Those small, unspoken hurts don’t just fade, they calcify into resentment and erode the intimacy we long for.
In this episode, Angel explores why forgiveness alone isn’t enough to restore love, the hidden desire that lives beneath resentment, and a practice to help you reconnect from the inside out.

You’ll learn:
• Why “micro-resentments” matter more than big betrayals
• The emotional bank account of love
• How to speak truth without blame
• Why desire is the missing key to repair
• A practical way to clear resentment and re-open the heart

✨ To explore this work in your own relationship, learn more about Angel’s private coaching at https://www.angeldrake.com/newclient 

00:17 — The Hidden Cost of Resentment
Why small, unspoken hurts harden the heart and quietly erode connection.

01:30 — Micro-Resentments and Emotional Withdrawals
How everyday disappointments build up into a narrative of disconnection.

03:40 — Love Isn’t Infinite in Practice
Why relationships require conscious tending, not just unconditional love.

04:30 — The Emotional Bank Account
Understanding how resentment overdraws your relational reserves.

05:30 — The Antidote: Truth Without Blame
How to speak honestly in the moment before resentment piles up.

07:40 — “How Expensive Is It to Tell You the Truth?”
The Om Rupani principle and why psychological safety matters for love.

09:20 — Speaking What’s Really Happening Inside
A real-life example (the dishwasher) and how to express the impact clearly.

12:10 — Receiving Feedback Without Defensiveness
How to digest your partner’s truth without collapsing into shame.

14:00 — Playing the Deeper Game
Turning everyday tension into deeper intimacy and shared understanding.

16:00 — Desire Beneath Resentment
Discovering that resentment often masks a longing to be closer.

17:50 — Forgiveness Isn’t Enough
Why mental forgiveness doesn’t work without the felt shift in the body.

19:00 — Repair Through Desire and Vulnerability
Connecting with what you truly wanted instead of staying in the story.

20:30 — Creating a Culture of Repair
Transforming small moments into a practice of reconnection and awakening.

22:00 — The Practice: Name It as You Feel It
A simple framework to share your inner experience and invite deeper dialogue.

23:30 — Closing Reflection
Love as a path of awakening — and the invitation to play the deeper game.

24:10 — Outro & Coaching Invitation
Angel shares how to explore this work through her private couples coaching.

Those small, unspoken hurts don&rsquo;t just fade, they calcify into resentment and erode the intimacy we long for. In this episode, Angel explores why forgiveness alone isn&rsquo;t enough to restore love, the hidden desire that lives beneath resentment, and a practice to help you reconnect from the inside out.
You&rsquo;ll learn: &bull; Why &ldquo;micro-resentments&rdquo; matter more than big betrayals &bull; The emotional bank account of love &bull; How to speak truth without blame &bull; Why desire is the missing key to repair &bull; A practical way to clear resentment and re-open the heart
✨ To explore this work in your own relationship, learn more about Angel&rsquo;s private coaching at <a href="https://www.angeldrake.com/newclient">https://www.angeldrake.com/newclient</a>&nbsp;
00:17 &mdash; The Hidden Cost of Resentment Why small, unspoken hurts harden the heart and quietly erode connection.
01:30 &mdash; Micro-Resentments and Emotional Withdrawals How everyday disappointments build up into a narrative of disconnection.
03:40 &mdash; Love Isn&rsquo;t Infinite in Practice Why relationships require conscious tending, not just unconditional love.
04:30 &mdash; The Emotional Bank Account Understanding how resentment overdraws your relational reserves.
05:30 &mdash; The Antidote: Truth Without Blame How to speak honestly in the moment before resentment piles up.
07:40 &mdash; &ldquo;How Expensive Is It to Tell You the Truth?&rdquo; The Om Rupani principle and why psychological safety matters for love.
09:20 &mdash; Speaking What&rsquo;s Really Happening Inside A real-life example (the dishwasher) and how to express the impact clearly.
12:10 &mdash; Receiving Feedback Without Defensiveness How to digest your partner&rsquo;s truth without collapsing into shame.
14:00 &mdash; Playing the Deeper Game Turning everyday tension into deeper intimacy and shared understanding.
16:00 &mdash; Desire Beneath Resentment Discovering that resentment often masks a longing to be closer.
17:50 &mdash; Forgiveness Isn&rsquo;t Enough Why mental forgiveness doesn&rsquo;t work without the felt shift in the body.
19:00 &mdash; Repair Through Desire and Vulnerability Connecting with what you truly wanted instead of staying in the story.
20:30 &mdash; Creating a Culture of Repair Transforming small moments into a practice of reconnection and awakening.
22:00 &mdash; The Practice: Name It as You Feel It A simple framework to share your inner experience and invite deeper dialogue.
23:30 &mdash; Closing Reflection Love as a path of awakening &mdash; and the invitation to play the deeper game.
24:10 &mdash; Outro &amp; Coaching Invitation Angel shares how to explore this work through her private couples coaching.

A podcast on sex, love & awakening to evoke the wild, wise, woke one within you. Let's go deep!

A podcast on sex, love &amp; awakening to evoke the wild, wise, woke one within you. Let's go deep!

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