Bachelor Happy HourToday on “Golden Hour,” we have fan favorite from Jenn's season and future “Paradise” star Hakeem with us! Hakeem is here to spill the tea on his life post-show. We get into what he's most excited about for “Paradise” and who he has his eye on. Then, we discuss our question of the day: What is your idea of romance? Plus, he offers advice as we dive into your listener write-ins! What do you do when you suspect your boyfriend is jealous of your bestie? Is a cross-country move a romantic gesture or a red flag? We get into it all! Tune in now, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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We have some great questions today to our special guest.
Our fan favorite from gen season of The Bachelorette and another future and handsome handsome How many times can we say it?
Paradise star Hakeem hi Hick, Thanks so much for joining us. We are so excited to be chatting with you. We're both looking for dates and we're thinking we might be able to help us out.
I mean, I would love to take both guys.
It's a whole new shine, a romance or a perfect date.
Yeah, we want to know before we decided we're going with you.
M Yeah, I mean so I would have a little you know, a little well, I would say, mattress, not a mattress, a little.
Hold.
No, no, not with us, not with us for real? Like your idea, if you want to impress someone and take someone on a romantic date, what does that look like?
The most romantic date I've ever taken a woman on was going to the beach late at night kind of looking at the stars, you know, when on the beach, and also with the.
Wine, not trying to get her to the lifeguard stand or anything.
Right, you know, why how came you know why Susan knows that she knows every lifeguard stand on the East coast.
Apparently that was love. That was really love, even for you. That was love. Welcome about Okay, it was Kathy joking. Susan is a nun.
I don't know the generation today probably doesn't maybe do things like that, but that's the first thing that came to mind.
It's romantic. Oh, we're gonna all right, so wait, we got to go.
Since we're talking about dating and Paradise, congrats to you on getting a ticket to Paradise.
Well you already know. What are your thoughts? What do you what do you think about this your journey? What are you thinking?
Honestly, I'm so excited.
Like when I say so excited, I don't know what to anticipate because I thought I knew what I was going to anticipate going into you know, Jen's journey, And let me tell you, I did not know what I was getting myself in too, So I'm really just trying to have no expectations going there with the open mind.
How would you feel Susan and I show up.
We already asked them, do you have anybody that you know, you wish.
That you want there? Who do you want you would to be there?
Okay, yeah, because we can help me that with that.
And no one's no one's listening. This is not going publics and just spill, spill your guts to us.
No, no, there's no be doing at all. So there was this lady by the name of Olivia. She was on the last season The Bachelor in Paradise. Actually, yeah, she's the light skin, curly hair.
Are you chatting with her?
No?
I have not.
Chatted with her because I don't know if I'm able to chat with them or if I'm not supposed to or just wait, I.
Don't know if she's on the show yet. Right, is she going on there?
It's called the d M.
Yeah, you know you just said how hips is in and we know it's called the slide.
Because they told us that was going to happen.
However it has.
If you're waiting, listen, if you're waiting for the girls to come knock, as handsome as you are, if you're waiting for the lovely ladies to come knocking in the door and say, how came, where have you been on my life?
That's not happening.
So get get your computer, tablet out and start doing what you need to do.
All right, fill us in on your own.
I can't think I'm a shooter. I'm a straight shooter. I'm not a person that's gonna sit around a way.
That's why I can't.
I didn't want to rush.
The process because I feel like it's a process. I really want everyone to see that I do have compatibility with her.
Listen, I'm more the competitive Why would you want to risk Olivia meeting ten other guys? Go grab her now, take you know, go for the wind now, for the wind now.
But you don't know I follow her right now. I'll follow her right now.
Right now, follow her. Hackem. We're going to rewind this whole thing.
Hackem three. Two what hakeem? Do not reach out to her, go to paradise. Let what's going to happen?
Happen? Disagree? Let fall in love or don't fall in love. But we all know the process works, you know, fall in love under the stars in a beautiful.
Blah blah blah reach out reach that let her know.
Well, now you've seen it all.
Right, tell me about your life. What's happening now?
Besides, I'm I'm very much focusing about myself right now. I'm not really dating really traditionally. Would you say, uh, you know, the process of getting to know gen and just getting to know all the producers and all that my castmates, it really allowed me to find out more about myself or where I lacked, if that makes sense?
