“Ok so… I got married last year to a girl but… unknown to her or anyone else, I’m 
also into guys. I really struggled with it for years and years and only came to terms 
with it really a few years ago when I was already with her. 
As such I really want to try being with other guys which I never have. I have no interest in being with other girls outside the relationship but feel I need this. 
What makes it more complicated is that I have pretty strong feelings for my best 
friend who happens to be gay. He’s always been very flirty which makes it worse and 
I don’t know what to do about any of it. Please help!”

“Ok so… I got married last year to a girl but… unknown to her or anyone else, I’m  also into guys. I really struggled with it for years and years and only came to terms  with it really a few years ago when I was already with her.  As such I really want to try being with other guys which I never have. I have no interest in being with other girls outside the relationship but feel I need this.  What makes it more complicated is that I have pretty strong feelings for my best  friend who happens to be gay. He’s always been very flirty which makes it worse and  I don’t know what to do about any of it. Please help!”

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Experience Joburg's most fun breakfast show. Listen to Anele and the Club on 947 every Monday to Friday from 06:00 to 09:00 on 947 FM or streaming online on 947.co.za.