Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re back answering more of your questions! We kick things off with the question of the day: What’s one thing about getting older you wish you knew sooner? Then we get into more topics: What you do when your co-worker might be the one? Do grandparents need to abide by their children’s parenting styles, even if they feel it’s wrong? We discuss these and so much more, and you won’t want to miss Kathy and Susan’s advice! Tune in now, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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Okay, so today, let's get into last night's happenings on Jones season. What did you think?
Oh my gosh, so I think it was a very emotional night. There was a lot of sharing, like when people opened up about what they went through. Pescual Pascal, what a story.
I felt so bit. I liked him even more.
I really do what he went through, and he was determined to make something out of himself. The cardboard in the shoe that was worn out that his dad did.
So you know that I've kind of made some jokes about Pascal and his cooking and cleaning and his Gucci and Bluevaton, but I will say that gave it a little context last night that you know, he had he had had a rough time of it. I loved their one on one at the Paris Hotel. That was super fun, dressing up.
And playing dressed up.
They were so cute, and I think she kissed him a little better than most.
I was thinking it was more of a peck.
But she does a lot of pecks. But I think she let him kiss her a little bit. But yeah, yeah, so what if I do like?
I do? Like how he said, don't judge by the cover. You have to read the story. And I will say his story is absolutely riveting, so as many of the other guys.
My Charles Charles, Charles Charles, he's a new man. It was so sad hearing him about his wife's passing, and Joan got emotional with him. He is so adorable. I just I'm glad that he's he's coming about if you will, like accepting And he blamed himself for a long time, and then he realized.
That it was in him.
I don't know if that was because of a language thing or why he felt that way, but Joan was reassuring that. I'm so happy.
Yeah, that was I have to say, before we go through any of the other guys, you and I are both very good friends with Joan, and I have to say she is making us golden women, at least me extremely proud. She is so kind. I keep texting her. She is so kind to these guys. She listens to them, She genuinely cares about So, yeah you, Joan.
But the day last night, I said this was hard to watch.
It was extremely emotional, and she agreed, yeah, it was hard, and coming about not being sure. I'm sorry Kathy not being sure if she was ready to open herself up.
And she has said that to us, she's not replacing her husband.
She'll always remember Chalk had a lot to say there.
Right, But wait, I thought when Chalk when they were talking. Of course, to me, Chalk is a front runner, if not the guy, I mean that their their their intimate moments are just so definable and clear to me. But I will say, Joan, when when we have children, when you know we had our kids, we had our first kid, and we couldn't imagine how much we love that child, and could we ever love another child? I think, Joan, it's so clear that she'll never forget John, that her heart is just expanding to bring in a new life. So I just love that.
Like you, Kathy, if you were to meet somebody, you'd never try to replace your husband. He will always take a piece of your mind, your heart, your soul, you know, but you can move on and accept some more love.
Yeah, if I agree, I agree wholeheartedly. Theball were so bruised.
I mean, did you see them kick holding their thighs And I just thought, who is it? Chalk said, we're playing like we're you know, young kids again, but so fun. I wish we had got to play kickball. I love sport.
Look when I hit the lady in the chest trying to play pickleball, that was a lot.
And what about I am not going to lose? Jordan was like he was playing because they play. When they all wanted that one on one time with Joe that at that date. What about Kim writing the song for for Joan and nobody wanted to sing it with him. That just broke my heart.
But so I was gonna say, guy stepped up and sang with him. But you know what, Kathy, I agree with the man. That was his song. No, why do you want the whole crew to do it?
You know?
I just think he was looking for camaraderie. I thought it was such a sweet thing, and it was sad when he went home. But wait, the I think the most poignant are. One of the most poignant parts for me last night was Jonathan when he was talking about packing his suitcase to go home, you know, in case he had to leave the show, in case he was sent home, and he said it just reminded him of when he and he was blindsided and blindside and he said open, I mean talk about just a trigger, opening up that suitcase to pack it, and he said, you know, I'm not enough. I wasn't enough. I'm not sure I'm enough. And I just thought, you know, that is so revealing that this handsome, athletic guy still was so worried about not being enough, and have believe I thought it was just amazing.
How about how John came back and said, you're on a one on one you know you're enough. I chose you to go that never ever feel that way again.
That was beautiful?
Was that beautiful? That's what I'm saying. Joan is so in tune with these guys, and obviously she can only pick one, but she's just so genuine with all these guys. I was so so.