What did you find out? What I put.
A I think I put everybody above myself, like my mother, my best friends, my family, anybody like really I put their needs and their wants above my own.
Yeah, big difference. Big so like it's exactly me as well to a fault.
I'm like, well, you know what it all in.
I'll give you all you want.
I don't think we'll ever change. That's our nature. However, what I've gotten out of it, Like you're saying, I fell in love with who I am. I'm good people, as you fell in love with yourself.
We're worth it.
Let people, do you know you don't have to put everybody else higher than you.
You're good I appreciate that.
No, it's uh yeah, it's been a it's been an interesting journey for myself in journaling, you know, talking to my family, because my family is not very emotional, you know, we don't have those little deep talks usually kind of suppression field.
You come from a large family, Hakeem.
Yes, yes, I would say I have. I have six siblings.
I would say that's a large family. What you hesitated? What do we need? What do we need? A Baker's doesn't here to consider it a large.
Yeah, it's just it's just complicated.
Where do you come in on the family. I'm in the middle, in the middle.
Child, a middle child, so I got no.
Love, always eager to please.
Well, so what I want to know. I was the youngest, so you know, different different places the oldest, but I was not spoiled. Okay, I have a question. We heard that you had went to a dating coach, five thousand dollars dating coach.
I want to know. First, we gotta talk. We gotta talk.
I did it too clearly.
You're hilarious.
I spent so much damn money and look at me.
Now, you're beautiful. I'm looking at you.
God bless you. But tell me what did it do for you? What was your experience?
Like I didn't do excuse my friends, a damn thing for me.
So for me, I was so heartbroken because my ex girlfriend at the time broke up with me over text. Next, I think, but I take the responsibility of why we why I didn't see things in other people's point of view, right, So you kind of communicate with somebody and then you deliver it how you think is the best way, but not thinking how she might be receptible.
How she hears it exactly.
And you know, at that time, I was a young, a little boy in my If I look at it now and yeah, so I think she did the absolute right thing.
I wish she would have broke up with be in person, but she broke up with Melber.
How long did you dated her?
Just about a year?
Well, see, I think that's that's a long time. And I know you at thirty.
I mean, you learned something from every relationship, right, and that's and that's the value.
Even if your her heart's broken, you learn.
So tell me you've paid all this money for some dating advice or a site that's yes, tell me to.
Tell So she broke up with me over text message, and I wanted to get this woman back, and I was so desperate because I felt like I screwed up so bad.
I need help.
So then I looked up on YouTube how do you get my ex back? And there was like if we're if you want to get your installed midst of one thousand dollars and I'll get your girl back.
And I'm like, I'm crying. I'm crying.
I got from my credit card and my credit card love, I made my credit card and.
Old we'd be fighting over you. We would be fighting over you. So what did they tell you? Anything? The right thing? Come on?
They well, first of all, I didn't get this woman back, but he literally told me. He said, give her thirty days of radio silence or make her miss you. I'm like, dude, I don't think she's.
Gonna miss she broke up with me exactly.
So nonetheless, I took his advice and gave her three days.
And then he's like, reach out to her and ask her about a special moment that.
You had to get. Oh my god, you're trying to go to like a restaurant that you guys want.
I could be making money.
This is cry could tell you this is go on, go on.
But I did it and it kind of did work, so right, I get her to reached back out and she's like, yeah, it was at this cafe blah blah blah.
So I was like, cool, So I got her for a little bit.
He got her attention.
Potentially, you got her, she said, you got her attention.
Attention, attention, okay.
But so then I asked her on a date. He's like, just trying to make her fall back in love. We can go back to the roots.
Okay.
So then I, you know, I take on a date. And then she didn't wish me a happy birthday. So I was like, there's no way, Like, there's no way I'm going to be chasing somebody that doesn't care about me to the point that they're not going to wish me a happy birthday.
Guys, did wait?
I got to ask the obvious question, did she? I mean, I thought, where you're going with the story? You called her a month later? She said, I came, who what? How would you wait a minute?
Wait?
Did you know what's your birthday?
I mean, if you're dating me for a year.
That would have went in my phone with a reminder yearly. I know, I know, I love you. That's what I'm okay, I can, I can.
