We’ve all been around this person: they appear nice, helpful and giving, but in reality their actions actually have nothing to do with you at all, they have do with them getting  praise and attention.   The help they offer is sometimes even used as a bargaining chip or emotional blackmail and if you don’t accept it, or don’t like it, all hell will break loose.  We have tips on how to recognize a resentful martyr and how to manage a healthier relationship with them.