You know what else that I really love what Jonathan that Jonathan said, and I see that tattoo on his chest when he talked about his heritage.
What about Joan? What about Joan with her mom being sick? I just thought, you know your focus? How do you focus? I mean her mom is like ninety two or ninety four. And I just thought, again.
How premitted as her on our show was out of troubles with her daughter, and that emotional tear if you will, she's worried about her mom.
It was a tough night for her. It really was the other thing it was.
It was the other thing I loved was Charles saying, don't pressure yourself, let your heart to take time.
I'll still be here.
Yeah, I was so sweet and that Gary wait a minute before Gary Chuck, remember he said can I talk to you? And he took her outside and he's like, I'm always here if you want to talk. But wait, remember what she made the comment that she made after that, Not only how safe that she felt, but he is a lot like.
John exactly at John And have you noticed it looks like he leaves next week? So I'm a lot concern. But we all know Bachelor Nation. You know, he leaves, goes around the block, and comes back. You know, I'm guessing this is not his swan song on this show.
Or he shows up right before the overnights or something, you know, some ton of yes, there is going.
To be uh, there's gonna be something. Okay, now we have to talk about Gary. Gary. Let me say to you. When Gary said, you know that, have you considered the possibility that your guy is not here? I thought I was very surprised. Honestly, that reminded me sort of of Leslie telling when she was in wherever they were on was a Joey season.
On Joey's in Mexico. We were in Mexico, and.
Yeah, it was like I wanted, I want Joan, and I wanted Joey's girls, and of course he's happily in love with Kelsey.
But absolutely you want to embrace.
You want to embrace, and you hope that these people know what's on the line, and I think they do what clearly Joan does. And I just wish Gary had said, you know what, I hope the love of your life is here.
I support you, And do you think maybe he's not?
Yeah, that's just casting down in her mind. So Gary, I love you, but I I think that was phra rephrase that carry work it out. And then what about Joan? At the Rose ceremony when the guys were going home, she was hugging them, saying it it's not you. I made connections with all of you. I think it's hard enough to send people home. I'm guessing I've never had to do it.
But no, but we were one of them getting sent right like that feeling like waiting for the name to be called. It's you're so anxious and you're guessing. I mean, you're hoping, but you don't know what's going to happen.
But when when she said goodbye to them, she hugged them and you know, had little words of comfort for each one of them. I'm really I am so so she really is. I'm just just so excited for her, and she was so Wait who went home? Kim c k And wait?
How about the football guy Eric Dickerson and Andre Reid?
Hello, I mean there's some big shots.
I mean, I wouldn't you have liked to see in a flag football game?
Oh yeah, I didn't know what they were going to do. And then they ended up doing the kickball.
Yeah.
I mean, all sports are fun, but it's pretty exciting.
That's pretty exciting. You know, those guys were thrilled to meet him.
And how about what Joan said, don't hurt my boyfriends.
I heard that loud and clear. That was adorable.
Yeah know, It's just I think these guys are genuinely having a good time. They're generally some of them are really making strong connections with Joan, and I truly believe we're three weeks in this process is working for Joan, and I think I still hold out the Chalk as the front runner just because of the way they interact with each other. But you know, she's with Jordan guys. You know, you can see that she's making some connections and she.
Hasn't had a one on one with guy yet. No, I think she's probably My guess would be that she will give him a one on one time since she'd like to get to know more.
Because Kathy, you know as well as I do those.
Three minute times with somebody.
You know what else I noticed?
And tell me if you saw this or feel this, I watch the conversation or listen to the conversation in that short period of time, and I noticed, like with Gary and I we were generic talking what's your schedule, like what's your morning routine? And yet others go right down deep and they tell their feelings and how they were hurt or what their experience was.
And then others are real light, you know, And I think, I think she truly has a great bunch of guys.
And I cannot wait for week four and find out if Chalk is really gone or what's going on there. But in the meantime, we're just gonna wait for her cast off. Oh it was Greg who was sent home. It was all right because I'm wearing my sweater guy. I call him my sweater guy. Whatever you want to wait, Greg, he calls me.
Kathy is very interesting and interested. If you will, Susan, you're listening, Greg, give her a ring ding thing.
Susan's my wing woman. All right, Well, we got to move on to our questions here. But we can't wait for week four.
I know, I love doing this every week while it's fresh on my mind, you know.
All right, So Susan, you want to start us off. Let's get going here. You want to start us off for the question of the day.