I just do this and here you two can have your little kumbaib over. No, stop, she's not going on.
They were.
So listen.
I paid quite a bit of money, okay, and it was on all those free sites. The first date. Now, I specified what I wanted in the background checks and the whole bit. The very first date.
You ready, I'm ready, I'm I'm locked in hell, I can't wait.
At that time, it had to be a certain height. I didn't want a man with small young children, you know, bablah blah blah blah.
He was.
Not the fald doesn't mean anything. I like a shape head, but it was bald. He was three inches shorter than me. He had seven children and lived on a farm and from Green School middle school.
Was like, this is my I mean?
And I shared with him my expectation and we laughed about it, and I said, I'm sorry, I don't want to waste your time. Second date, and then I'll stop. Second date. I had already gone out with that guy from a free site. I go and I pay five thousand dollars. I want to blow up this place. You know I went in that place. I would even tell you the words, but seriously, it's a rip off.
Shout out to that farmer though he's holding it down.
Said God bless. He was a nice guy. He was really nice guy.
Not my guy. I mean, I can't even compete with this.
I only only thing I've even come close to is a dating expert called me our Froe was on the show and wanted me to sign up. And you got a bargain because guess what she wanted me to pay. And I'm not joking the thirty five thousand and you know what I told her. Well, I can't say play company, but you can imagine what I said.
Uh no, no, I can't.
Killed had something to do with, you know, pain kidding me? Well, no, I didn't say that, but we want to cleaning up my image, so god but she uh then called me like six months later and said she had this guy in Florida that she really wanted me to meet.
And how do I feel about that? I said, I feel great about it. Let's go.
She goes, well, there is the matter of pain, and I said, are you for real? I said, I am not pain to meet a guy if he's not hot to meet me, he can pay, and she goes, well, I'll have to see if he's willing, And I said, you know what I just I mean, we're done. We're done hearing you with an exclamation mark.
All right on behalf of the dating sites. I can't shoot them all down. I'm married.
You can ask a question. Yes, Susan, I heard your dating somebody. I heard somebody was like a fan who wanted to take a picture. Then you started liking him, like, what's going on?
We get a dinner from time to time. He doesn't want serious, he's not my man, but we're friends.
Yeah, so now it was Dayton, look like we all like y'all.
Right, now it's how came you? You want to hear what my dating life is like? Hell yeah, listen, crickets again.
I'm with you, though I'm rocking with you. I'm crickets too.
I get I don't.
However, I live in our best life.
We are living our best life, and that's the thing for both of us. We are happy, we are in love with ourselves who we are, and you seem like you are too.
It's going to happen, howey, when the time is right, will happen?
I did get a little chit chat phone call. We'll see where that goes.
I haven't met him yet, but yeah, okay, all right.
So a random call. Hold on, wait, I'm so sorry.
I can't somebody that's been in the same bachelor world. Yeah, so we'll say I can't tell you well, yeah, okay.
And you're from the Golden Bachelorette. Hold we got to dive intoday, okay.
So as we're moving along here, Hakim, So we do these things and we read these questions from our fans and we give advice. Would you be willing to do that with us?
Let me go here Ki, Kathy and Susan and Hakim. I'm not sure what to do, and I really need your help. I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over eight months and I really really like him. We're thinking of moving in together when my lease is up in a couple of months. Everything between us is really great, except for one thing. He really doesn't like my best friend Rob. I've been friends with Rob since kindergarten. We've grown up together, and he's basically family. I really don't understand why he doesn't like Rob. Rob and I have never, in the entirety of knowing each other, had any kind of romantic connection, and trust me, I asked our mutual friends once my boyfriend started acting weird about Rob. Rob was in a long term relationship when my boyfriend and I started dating. They broke up about four months ago because Rob's girlfriend was cheating. Ever since they broke up, Rob's been burying himself in work to avoid dealing with it, so, needless to say, it's not like he started clinging to me. Quite the opposite. My boyfriend hasn't outwardly said he dislikes Rob, but I can tell. When I name people that are coming to something, or I talk about my friends, his mood visibly shifts when I mentioned Rob. I've asked if anything happened, but my boyfriend says it's fine, it's nothing, he likes Rob, etc. I'm starting to feel crazy. I really want to know what the big deal is, but I feel like I'm about to reach the point of pestering. Do I just put my suspicions aside and keep inviting Rob's to things? Do I mention this to Rob to see if he knows anything. Anything helps?
