This is our saucy segment on The Pulse where we ask our sexpert all your juicy, awkward and embarrassing questions in the hope of elevating your sex life. We’ll ask anonymously. Send any questions through to our Instagram @thepulse au

This chat is with sex therapist and the founder of sex toy concept brand Posmo, Laura Miano.

• What makes great sex? Why is there this pressure that orgasm is the goal. Is that what we’re all aiming for?
• What are some of the common concerns you hear from people that stops great sex from happening?
• You’ve talked about how it’s common that sometimes during sex, people ‘tap out’ and your mind can start to check out or start having too much noise in your head. Why might this happen and what can we do about it?
• Is it normal to need a lot of foreplay?
• Can some people just not orgasm during sex?
  
  You can find Laura on Instagram @lauramianosexology