Oh, Keith Dougie, Will we.
Okay, what's one thing about getting older that you wish you knew sooner?
Hm?
For me, I will that I had known that it's it's something that you can't avoid. And so instead of saying things like I used to say, oh, I don't want to get old, I don't want to get old, now I feel like it is a gift that I have the wisdom, the good health, the understanding of life, that it's a gift getting older.
What do you wish you knew that.
It's that it's okay to get older. I think I was so afraid of it before. I don't want to get older. I wish I knew that getting older comes with privilege and understanding and wisdom.
I know it now.
I wish I knew that all the confidence that I have in myself and all the life experiences, well that you kind of figured you were going to get, but the confidence that we have at this age and we know ourselves and truly love who we are. I didn't know if I was going to love myself, you know what I mean?
It comes, and I think I think I'm I think that there's so many gifts of age. I I just wish I could have known the gifts were coming before I had.
I didn't know about all the aches and pain some days, but I get hurt easy.
Yeah. They don't tell you that that. That's not the handbook. That's not the handbook.
All right, Kathy, we're going to get into these fan questions, and what's our first one today?
Cast? All right, all right, let's go here. All right, Anonymous rights Okay, Dear Susan and Kathy. I first want to say how much I've been enjoying your podcast. You are one of a kind women that I have come to consider as my coffee buddies.
I love that.
I love that I do. We're thrilled to be your coffee buddy. I also I always listen to your podcast with my first cup of coffee, and more importan, I truly look up to you and value your opinions as if you were my other mother's.
Oh.
I love that. Sweet. Okay, here comes the question. I need your advice on quite a serious issue. Three years ago, I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's lymphoma and had to undergo aggressive chemotherapy for six months. I've been remission since and have also gone back to work and managed to get promoted twice, so I knock on wood that I have a very privileged life. I was single when I got sick and have been single since. Not one date, not one flirt. Looking back at the past three years, I now realize that chemo had a much more severe side effect when it comes to my self confidence, especially with regards to my physical appearance. I hate to admit it, but losing my hair really impacted me, and I am only now finally regaining trust in myself and getting out there. I met a man two months ago at work. He was just hired at the place where I work, at a rank higher than mine. He is incredibly kind and smart and funny, and the feelings that I already have for him are like nothing I have ever experienced. We have been discreetly dating and it is getting serious by the day. Wow. Although we are technically not doing anything wrong as he is not my direct supervisor, it is quite frowned upon for us to date due to the difference in hierarchy. I can only imagine the gossip it would generate at work, But most importantly, I am so scared it could impact my career that has been advancing so well. You can understand that, especially as women, the world is tougher on us than it is on men, and so I would get a bigger backlash than he would. He understands and has been very discreet and supportive. But we can't keep dating in secret, and I can't keep living like that, especially that I see this relationship working out in the long run. I am really falling for him, But my job is so important to what do I do? Wow, First of all, congrats on successfully fighting Hodgkins lymphoma.
God bless you.
Yes, so congrats to you on that.
It does it? Is there a law in that?
Well, she said, it's most.
I know it's frowned upon, but maybe keep it discreet until you really decide either you're going to move in or get married, and then you go to your boss before the boss hears it.
But you'd have to be so cool. I would fail profusely. I mean I would look.
At him in certain ways. I know I couldn't hide it. I don't know how well you do it. And you say he's doing a good job of it. Avoid him in the workplace.
That's hard to the thing is it is?
What's the other option?
Well, I've got a few ideas here. I like your idea. She's it's a difference in hierarchy, which means he's obviously at a higher level than she is. And so that's probably what they frowned upon, because then it looks like nepotism or something off.
She be like, yeah, you're sleeping's the top exactly?
I think. I don't know. I hate sayings to her because she's been through so much already. And I'm first of all delighted that you've met someone that you're so excited about. But I have to say to you, you've only met the guy two months ago.
It's so new that you are already.
And I get it because you haven't been dating Susan and I make jokes all the time. You know, we haven't had a date, but the.
Reality is there. First, he's great, he.
Just got hired. But here's the thing, none of that matters right now because you've only known him two months, so you know, get to know him a little bit better. This may all be much ado about nothing. You may decide next week that he's history, or he may decide your history. But ill I know, but I would encourage you to don't fall too hard, too fast unless you're on the Bachelor and then you got about ten weeks and make.
It happen, because that's my problem.
