“Ok so… I got married last year to a girl but… unknown to her or anyone else, I’m 
also into guys. I really struggled with it for years and years and only came to terms 
with it really a few years ago when I was already with her. 
As such I really want to try being with other guys which I never have. I have no interest in being with other girls outside the relationship but feel I need this. 
What makes it more complicated is that I have pretty strong feelings for my best 
friend who happens to be gay. He’s always been very flirty which makes it worse and 
I don’t know what to do about any of it. Please help!”