Thanks? Lady, love you, What do you think, what do you think.
To be honest with you, it seems like is her best friend correct?
Yes, and then her boyfriend is kind of Rob.
Rob was in a long term relationship when she and her boyfriend started dating, but they broke up four months ago because Rob's girlfriend was cheating, right.
Her boyfriend's jealous something. It's jealous, That's.
What it seems like here.
Because I'm just I think she should absolutely be there for you know, for Rob, because I have best friends that are women as well, and I think.
And you have two new best friends right here, and we're women, we are we.
Know, So I think with Rob, I think she actually needs to be there for Rob to be known as Kindergarten, Like that's your rid died, Like that's your homie for life.
He goes through with without the lovers. You know, he's there for So do you think.
She should say something to her boyfriend like there's something up your butt?
I mean, what what's your.
Problem with Rob?
Yes, that's I call communicating trust. There's obviously a trust issue here. There's it's a trust issue or.
Could it be you know some guys you just don't rub right with another guy. I'm sure there's people in your life that are like, I'm not really crazy about him. He's fine, but I'm not going to choose to hang out with him. Like there's no bad blood, but there's bad blood. Like nothing happened, but you just don't feel it's like.
It's it's it's like love hate and the worst one is indifference, you know, just and.
It could be.
I don't know what advice would you have communicate I let it go, let.
It move on, go to a beach and go swimming.
Well, honey, if we ever get married, Rob is my best man, so get the fuck over it.
You know, I mean yeah, I mean if you asked me. And it depends on their age too, because you think like a man and a woman can never be friends without them being like something. But that's like the mindset. Yeah, I'm with you, ladies. He needs to get over him, so honestly, but she should have a communication. She'd be a conversation with him kind of to like figure out what's the disconnected from her him and Rob.
Yeah, and if he says nothing so bad, it's nothing.
Move on, right? Yeah? I think this is like Shakespeare much anew about nothing. All right, we have another one.
This one's from Mary. Okay, Hi, all three of us. I have a problem with one of my best friends and I can't tell anyone, so I need your help. Her name is and I found out that she's recently been seeing someone who is planning to file for a divorce. The guy is her dad's employee. He's been married for seven years, and I have no idea why they're breaking up, but apparently she started fooling around with him six or seven months ago. She told me that they were already separated by then, but the timeline feels so sketchy. Oh boy, no one but me knows about them, and the guy doesn't even know that I know. What makes it even worse is that he's thirty six and what's twenty two. God that's a crazy age gap, if you ask me. I feel like her dad will absolutely flip out if.
He finds out.
I recently went to parents' anniversary party and the guy was there. Apparently her dad invited a bunch of his employees. It was so awkward being there and being the only person that knew. I just feel like dating him is a really bad idea, isn't it Like the biggest red flag in the world that he's fourteen years older than us and not even filed for a divorce.
Am I crazy?
I can't tell if I'm just too young for this stuff, but to me this seems insane.
What do I do? Thank you?
Elli?
Wait, I just before hockey, I just got to say the teen years pales in comparison to the guy is stepping out of his marriage. What she thinks, Oh, he's found the right one if he's come on, like really, hello, No, what do you think?
I can No, I'm so against this, Mary, you are in a very awkward situation.
And I hear you on this.
First of all, I'm not a big person that's like, oh, in fourteen years. So like, if you're thirty five, you're doting a forty nine year old, that's all right. But if you're twenty two fresh to college, yeah, being a thirty six year old man.
That's called daddy, that's called daddy.
That all doesn't go into effect until you're thirty or not.
No wait, wait, listen, I came. Here's the truth.
When you are twenty two and the other person thirty six, that's fourteen years.
You have a lot of growing to do.
Yes, at my age, you know I would dat years for I would date something ten or twelve years younger, not older, because they'd be six feet under. But I'm saying it's it's different at that young age.
It's very different.
Unfortunately, I feel like this girl is going to get hurt because he's banging her. And that's about what it is. He's not getting a divorce, and she's going to be the one to try.
