It's hard to imagine that there would be a dating trend worse than ghosting... but apparently it exists, and it's called "ghostlighting."  It's a toxic combination of ghosting and gaslighting, and it's emerging in the dating world now because so many relationships are undefined "situationships."  It's the perfect breeding ground for manipulation, where a partner feels free to come and go as they please and then make you doubt your own reality!  Whether you're dating or already in a relationship, there are some incredible lessons for us all from dating experts on how to deal with this toxic new trend.