Do you ever feel frustrated that your life isn’t moving the way you want it to?

What if the problem isn’t a lack of motivation—but a misalignment between what you want and what you’re investing in?

And what if the reason things haven’t changed yet has more to do with safety, identity, and belief than effort?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi opens up an honest, grounding conversation about why the life you want might still feel out of reach—and how your time, energy, beliefs, and nervous system are quietly shaping your reality. From the difference between fantasizing and truly investing, to the way identity, fear, and old patterns can hold you back, this episode is an invitation to look at your life with curiosity instead of judgment.

Rather than pushing you to “try harder” or think more positively, Radhi explores how real change happens when your actions, beliefs, and sense of self begin to align—and why sometimes the thing blocking your growth isn’t laziness, but protection.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why your life reflects what you’re funding, not what you’re wishing for
How misalignment between words and actions keeps you stuck
What “identity lag” is and why growth can feel uncomfortable even when you’re doing everything right
Why your nervous system may not feel safe receiving what you want yet
How belief, optimism, and small shifts in action can gently change your direction

This isn’t about blaming yourself or overhauling your life overnight—it’s about awareness, honesty, and making space for alignment. Sometimes the shift you’re waiting for doesn’t come from doing more, but from seeing clearly where you already are—and choosing one small change in the right direction.

 

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https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/

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Do you ever feel frustrated that your life isn&rsquo;t moving the way you want it to?
What if the problem isn&rsquo;t a lack of motivation&mdash;but a misalignment between what you want and what you&rsquo;re investing in?
And what if the reason things haven&rsquo;t changed yet has more to do with safety, identity, and belief than effort?
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In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi opens up an honest, grounding conversation about why the life you want might still feel out of reach&mdash;and how your time, energy, beliefs, and nervous system are quietly shaping your reality. From the difference between fantasizing and truly investing, to the way identity, fear, and old patterns can hold you back, this episode is an invitation to look at your life with curiosity instead of judgment.
Rather than pushing you to &ldquo;try harder&rdquo; or think more positively, Radhi explores how real change happens when your actions, beliefs, and sense of self begin to align&mdash;and why sometimes the thing blocking your growth isn&rsquo;t laziness, but protection.
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In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why your life reflects what you&rsquo;re funding, not what you&rsquo;re wishing for</li>
<li aria-level="1">How misalignment between words and actions keeps you stuck</li>
<li aria-level="1">What &ldquo;identity lag&rdquo; is and why growth can feel uncomfortable even when you&rsquo;re doing everything right</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why your nervous system may not feel safe receiving what you want yet</li>
<li aria-level="1">How belief, optimism, and small shifts in action can gently change your direction</li>
</ul>
This isn&rsquo;t about blaming yourself or overhauling your life overnight&mdash;it&rsquo;s about awareness, honesty, and making space for alignment. Sometimes the shift you&rsquo;re waiting for doesn&rsquo;t come from doing more, but from seeing clearly where you already are&mdash;and choosing one small change in the right direction.
&nbsp;
Follow Radhi:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/">https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/</a>
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/">https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/</a>
<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia">https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia</a>

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!

There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 

Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more. 

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

A Really Good Cry

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

If Life Isn’t Going The Way You Want, Here’s How To Reset

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