Yeah, But I mean, I think if it does get serious, Susan's right, you could go to the boss and say, you know, we could get truth, or one of you could look for a similar job in the same industry at another company. I mean, you're not the first one, but they're not the first one that.
Has to do. I know people in companies that they get married, you know.
Yeah, she doesn't say whether that's possible.
But it's only two months, but I do.
But I'm glad. I'm glad. We're glad that you know your hair's grown back, that you're healthy, that you have more confidence. Keep that up, girl, regardless of what happens with this situation. Just keep being the strong person that you have become due to your illness.
And it seems to me that you are a very good, hard worker, confident and strong as hell to go through all that.
Don't let this side now.
If you have to, like I said, as it advances, then you go sit down with your boss.
And I don't necessarily agree. Just one more quick comment, that the world is tougher on women than it is on men.
I think those days are are over.
I think both of you will get back last Yeah, I think you both would get even backlash. That's the hope.
Okay, thanks and we wish you all the best.
Yeah, let us know.
Let us if you decide to get married, call me. I'll come out and do it.
Stay healthy, Anonymous, Stay healthy.
This is also from Anonymous. Hi, Susan and Kathy.
I love listening to the show, and you both have really encouraged me to find true love in myself and someone will come to me when the time is right. I love that I'm reaching out because me and my best friend have never been in a serious relationship for both twenty seven and my best friend is now in the talking stages with a guy she really likes. I met him recently and overall did not get good vibes from him. He just seems like he's not good enough for her and has some frat boy red flags and behaviors, which is overall just very obnoxious for a twenty eight year old. She was genuinely so distraught, not mad at me, but felt like she was seeing the same things. But didn't know what to do because she really liked him. She then had a productive conversation with him and has been recently seeing him more, meeting his family, and says she really likes him. I can't shake my impression of him and still feel very detective. How do I get over this and genuinely support her if she is happy? I'd love to hear any advice you ladies may have.
Thanks.
You know what Nike says, not her problem. Just do it, get over it? Just how do you do it? Anonymous? You just do it. You had to talk with her, which I'm not sure I would have done. Maybe I would have been your best friend. She heard you, she had a productive conversation with him. You've done your deed.
Leave her alone, let her live her life. Yeah, and you if you're yes, I do.
And if you're a real friend and it doesn't work out, you don't have to say I told you so.
You just be there for But.
Maybe try to see something else on the better side of it. Maybe he is trying to change.
I mean, if she's happy, she's happy.
Yeah, leave it alone.
I mean, and you know what do you think? I hate to say this. Do you think there's a little bit of envy.
Because maybe it could be yeah, a little bit that one. And they're young yet they're twenty seven and twenty eight.
Well that's not how it's big.
It's big.
But let her handle it, all right.
All right, let's get on here. Good and good luck, good luck with this absolutely.
Okay.
Another question, Another anonymous person writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan, I just love your podcast. I love hearing your perspectives on different topics. I am something that has been bothering me and I want your opinion. Please keep this anonymous. Well, yes we will. Backstory. I've been divorced for six years. During that time, I have dated, but nothing serious until now. I met someone online and have been with him for almost two years. We're having a blast. I can truly be my one hundred percent self with him. He is amazing. I am so happy. I was picky because I finally found my guy. The issue is I don't really have the support of my sisters. It's strange. Actually they're happy for me, but one recently told me they feel he is trying to keep me in a bubble. They feel we don't do enough with other people. But honestly, we're just enjoying ourselves. We don't need to be with others to keep us happy. We do surprise dates, we travel, We have adult children that are included in a lot of our hobbies. I'm forty seven and he's fifty four, and don't get me wrong, we love to hang out with others, but we really enjoy our alone time too. We do try to balance friends and being by ourselves. To back it up, when I was single, I did see my friends more and my sisters. But isn't this what being with a partner is? Isn't this my end goal? I feel as if my sisters enjoyed me being single way more than me having someone. I was available to them twenty four to seven as I didn't have anything else going on. Some of my friends, who are very happy for me and extremely sp or to say they are jealous, but seriously jealous of their sister. I find that odd. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
You keep enjoying your man.
Tell your sisters, you guys need to be happy for me.
This is what my end all is, This is what I want out of life. No, no, no, don't feel guilty, Anonymous.
