From a listener:

So, my friend and I were out on Saturday night. We’re vibing out, having a good time when this really hot guy walks past us. We both do the “Oh, he cute” silent look to each other and then carry on. Later on in the night, he comes up to my friend and starts chatting to her, little flirting and Instagrams exchanged. And then, later still, he comes up to me, chats to me and him and I exchange Instagrams. 

So then, on Sunday, I slide into his DM’s and he replies. We chatted the whole Sunday and I think it could go somewhere. I told my friend today and she’s really hurt that I slid in with him because he spoke to her first and she was waiting for him to message.  

Was I wrong for sliding in? I didn’t know this was a “dibs” situation.

From a listener:
So, my friend and I were out on Saturday night. We&rsquo;re vibing out, having a good time when this really hot guy walks past us. We both do the &ldquo;Oh, he cute&rdquo; silent look to each other and then carry on. Later on in the night, he comes up to my friend and starts chatting to her, little flirting and Instagrams exchanged. And then, later still, he comes up to me, chats to me and him and I exchange Instagrams.&nbsp;
So then, on Sunday, I slide into his DM&rsquo;s and he replies. We chatted the whole Sunday and I think it could go somewhere. I told my friend today and she&rsquo;s really hurt that I slid in with him because he spoke to her first and she was waiting for him to message.&nbsp;&nbsp;
Was I wrong for sliding in? I didn&rsquo;t know this was a &ldquo;dibs&rdquo; situation.

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Weeknights get a fresh spark as 5 Nights, Mondays to Thursdays between 19h00 and 22h00, is now hosted by Jodell Tantij. It’s a fresh, youthful night show driven by music discovery, culture, and conversations that keep listeners’ fingers on the pulse of SA youth vibe. The show also introduces a new feature, PH & Friends, airing 19h30–20h00, where DJ PH, a familiar face at 5FM, makes a welcome return to host exclusive mixes and conversations with some of the country’s hottest DJs.

Weeknights get a fresh spark as 5 Nights, Mondays to Thursdays between 19h00 and 22h00, is now hosted by Jodell Tantij. It&rsquo;s a fresh, youthful night show driven by music discovery, culture, and conversations that keep listeners&rsquo; fingers on the pulse of SA youth vibe. The show also introduces a new feature, PH &amp; Friends, airing 19h30&ndash;20h00, where DJ PH, a familiar face at 5FM, makes a welcome return to host exclusive mixes and conversations with some of the country&rsquo;s hottest DJs.