From a listener:

So, my friend and I were out on Saturday night. We’re vibing out, having a good time when this really hot guy walks past us. We both do the “Oh, he cute” silent look to each other and then carry on. Later on in the night, he comes up to my friend and starts chatting to her, little flirting and Instagrams exchanged. And then, later still, he comes up to me, chats to me and him and I exchange Instagrams. 

So then, on Sunday, I slide into his DM’s and he replies. We chatted the whole Sunday and I think it could go somewhere. I told my friend today and she’s really hurt that I slid in with him because he spoke to her first and she was waiting for him to message.  

Was I wrong for sliding in? I didn’t know this was a “dibs” situation.