He's filed. Are you sure? Yeah, I gotta be honest.
With But she who's been messing with him before he bowed that divorce.
That's why I'm telling you, so she thinks he won't necessarily do it again. On top of everything else.
I'm one, I'm one now. A cheater is always a cheater. I'm not hearing that you think of cheaters.
I was a cheater. On Wait a minute, you think of cheaters. I was a cheater.
Absolutely? They cheating once? Absolutely?
I don't I agree with that.
Right, if you fall hard in love, you're never cheating.
I think ninety percent of the time, you're right, Hakim, But I think there are a few exceptions.
I think there's a few exceptions.
What where's the other ten percent going?
They cheated once? And they're never cheating again.
Mm hmmmm.
I think you're right for the most part. I mean, it's a big thing. It's a big can act.
I can agree with that you're married. If you're married, it's a different level. It's just different level. You literally said to death therestpart, like you know what I mean? So like if you're cheated while you're married, Dad is like yo, Like, m h.
That's cool though that I love. I respect the marriage now.
Yeah, I love. I love your honesty and your respect for era.
Do you want to get married?
Yeah, my My my goal is to get rid. I think, like, uh, I really look forward a marriage.
I mean my unfortunately my older brother is divorced, my older sister's divorced, my mother's divorce. So it's like, uh, I'm I really have a lot of pressure on my shoulders and I got to get this right. But that makes any sense because I don't want to just fall into another marriage exactly. And then just like with my father, like you probably like, why is he so like against cheat? My dad was a serial cheat, so like for me, like for me, like cheating is a no go, especially if you have a family and if you have like you know, a whole marriage.
That's like something that's like a big, like a big like no note for.
Me, beautiful, that's beautiful.
But that being said, like for me, it's just I need to, you know, make sure whoever I'm going to get down on the knee for is that she's locked in with me as well, like she seems us being together forever. So like, I take this so seriously. Hence while I'm still single in trying to find my further person, because you.
Know, a lot of time's right, you will absolutely you gotta kiss a lot of frogs. That whole thing, like you know, it's gonna hit you when you least expect it.
Kiss a lot of frogs. I don't know about all that, but I don't know.
A frog at you know, because a lot of them don't not kiss. Uh, that's a big red flash. We're moving on.
We are moving on, Okay, Serena asks, Hi, lady, I need you to tell me if I need to come back down to huh oh, I'm sorry, Oh, Serena, Okay.
I mean grocery store. Joe's name.
That's okay, Sirtain. If you're single, we've got how came here. But let's go back. Okay, Hi, ladies, I need you to tell me if I need to come back down to earth. I've been with my boyfriend for about seven months now. How came you're out?
Which is a hot minute.
We're both twenty six and I really love him. Everything has been perfect, but the other day my world turned upside down. I found out he got his dream job with a crazy pay raise and it's halfway across the world. I was absolutely devastated. He has to take it. It's a non negotiable. But what do we do now? It just happens, so we haven't even gotten to the point of talking about us. Is it crazy if I want to move with him? Is it too soon? I just really feel like he's the one and I love him. Should I ask him or wait for him to bring it up? I just want to get this figured out because if we end up taking up I'm going to be totally crushed. What do you think I should do? Thank you, and I really appreciate you, ladies. What do you think I came? That's a no brainer for me too.
Yeah, for me, I'm going to say sendy. I think you've got to just go with it. I mean time is very, very precious.
If you love the man and you want to go have that conversation with him, don't hold back.
So you don't think she should wait and see if he brings it up.
Well, what I hear what I'm reading and hearing you say, she's really really in love with him. She says nothing about how he feels. That's what I was That's where I was going. That's where I was going to find that up.
We don't.
Let's find out how hot and heavy he is. They've been dating seven months.
He might be like, oh, hell yeah, I'll see you.
Wait, howkeem you put yourself in this position? You're dating, Oh I don't.
Know Susan or May and we're in love, and we're in love and we've been dating seven months. You're going to quit your job, leave your family, whatever your surroundings, and go move with this person halfway around world world.
I wouldn't say that's crazy in my opinion, because like, okay, what happens if you don't do it?
And no, but what if what if the woman hasn't said to you, please you know she's got the job, transfer please come, I love you.
