Newly Wed Spats

It's normal for young couples to have issues with adjustment when they first get married. Dr. Gary Chapman recommends that couples set aside time each week to bring issues out in the open. This presents each of them with the opportunity to bring up one thing that's bothering them, and commit themse…

Implosive Anger

There are two ways to respond to negative anger - explosion or implosion. Those who might deplore explosive anger fail to understand that implosive anger is just as destructive.

When Someone Won't Apologize

If someone has wronged you and won't apologize, the Biblical pattern is for you to lovingly confront them. This approach may open up the opportunity for them to apologize and reconcile with you. 

Explosive Anger is not Acceptable

If you find yourself becoming angry in an explosive way, you need to ask yourself why you become angry. If someone has offended you, it's your job so seek reconciliation. If you become angry because you didn't get your way, your anger is never appropriate and must be confessed.

Affair on the Internet

How do you deal with your spouse who's cheating on you with someone on the internet? Firmly confront them and make them choose between you or that other person. Their choice will determine the outcome of you marriage. Seek good Christian counseling.

Engaged to Someone With Children

Second marriages are often difficult, especially if the person you married has children from their first marriage. If children are involved, that means your new spouse will most likely have some contact with their former spouse. You may find this hard to deal with. Seek wisdom from your friends who…

Control Your Anger or Your Anger Will Control You

Explosive anger is never constructive. Anger not only hurts the person to whom it's directed, but it also destroys the person who is out of control. Undisciplined anger will ultimately destroy relationships.

Forgiveness and Trust

Some wives might be able to forgive their unfaithful husband, but struggle with trusting them again. Forgiveness opens the door for the possibility of rebuilding trust.

Reach Out for Help

Many of us have never learned how to handle anger positively. This will often lead to broken relationships. Seek out a godly counselor to help you before it's too late to salvage your broken relationship.

The Same Love Language

Wouldn't it be easier if you and your spouse had the same love language? Yes, but each of you might speak different dialects within the same language. Most of the time, however, couples speak different love languages. As the adage goes, opposites attract.