I gotta say, Susan and I answer a lot of questions, and I'm reading this going seriously. I'm saying the same thing you're saying, like you could have written the answer. I mean, they might be envious, they might be jealous. I think you're right. They loved having you around twenty four to seven. So you know what, get tell them to get over it.
You are and by the way, guilty.
Susan and I are envos that you have found your forever guy. Congrats to you, and we both wish you a lifetime of happiness.
Absolutely gosh, I mean, she's so happy.
Mysters, they travel, they have adult children, they see, they do surprise dates.
Anonymous, does he have an older brother?
A single older brother?
Love it all right?
Question number four Casey, Yes, I think his heurname is Cassie.
Cassie Okay.
I just love your show and your upbeat, positive spin on everything.
Your advice is always honest and spot on.
I noticed that lately you have been focusing on dating and relationship issues. But I have a question about grandparent parenting, and since I know you are both grandmothers, I was hoping you could help me. I have a very close relationship with my children and see my six grandkids several times a week. Each of my daughters has three children. They range in age from three to eleven. I am constantly babysitting as well as picking them up from school, helping with homework, and help prepared dinner. I absolutely adore my grandchildren and they give me so much love. Right back, I was a very easy going mom and didn't have a whole lot of rules. My kids were really well behaved and I rarely yelled or punished them. The problem is that my kids have lots of rules as parents, and I am having a hard time enforcing them. My children get upset with me because I tend to let things go and don't reprimand the kids when they break those rules. But I believe that the joy of being a grandmom is not having to discipline. Have either of you had this issue? Is there any advice you can give me? Oh baby, do I feel you?
Yes?
My daughter gets so mad at me, you know what, and I get mad at her because they're always punished. They never have this, They never have their iPad like my goodness. Yes, grandmoms are post to spoil kids. However, if they did something disrespectful I'm certain.
You would reprimmend them. Am I right, cat, you agree.
You're gonna shocker talkers. I don't agree with you, I partially agree with you. Here's the thing, my in law, Well, i'll tell you why. I think it depends on how you're spoiling. Spoiling them my kids, mine in laws. It was if I said white, they said black, and if I said black, they said white. In other words, they would do exactly the opposite of what I wanted to be contrary. Wait, so my I would say to my in laws when they came over in my home, listen, don't give the kids cookies at five o'clock, because, like I'd be there, we're going to be eating soon. And they were like, no, we get to spoil them. I don't think that's right.
That's the difference.
Well, here's thing. If if the grandmother is taking the kids to her house, then you know what she gets to do. You get to do what you want to do. Cassie, if you're if those kids are at your house. When my kids went to my in law's house, they spoiled and rotten, and I bit my tongue and just thought, you know what, it's their grandparents are going to see them for ten days and then we'll go back to our rules. But if you're going over there and helping them and they're complaining, you know what my advice to you is, Cassie, stop being so available.
So that don't go the same as agreeing with me though I mean, you said you don't agree.
Well, I said, it depends like I don't. I did not like my in laws spoiling my kids, uh you know, giving them literally cake, you know, an hour before dinner. I please, And their answer always was, we're grandparents and it's our right to spoil. And that's what Cassie's saying. So I'm saying, Cassie, reevaluate how you're spoiling them. It just because you're the grandmother doesn't give you the right to do everything that you want whenever you want. On the other hand, if if you feel it's your right and they're giving you a lot of flak, then all you have to do is say can't do it today, and one or two things will happen. They'll either find a babysitter or they'll call you up and say, you know what, we really don't care if they have cookies five minutes before dinner. It's gonna go one way or the other. I mean, do you agree or not?
Yeah, when it comes to cookies before dinner, that's a whole difference. She wasn't mentioning the food part. But I get it because my daughter's rules and their punishments are nothing like. I agree with it this time. But I bite my tongue a lot and I still give it into my grandchildren.
That's all. Yeah.
Well you know what, Oh, my favorite game's coming.
I can I'm so excited.
I want to veto this.
I love this game. All right, here we go. We're gonna play more al quandary. You know the rules, Susan. You're gonna guess what I would do, and then I'm gonna guess what you would do, or say. I'm going to get to started with the first one. Here we go. You ready, let's have a little enthusiasm here. Okay, your daughter has been really stressed out. Say you've been babysitting more than usual. You accidentally cursed in front of your grandchild and she ended up getting in trouble at school for using that word. Your daughter comes to you really upset and assumes it's her husband's fault. Do you fess up or keep quiet? Susan Knowles would burst out laughing and say, have I read?