I can't imagine life for that if she.
Hasn't said that, it just happened. So we haven't even gotten to the point of talking about.
And she's already trying to figure out how to broach the sun. I think, you know what, I think. I think she's very insecure and afraid.
Oh that's big cat, that's big.
I don't know about that.
Feels like she loves him, She's anxious.
You know what. You gotta let things happen in due course. You can't rush things.
Look's talking missus patient over here. I'm talking about dating, not getting dressed.
To go while So Kathy, okay, put yourself there, my Rea, you fell in love with this guy. It's been about seventh Things are going great.
At my age. It's different at my age. I would move and keep my house and go back and forth. Okay, but not at thirty, but you would go why what does she have?
What? What does she have?
There's nothing holding her back to go with this man. That's wait, but that's he's going to have a crazy praise?
What is yeah?
What is her career? What is she she's telling? Yees see, I don't like this. I would want an independent woman, not a hanger on. It's just me, I don't she sounds needy.
I would go with him, rock that new place, get a job there, maybe.
Start a new career. I mean, this is why Susan I love each other. We can never agree.
I think she just a conversation. I think she doesn't beat that for sure, have to lead with him. I think she had that conversation to see where he's.
At, and she would I agree that I can't ask where he's at. But but she's saying, you know, I don't think I can. I'll be crushed to believes I can't. I can't stand at that to me sounds like a desk girl.
Who I mean the words my world turns my world when I fell out, I.
Will be crushed. I mean these are he found a dream job.
I mean like breaking champagne.
Yes, let's celebrate.
Oh no, no, no, that's miss Casside.
Every person is subject to have their own feelings, and I feel like if she feels like her world's going to be crushed, I feel like she has every audacity to say, my world's going to be crushed.
No matter what.
That's how she feels.
No, no, no, she isn't, no.
Matter what, Like even though it might see last nine to you, but like, oh my goodness, But if she really loves this guy, then let her absolutely go and see where this is.
Going to take her.
So wait, wait, I'm not disagreeming with you. I think you're misreading what I'm saying. If he has not brought up the subject, if he I know it just happened.
If he does not bring up the subject.
If he's just like you know, susi Q, I think you're great, you know, plan for you to come over next month.
Well, that's a whole difference I'm saying.
If he is not saying come with me, and she doesn't have a career, and she doesn't have anything but wanted to be with this guy, I think. And they've only been dating for seven months, I think is a red If I were the guy, I would see it as a red flag. Here's the question I have, Since we disagree with it over between us.
Oh, I think you can always agree to disagree. Why can't we be homies and not agree on something?
Right?
Well, were you born? Are you a March baby?
I'm a June baby, a jew baby. My mom's a March baby. Actually is she March? What March first?
I'm the second.
Oh really.
Good people right there?
Right?
When is your birthday? Hockey? He's a jew baby, Oh that's my birthday.
And I got him interested for a minute. Oh, I was like, wait, what you might find this surprising? Archem, I am tourist the bully.
Are you surprised? May not say, though, to astrology either, I just knows, that's all. Oh wow, that was so much. I don't know, but I Serena.
I I'm just going to say one more time, wait and see if if the feeling's mutual, see if he feels crushed, just.
Give it some time.
And half way across what she says again we don't know because she says I want to move in with him, I'll be crushed.
I want to know how he feels. Do we need more information here how it came or not?
I mean I think, I mean, there's a lot of things that she probably could tell us. Yeah, because she did not tell you her situation when he's leaving all that, and third, because you're not gonna have to get up and leave right away.
All right, Well, you know what we agree to disagree, we have, we do. But what really sucked though?
If she does present this to him and he's not wanting her to come.
That's going to but yeah, well better to find out now than moving half far around the world.
We wish you a ton of luck, Luna.
Let us know if you move, let us know, and in the meantime that is going to do it. Unfortunately, already I know it's over.
But for Bachelor I was Golden Hour with our fabulous new friend Hakeem. Thank you, thank you for joining us, and your advice is great. Except for Serena, I didn't agree.
But we're excited, very excited to see you in Paradise. I appreciate that at least we'll know somebody when we get there.
And bring your uncles with you, you know, bring bring your older friends with you.
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