Are your unrealistic expectations the reason you’re still single?
Do you actually want a partner, or just a “perfect” person who doesn’t exist?
Is your dating app profile keeping you single without you even realizing it?
Can you tell the difference between a pet peeve and a dealbreaker?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Logan Ury—behavioral scientist, dating coach, and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge—for an honest, myth-busting conversation on love, dating, and emotional intelligence in the modern world.

 

Together, they unpack the hidden tendencies that quietly sabotage our relationships, the outdated myths we’ve been sold about romance, and why our obsession with “the spark” might be holding us back from something deeper and more real. Logan shares the truth about modern dating apps, how to read digital body language, and what Gen Z is teaching us all about vulnerability and connection.

 

Whether you’re single, dating, or somewhere in the messy middle, this episode is a warm, honest guide to building relationships with more self-awareness, clarity, and compassion.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to spot your unconscious dating tendencies
Why emotional intelligence is more attractive than the “spark”
The difference between a red flag and a personal preference
How to write a dating profile that actually reflects who you are
What to do on a first date—and what to never ignore
The questions to ask yourself before becoming exclusive
How to approach dating with curiosity instead of pressure

 

If you’re tired of feeling like love is something to “get right,” you’re not alone. This conversation is a call back to what actually matters: presence, emotional integrity, and connection that’s honest, even when it’s messy.

 

Follow Logan Ury:

https://www.loganury.com/
http://instagram.com/loganury
https://www.linkedin.com/in/loganury/
https://www.tiktok.com/@loganury

Follow Radhi:
https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ
https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/
https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

Are your unrealistic expectations the reason you&rsquo;re still single? Do you actually want a partner, or just a &ldquo;perfect&rdquo; person who doesn&rsquo;t exist? Is your dating app profile keeping you single without you even realizing it? Can you tell the difference between a pet peeve and a dealbreaker?
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In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Logan Ury&mdash;behavioral scientist, dating coach, and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge&mdash;for an honest, myth-busting conversation on love, dating, and emotional intelligence in the modern world.
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Together, they unpack the hidden tendencies that quietly sabotage our relationships, the outdated myths we&rsquo;ve been sold about romance, and why our obsession with &ldquo;the spark&rdquo; might be holding us back from something deeper and more real. Logan shares the truth about modern dating apps, how to read digital body language, and what Gen Z is teaching us all about vulnerability and connection.
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Whether you&rsquo;re single, dating, or somewhere in the messy middle, this episode is a warm, honest guide to building relationships with more self-awareness, clarity, and compassion.
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In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li>How to spot your unconscious dating tendencies</li>
<li>Why emotional intelligence is more attractive than the &ldquo;spark&rdquo;</li>
<li>The difference between a red flag and a personal preference</li>
<li>How to write a dating profile that actually reflects who you are</li>
<li>What to do on a first date&mdash;and what to never ignore</li>
<li>The questions to ask yourself before becoming exclusive</li>
<li>How to approach dating with curiosity instead of pressure</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
If you&rsquo;re tired of feeling like love is something to &ldquo;get right,&rdquo; you&rsquo;re not alone. This conversation is a call back to what actually matters: presence, emotional integrity, and connection that&rsquo;s honest, even when it&rsquo;s messy.
&nbsp;
Follow Logan Ury:
https://www.loganury.com/ http://instagram.com/loganury https://www.linkedin.com/in/loganury/ https://www.tiktok.com/@loganury
Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!

There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 

Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more. 

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

A Really Good Cry

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

How to Stop Sabotaging Your Love Life; Logan Ury on Dating Myths, Green Flags & Why You’re Still Single

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