Different Love Languages

It's possible for us to speak someone else's love language but want to receive our own love language. It's common for most of us to speak the love language that best connects with us, but not always.

Incompatible

Your girlfriend thinks you're the one to marry, but you're not so sure. If you've been dating for an extended period of time and still are unable to work through your issues and resolve them, maybe it's time to gently back away.

You Are Not Perfect

Most of us are willing to admit that we're not perfect. If you won't admit your faults to your spouse, it will build walls of separation in your marriage.

Confessing Your Faults

When dealing with conflict in your marriage, it's important to take a close look at what you contributed to the conflict. Even if your spouse is mostly at fault, be sure that you confess YOUR part of the problem.

Focus on the Past, Present and Future

It's important to focus on the present and future state of your marriage, but it's just as important to look back to the past. You must deal with past failures before you can put them behind you.

Combining Checking Accounts

It's normal for couples to have issues that come up when they get married. Finances is often one of them. Talk about it! Consider holding a weekly conference together in which each of you brings up one item for discussion. That will present the opportunity to bring up issues that concern you the mo…

No More Tingles

Has your relationship moved past the tingly love stage? Does it make you wonder if you're still in love? When you come off of the emotional high, you'll see each other in a more realistic light. Learning to speak each other's love language keeps emotional warmth in your relationship.

Our Most Important Relationship

The most important relationship is your relationship with God. If you feel like your relationship with God is growing stale, try expressing yourself to Him in all 5 love languages. You'll be amazed at how that revitalizes your relationship with Him.

Speaking Your Spouse's Love Language

The best way to express your love to your spouse is to speak their love language. An example - if her love language is Acts of Service, cheerfully perform tasks around the house that are helpful to her, even if you don't feel like doing them.

Christianity is a Love Relationship With God

Christianity is a love relationship With God; but what does that look like in daily life? In Dr. Gary Chapman's book, God Speaks Your Love Language, you'll learn how He draws you to Himself when He speaks your love language.