Bethany C. Meyers + Mila Jam join Alex this week to share their stories of being beyond the gender binary. As an Artivist, musician and Black Trans woman, Mila Jam shares the story she always knew in her heart was true - even when she didn't have the words for it. Bethany C. Meyers, celebrated body-neutral advocate and queer-poly-married-non-binary person, breaks down her journey from making her first gay friend to eventually marrying them. What is the gender binary, and why is it so engrained in our upbringing? Are we allowed to continue to change, even after choosing our pronouns? What if someone tells you their pronouns, and you mess up? All this and more is covered on this can't-miss, joy-filled episode.