Yesterday, on Bet You Can’t Find, we went looking for somebody living a double life or somebody who knew one. We received a lot of responses. But one message stopped us.

The woman who sent it did not say she had discovered someone’s secret life. She said she is part of it. For almost ten years, she has been in a relationship with a man whose family and household apparently know nothing about her.

This is not, according to her, a casual arrangement built around the occasional secret message. They travel together. They fly together. She joins him when his professional sporting commitments take him away. And when the phone rings from home, she goes quiet. She knows about them. They do not know about her.

We are calling her Patricia. That is not her real name, and we will protect any details that could identify her, the man involved or either family. Patricia, thank you for trusting us with this conversation.

Yesterday, on Bet You Can&rsquo;t Find, we went looking for somebody living a double life or somebody who knew one. We received a lot of responses. But one message&nbsp;stopped us.
The woman who sent it did not say she had discovered someone&rsquo;s secret life. She&nbsp;said she is part of it. For almost ten years, she has been in a relationship with a man&nbsp;whose family and household apparently know nothing about her.
This is not, according to her, a casual arrangement built around the occasional secret&nbsp;message. They travel together. They fly together. She joins him when his&nbsp;professional sporting commitments take him away. And when the phone rings from&nbsp;home, she goes quiet. She knows about them. They do not know about her.
We are calling her Patricia. That is not her real name, and we will protect any details&nbsp;that could identify her, the man involved or either family.&nbsp;Patricia, thank you for trusting us with this conversation.

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Everyone’s favourite radio breakfast this side of… ANYWHERE! This show has more energy, more laughs, and more delight than any other. It's what South Africa needs to get their day going. It’s better than coffee!Its roaring, memorable radio every single day: the biggest news, hottest debates, craziest scandals, and the weirdest and most wonderful of South Africa, plus the kind of original creative radio that you just don’t get anywhere else. It’s one of a kind in the best way.