Sexpert Laura Miano answers your juicy questions to elevate your sex life and relationships. We’ll ask anonymously. You can send any questions through to our Instagram @thepulseau

- How often is ‘normal’ to be having sex?

- What are your top tips for how to have more pleasurable sex?

- Can you tell us a bit more about performance anxiety?

- What advice do you have for people to focus more on pleasure rather than performance?

- Listener question – My boyfriend always wants to keep the lights on when we have sex. I am really conscious of my body and can’t let go and enjoy it with the lights off. Any suggestions? Please help.

You can find Laura on Instagram @lauramianosexology and purchase Posmo’s newly released Posmo Silicone Lubricant plus all your sex toys at posmo.com.au