you know, these as homeowners. These are homeowners right here? They not written, these are homeowners. And how much do how water heaters are? How water heater messed up Christmas this year?

God though, but they needed it.

The house needs Yeah, she needs a birthday care, all right. Moving on to Chris in Detroit. Chris says, my wife's brother came to my house, got mad at my wife and started yelling at her. I told him that he cannot talk to my wife like that. She told me to stay.

Out of it.

Now I'm mad because I stood up for her and she disrespected me.

Did I overstep here?

No? Not in your house, not in your house. Not in your house. Now. You y'all got that sibling thing going on.

I understand that, but you can't come in my house talking crazy to my wife. And I'm not loud to If I holler at her, I get checked for hollering at her.

But the hell you in here hollering at man?

So she was wrong for not understanding your side of it. That's what she should have said, was baby baby. Just let me and my brother work through this. We do this all the time. I ain't He ain't gonna hurt me, but it's gonna be some yelling. But I do respect you. Yeah, but he the husband, he did the right thing.

Yeah.

I don't care who you are. Man, You're not coming up in here hollering at my wife. Okay, Oh, please understand me that that.

Yeah, the husband is mad for standing and he should be. Yeah, and she disrespected him.

Stand. You ain't got nothing to do with it. You should have been arguing with this fool their whole.

Life, all right. Last one, Steve, Last one. It's from Mickey and Beaumont. Mickey writes, I got my boobs done, and my husband won't stop touching them. He squeezes them and pulls at my piercings to the point that they get sore.

He wouldn't want me pulling and tugging at his you know what? So how do I get him to stop this?

Oh?

No, he don't care. He bought him.

He've been waiting on the happy birthday to me, marry Christmas to me. You don't even want to stand.

To enjoy that mayor feeling.

Right now, it's it's like a new Yeah, I know it could be he would get mad if I was putting on his junk all the time.

No, he wouldn't.

But she's got piercing.

We'd be just sitting up here pulling find Wow. Well you know she got piercing. Now she done decorated what you wanted him to do.

She got piercing.

Yeah, so you build them up and decorated it.

Girl, How does she get him to stop?

That's what she wants to know, and not finish. Stop that's gonna happen. Stops brand new toy in the house.

All right, thank you, Clo coming up.

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