Ask The CLO - 01.10.25

Published Jan 10, 2025, 4:23 PM
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It's time to ask the c l o uh to Shonda or maybe maybe I should know. I'm sorry, Toronto. Her name is Toronto, Toronto, and Lafayette says, my husband's sister is having problems in her marriage, so she's staying with us. When I got home from work, she was wearing one of my robes. I will gladly get her some things if need be. So how do I nicely tell her that my stuff, my stuff is off limits.

Let me catch you ass in this robe? Will get him? Nicely?

She said, nice nicely?

That's it? Off of second, just walk up there, Just tad off of hem. Or if I can't wear the robe, ain't nobody gonna wear a rope? Take a butcher knife and cut the cold, cut the bill, just swinkle, just do whood stuff.

Here's my question. Is she's saying anything while she's cutting the robe off?

Oh yeah, yeah, everybody cussing and cutting is a part of it.

Yeah, it goes, it goes.

Yeah, and see, don't look the same on you no more?

All right? Moving on to Marissa and Stockbridge, Marissa writes, I'm thirty eight years old and my husband likes to watch porn while we're intimate. He says, he imagines that I'm the women in the video. This doesn't sit well with my soul. Does this mean that he is not satisfied with my body and normal intimacy?

Well, he imagined that you the women in the video.

Uh, huh, you do what?

What? What? What did you text? What did you write us? This fault? He just told you. He imagines that you are the women in the video. So he takes his mind off you and puts it on huh. And instead of doing you, he's doing huh. Which partities you don't get. Just don't sit right with my soul. You ain't got to drag your soul and it is.

It did take it somewhere else, didn't it. That's the name of the movie.

Back in the day.

She needs to shut that down, all right, Frankie in Texas. As we move on, Frankie says, my son's child, that would be your grandchild. My son's child and child's mother live with me. She can't stay with my son because he has a new girlfriend. But he still comes to have sex with his child's mother. And I don't need to be hearing that, and neither does the child. What should I do, got it.

Well, you got to put a stop to that in your house. Your house, you could actually put a stop to that and just tell him that he's being disrespectful. Very and then now he has a new girlfriend somewhere else but his former girlfriend and baby with his mama.

Right, and he has his own.

Live with the mama too.

Yeah, he has his own house that you know, he has this new girlfriend over I'm sure.

Well, so you got to take all this to your house. Yeah, and you coming back over here still having relations with her in front of me and this boy. That ain't gonna work being disrespectful. You need to sit the girl down at that and ask her what's wrong with her.

That's what Frankie should do, because that's what she wants to know. What should she do?

Well, you need to have conversations with your son about being respectful of your house and your rules. Secondly, you need a conversation with this girl and just go what's wrong with you? Yeah? Now, you ain't good enough to go with him, You ain't good enough to be with him. You got you gotta stop being good enough to do him better than that?

Yeah?

Good?

Yeah? And then mama's food right after that though.

That's pretty damn good.

Don't you come in. That's the bright side for you.

That's why you that's why you do pranks.

All right, Steve, here's the last one. This one's Nevea in Culver City. Naveah says, I've been dating a man for fourteen years and we both turned forty in December. I was hoping for an engagement ring for Christmas, but he said the ring is custom made and won't be ready until Valentine's Day. If I don't get it, then should I leave?

Oh?

Well, she's been they've been dating. What what?

Okay, what what do y'all want me to say?

Say it? Just say it?

You hell, listen to me. I've said this one hundred times on this show. Why is it that women do not understand this fact that you have every right to know and have a say so with the direction your life is going. Again, you have a right to have a say so and know the direction in which your life is going. That's your right as a human being.

Okay, stop right there. Why don't they Why don't they then?

Because you think that you're supposed to center around and wait on somebody else to make a decision. About your life when you have the power to exact the decisions you want. Example, Okay, the reason you keep waiting on a ring and don't get it is because a ring is not a requirement of yours. It is a hope of yours. And if that ain't the hope of his, then all hope is lost.

We're hopeless.

So why don't you make it a requirement for this to continue? I am no.

Fourteen years that's a little long's life.

And now it's custom made and it won't be ready to custom boy? What boy? Stop them? Rings ain't custom made. Their ass is in k jewler, they in the window or they in the window. You ain't got enough smart to make a damn custom ring?

Are you nuts?

Let me tell you something, man, if you go in there and pick out that diamond in that setting, your ass can come back tomorrow the ring ready? Yeah?

Okay, one more question, And because we need to understand this, see go ahead. Well why fourteen years? I mean, why would you stay with someone for fourteen years without anything?

A lot of people have done because because you keep waiting on this theme to happen, that you have not made a requirement. And I keep telling y'all listen to me, ladies. A wedding day is a woman's dream. The wedding day is not the man's dream. All the man dreams of is the chick of his dreams. We don't dream of our wedding day. And if we can get to chick without the wedding day, bam, he got what he oh? Don't?

All right? Clo, thank you.

This is Steve Harven Martin show man. Here.

That twenty four year old girl is dating this sixty five year old man that buys and does everything for her. Five months ago, I met another man closer to my age. He took me to a family reunion and to my surprise, my sugar daddy is his stepdaddy.

He ain't say anything, and I showed didn't because his wife is down.

Now you over there got to be quiet and stupid, but you're dating the man's day.

Son. My question is, is the sugar daddy his daddy? Your daddy?

Where is his daddy?

How many daddies you got? I'm gonna be that's Morder Steve Harvey Morner Show coming up right after you

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