Is just stupid?
Next, I mean, seriously, of course we're gonna tell. You're gonna tell though that was me. You're gonna go let your son in law get blamed, are you?
Depends if he's been nice to me that week?
Oh my god?
Moving on, No, that was bad all right? You found out that your child cheated exam without getting caught and got a very high score. Now they've been accepted to a very good law school that you're paying for.
What do you do?
Can I answer this question? Yes, it's impossible to cheat on the l SAT. I'm an educational consultant, so but let's just pretend it is possible. It's not. You know what I'd say, I'm so proud of you. I'm so proud of you going to Harvard Law School. Congratulations, Because you know what, that's one test of it's one predictor. I mean whatever, I just broke the rule and I gave the answer. But because that's I know what.
Every ladies and gentlemen, wait, make everyone aware of what just took place.
Did you see and hear that, Susan, Kathy, zippit.
I'm not sipping it. Do you know what the el sat is?
He broke the law, she broke the rules.
Let me just say that, this would be Kathy one Susan one thousand and one. I think I'm still waiting to.
Make that point because she just got caught.
You recently got a new dog and absolutely loved it. It's very well trained, except it doesn't do very well around your young grandchildren, who play a little too aggressively. Your daughter confronts you about this and asks you to do something about the dog, since you often have to babysit the kids at your house.
What do you do? What will you would do? I let me think, I'm not sure if you would lock up the dog or tell your daughter that she could do one of the two. You'd either say I'll lock up the dog, or you would say, listen, I've got this dog. I can't you know. We're just gonna have to well, your kids are gonna have to learn to play nice.
Get my grandchildren and say this is what happens when you do this.
Is that what you would do?
Yeah, teach them.
You can't do that in front of the dog, and if the dog's really out of control, yes, I.
Would lock it up.
But what do you think I would do?
You would probably put the dog away.
For the kids, I would do exactly what you would do. I would take them. I hate this game. I don't know anything I would teach. I would but exactly the same thing. I would teach them about the dog. And then if if it was getting bad, I would you know, I would lock up the dog. It's your grandkids, after all, They're not replaceable.
Exactly.
Okay, Your close friend, roommate and her boyfriend begin having a disagreement as the three of you are hanging out. Your friend is very clearly in the wrong, but is standing her ground and refuses to apologize. The boyfriend, who has also become a good friend to you, looks to you for help. What do you do, Oh, Susan, this is a no brainer for you. You are going to call it out exactly how you see them.
Yes, ma'am, Okay, what am I going to do? I think you would do the same.
Okay, this is getting scary. We're agreen again.
Because these questions. You're at a concert.
It's wait a minute, it's because no, it's not because of the questions. It's because you and I have such high moral standard. Step.
Yeah, I'm truthful. I wouldn't want to like embarrass or anything. But yeah, hey yo, because I've done it. Next one, Oh, you're at a concert for an artist you love. You're having a blast until the group next to you starts getting really rowdy, singing loudly, filming themselves with flash and occasionally getting you in the background of the videos. Do you confront them, try to focus on having a good time, or try something else?
You are just going to join in and party with them? Am I? Right?
It depends if they were pissing me off or something.
I'm like, yo yo, But yeah, you're outside of a concert.
I mean, I mean that's what am I gonna make it?
Really? Why are you being a stick of a month and you shouldn't go to concerts?
Wait? What am I going to do?
You would have been partying with them from the jump Street. I mean, forget about I.
Would have been I would have been sliding into their.
Su post it.
I think Kathy and I would definitely be on these people's videos on purpose, Like we would definitely jump in.
Oh for sure, we would jump in Oh my.
Gosh, thank god that game's over.
Oh come on, you did such a good job, Susan. You're getting better all the time. Your moral standards. I love it. Okay, well, I hate to break the news to you, Susan, but this is going to do it for this episode of Happy Hour. Thanks everybody for joining us. We hope you've had as much fun as we've had.
I sure hope they do.
And don't forget submit some questions because look what we do with them, and just submit them to Bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour. We really love to connect with you guys and like to know what's going on in your world and your mind and keeping our advice. I mean, you could take it or leave it, it doesn't really matter, but we love doing it.
Wait, I have an idea, Susan, before we sign off here, how about if they send us their own moral quandaries? What do you think we can like.
To send them?
All?
Right?
We we love it. We just can't wait to see you next time. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts until next time. See you. Then, have a great day. Yeah,